Tinder girl wants facetime before we meet

[killerman]

Hey all just in need of some advice. A girl from tinder that I just matched with is due to come and visit me in my city for the first time. She's supposed to be staying the weekend. However she wants to do a facetime before she decides to come as she's never spoken to me before. How do i proceed with this? Do I comply (remember she's coming to visit me from another city 100 miles away and probably wants to get confirmation that i'm not some crazy psycho) or do I just say something like "we'll see each other when we meet" or "i dont have time to facetime these days"? Looking forward to getting feedback from more knowledgable guys!

 

[Franco]

killerman,

Would definitely recommend doing the Facetime, otherwise she won't be comfortable enough to see you and will likely flake.

Make the Facetime no more than 30 minutes though, and don't talk about sex (...yet). Just have a fun, easy-going conversation and make sure at least your face looks good and groomed when you speak to her. It's best if you can be the one to end the conversation because you have other things to do.

Once you're on the date, feel free to talk about sex at that point (if that's part of your game plan).

Cheers,

Franco