Thoughts on Chase's Newbie Assignment - Day 4

[RodeoRyan]

I want to start by saying that since I started reading AND applying what girlschase teaches, my success has skyrocketed, no question. I started reading about a year and a half ago. However, I realized last week when I took a step back that my fundamentals could really use some polishing, so I decided to humble myself and see if I could even complete his Newbie Assignment with no problems. It's actually been more difficult than I thought...

This morning I was walking to work - a walk that usually involves walking past many girls - and was on Day 4, which is to say "Hi" to 6 girls you don't already know. I immediately saw a cute girl and decided, "Here we go. This is the first girl." and as I passed her, I smiled big and said, "Good morning!" To my surprise, her face lit up, and she replied with a huge smile on her face, "Morning!" Following her were 2 more girls, to whom I also said "Good morning."

I had never really just said "hey" to a random girl walking down the street before, as I always had the perception that this was creepy and no girl wants a guy to talk to her while she's on a commute somewhere. I can now throw all of that out the window.

Here are 4 takeaways I took from this morning:

• (1) I spent some extra time this morning to look nice (something I routinely do these days and have written about before). This boosted my outward confidence and appearance.

• (2) Following Chase's advice on sexy smiles, I started a slowly spreading smile in advance, while making eye contact with her (Day 3's task) as she walked toward me. You should start this smile with enough time for you to "finish" the smile, say your greeting and most importantly, give her time to PROCESS and RESPOND to the greeting, all before she's past you. The slowly spreading smile sort of "primes" her for receiving a greeting and kinda lets her know it's coming.

• (3) A subtle but important one. I was listening to music, but made sure to turn it down before I even started my smile. This helps take away the excuse, "That was a good song/I was listening to music and didn't feel like talking to her/etc."

• (4) It doesn't matter how they take your greeting. I think this is what causes most guys to freeze up and not say anything; the thought that he will be embarrassed when the girl doesn't take it well or doesn't respond at all. Don't take it personally. It was a genuine greeting from you, with no intentions other than that. You're having a good morning and want to wish that on someone else, and if they rudely brush it off, that's their problem, not yours.

It's amazing how many things we can learn from one of the SIMPLEST interactions with a girl!! And that's what I love about the challenge of learning the art of seduction. It goes to show there is always something to learn, even from positive interactions and not just failures.

Hopefully you can take what I've learned and apply it to your own interactions.

~ Cheers

 

[Franco]

RR,

Haven't seen a post from you in awhile! I'm glad things are going well.

It's amazing how many things we can learn from one of the SIMPLEST interactions with a girl!! And that's what I love about the challenge of learning the art of seduction. It goes to show there is always something to learn, even from positive interactions and not just failures.

This is a great revelation to have: every interaction you have with a girl is an opportunity to learn something new. The more you put yourself out there to experience, the more you learn and the more comfortable you become in your own shoes. And as a result, women become more comfortable cuddling up to you in your bed after a great night with you.

Best of luck on the Newbie Assignment, Ryan!

- Franco