For some reason, it's a natural trigger that I will try to meditate away. HAHA
Fully knowing that this doesn't eliminate it ever. I will feel inferior. It's just what is.
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You're joking, but as much as I love all the tech in pua/seduction/game - a lot of my "breakthrough" moments were at the "meditation"/"deep introspection" level.
Full disclosure, I'm trying to really translate my knowledge of the game into my business/wealth accumulation pursuits.
And I'm realizing that it's mostly shifts in mindsets.
The funny thing about the mindset shift is that 99 times out of 100, you've heard the stuff before. Something "random" seems to kick the brain into action, and all of your conscious moves are following a new paradigm.
Sometime it is sparked by something you read, which is why i've always been an information junkie.
Brad P once said something like "when you see her struggle to put on her tight jeans the morning after, you realize how human she really is"
There's a term in the fantasy/D&D world that I became aware of after reading the Game of Thrones/ASOIAF series.
Glamour.
A lot of my early headways into "higher echelon" girls was really seeing her for what she was. I started to realize that I'd fallen into the same mental trap that she did - that she was indeed higher echelon. At her luckiest, she won a genetic lottery for facial symmetry and fat deposits in places I liked. And the smart ones maximized those gifts, often to the detriment of other options.
But how does that turn out for her?
Even without all the glamour, a good "bones" grants the girl more attention than she can handle, than she can discern.
And doing more, and getting more interest isn't really helping her.
I started focusing in on her "inner world".
So at the top level, I have devalued her looks. (I really had to start interrogating myself about why I found certain things attractive - and a lot of it is biological - my entire life is in service to these genes/biological urges - and that doesn't sit right with me because my long term goals are hampered by my in the moment desires)
And at the action level, I say stuff that gets into her head. Because she knows deep down, that she's acting.
Everything else is 1) do I like her after I uncover the real her, 2) logistics.
Can't say it's always been this way.
WIA