Hello forum,
Reading a bunch of your tinder conquests, I've started trying my luck on online dating. As faith would have it, I met a girl I got acquainted with roughly 8 months ago (we talked for about 5 mins and she freakin` remembered it, talk about investment) with which I pussied out from escalating at the time even though I could see she was fairly into me. This time I fucked it up again but was a great deal better than last time. Still no juice. Below is the actual Tinder convo. I'd really be grateful for some tips ( I have been working on conversation and chase frames with girls so far. Hopefully it will show)
Me: Hey D! How's Tinder been treating you? Your profile pic's really cute
D: Hey Thank you.
D: How are you?
Me: I'm all right So tell me, are you an [city] native or do you come from far away? (took that one from one of chase's articles. really like the wording)
D: I'm from Morocco.
D: Have we already matched?
D: Or I've seen you somewhere haha
Me: Nah you would've remembered So you're a student, aren't you?
D: Did you do BFA this year?
Me: Not really... An artist then That's interesting (at this point i thought she was mistaking me with some colleague of hers, and assumed she was doing fine arts
D: What? Haha no I don't think we're talking about the same thing
D: Yes I'm a student
D: I study Political Science at [uni]
D: Are you from Romania?
Me: I am Romanian, yeah... So we did meet before then?
D: Yes we did haha
D: Once I think in September
D: You go to [uni] as well right?
Me: Yes... So did we do any cool stuff together then? (seemed appropriate. I felt like it put me in the lover category more)
D: No if we did you'd remember me haha
D: We just talked for 5 min I think
Me: Got it I'm surprised you still remember, though I do tend to leave good memories
Me: So how is Political Sciences? Do you enjoy it?
D: It took me ages tbh haha but your picture looked familiar I don't know
D: Yes I love it
D: What do you study?
Me: Take a guess I must've told you (aiming for good investment on her part)
D: Engineering? Or something related haha
Me: That's a very good guess I'm starting to think you've been stalking me (aiming at a good chase frame, though in retrospect it might have been a little too overt)
D: Haha bless you (shit test, I think. she was just trying to confuse me with a random statement. I decide to move on)
Me: So if you could be the president of any country, which one would you choose? Being in politics and all
D: [something about not being a president, working within NGO's and helping orphans]
Me: I see... you're planning to travel a lot too then Awesome (didn't see anything worthy of saying about that topic since I'm not really into helping others that much. Decided to move on)
D: Yes hopefully
D: How about you?
Me: Computer Science all the way (stale line, seemed appropriate at the time)
D: Okay good luck
Me: I plan to get a really boring corporate job until I can get my art going
D: Haha
D: Art?
Me: Btw let's go for drinks sometime. I don't think texting is a very good way of getting to know each other.
Me: Yeah I love drawing
D: Sounds great and yeah maybe when I come back because I'm going to Morocco Tuesday and I'm currently moving out so I'm quite busy (bullshit. she's on tinder for a reason)
D: How come you still in the UK?
Me: Yeah I got a job here. Anyways, gotta get ready for work. Text me when you get back from Morocco. You can share all the awesome stuff you did (not the best parting shot, but I figured I should stop wasting the time)
She seemed really into me from the get-go. I'm really getting confused, cause I get a lot of girls that seem into me at the start yet after a bit of conversation they get flaky / uninterested. I wonder why this is the case. Any tips would be appreciated.
Darius
Reading a bunch of your tinder conquests, I've started trying my luck on online dating. As faith would have it, I met a girl I got acquainted with roughly 8 months ago (we talked for about 5 mins and she freakin` remembered it, talk about investment) with which I pussied out from escalating at the time even though I could see she was fairly into me. This time I fucked it up again but was a great deal better than last time. Still no juice. Below is the actual Tinder convo. I'd really be grateful for some tips ( I have been working on conversation and chase frames with girls so far. Hopefully it will show)
Me: Hey D! How's Tinder been treating you? Your profile pic's really cute
D: Hey
Thank you. D: How are you?
Me: I'm all right
So tell me, are you an [city] native or do you come from far away? (took that one from one of chase's articles. really like the wording)D: I'm from Morocco.
D: Have we already matched?
D: Or I've seen you somewhere haha
Me: Nah you would've remembered
So you're a student, aren't you?D: Did you do BFA this year?
Me: Not really... An artist then
That's interesting (at this point i thought she was mistaking me with some colleague of hers, and assumed she was doing fine arts D: What? Haha no I don't think we're talking about the same thing
D: Yes I'm a student
D: I study Political Science at [uni]
D: Are you from Romania?
Me: I am Romanian, yeah... So we did meet before then?
D: Yes we did haha
D: Once I think in September
D: You go to [uni] as well right?
Me: Yes... So did we do any cool stuff together then? (seemed appropriate. I felt like it put me in the lover category more)
D: No if we did you'd remember me haha
D: We just talked for 5 min I think
Me: Got it
I'm surprised you still remember, though I do tend to leave good memories Me: So how is Political Sciences? Do you enjoy it?
D: It took me ages tbh haha but your picture looked familiar I don't know
D: Yes I love it
D: What do you study?
Me: Take a guess
I must've told you (aiming for good investment on her part)D: Engineering? Or something related haha
Me: That's a very good guess
I'm starting to think you've been stalking me (aiming at a good chase frame, though in retrospect it might have been a little too overt)D: Haha bless you (shit test, I think. she was just trying to confuse me with a random statement. I decide to move on)
Me: So if you could be the president of any country, which one would you choose? Being in politics and all
D: [something about not being a president, working within NGO's and helping orphans]
Me: I see... you're planning to travel a lot too then
Awesome (didn't see anything worthy of saying about that topic since I'm not really into helping others that much. Decided to move on)D: Yes hopefully
D: How about you?
Me: Computer Science all the way
(stale line, seemed appropriate at the time)D: Okay
good luck Me: I plan to get a really boring corporate job until I can get my art going
D: Haha
D: Art?
Me: Btw let's go for drinks sometime. I don't think texting is a very good way of getting to know each other.
Me: Yeah I love drawing
D: Sounds great
and yeah maybe when I come back because I'm going to Morocco Tuesday and I'm currently moving out so I'm quite busy (bullshit. she's on tinder for a reason)D: How come you still in the UK?
Me: Yeah I got a job here. Anyways, gotta get ready for work. Text me when you get back from Morocco. You can share all the awesome stuff you did
(not the best parting shot, but I figured I should stop wasting the time)She seemed really into me from the get-go. I'm really getting confused, cause I get a lot of girls that seem into me at the start yet after a bit of conversation they get flaky / uninterested. I wonder why this is the case. Any tips would be appreciated.
Darius
