You must all know about tinder by now. It's one of the biggest dating apps now. And it's awesome. No lengthy profiles just a few pictures of the person and 2 lines of about me.
If you don't know how it works it's like this : you see all the profiles of people matching the criteria you've set, in 100 mile radius (or less) you see a persons profile pic and decide if you like them - swipe to the right or you don't like them - swipe to the left. When you and a girl both have seen each others profiles and swiped to the right you both get a notification and only then can you message each other.
It's cool cause you can't get rejected - you do get rejected but you'll never know who or how many rejected you. You only see the people who like you. And every girl you message has already decided she likes the way you look.
I decided to try it out. And got it a week ago. I have about 17 matches right now and I'm chatting with the girls and will try to arrange dates with as much as I can.
Your tinder game consists of 2 parts - 1st your presentation - great profile pic cause most people will only ever look at this and decide if they like you or not. Writing a sentence describing yourself. And stating a few interests (if gets them from your facebook profile). But basically choosing the most attractive photo of yourself, you can find.
And the second part is the messaging which I think is the same as in Chase's post about online dating.
The only thing I think is super important is that you need to present yourself as the lover from the get go and you must move really fast! Hot girls have multiple guys they've matched with. So every guy who's messaging her is a guy she's interested in. So you must stand out from them from your very firs message and move really fast - maybe propose a date within 2-4 days of chatting.
Not on the first day cause I think this will come of a bit too much, but maybe banter for a day or two echanging a few messages back and forth to build intrigue and ask for a simple 30 minutes coffee date - sth she can't say no to.
Any advice or observations?
If you don't know how it works it's like this : you see all the profiles of people matching the criteria you've set, in 100 mile radius (or less) you see a persons profile pic and decide if you like them - swipe to the right or you don't like them - swipe to the left. When you and a girl both have seen each others profiles and swiped to the right you both get a notification and only then can you message each other.
It's cool cause you can't get rejected - you do get rejected but you'll never know who or how many rejected you. You only see the people who like you. And every girl you message has already decided she likes the way you look.
I decided to try it out. And got it a week ago. I have about 17 matches right now and I'm chatting with the girls and will try to arrange dates with as much as I can.
Your tinder game consists of 2 parts - 1st your presentation - great profile pic cause most people will only ever look at this and decide if they like you or not. Writing a sentence describing yourself. And stating a few interests (if gets them from your facebook profile). But basically choosing the most attractive photo of yourself, you can find.
And the second part is the messaging which I think is the same as in Chase's post about online dating.
The only thing I think is super important is that you need to present yourself as the lover from the get go and you must move really fast! Hot girls have multiple guys they've matched with. So every guy who's messaging her is a guy she's interested in. So you must stand out from them from your very firs message and move really fast - maybe propose a date within 2-4 days of chatting.
Not on the first day cause I think this will come of a bit too much, but maybe banter for a day or two echanging a few messages back and forth to build intrigue and ask for a simple 30 minutes coffee date - sth she can't say no to.
Any advice or observations?
