What’s up guys,
I started texting this girl on Tinder last Saturday night. After some back and forth, I was able to score the phone number and quickly setup a date for Wednesday night. Since there was 4 days in-between when we were to meet up, I was contemplating sending a text just to keep things alive, but I instead just waited to the morning of, as recommended here on the site.
I honestly thought this girl was going to flake since I hadn’t talked to her since Saturday night when we planned the date, but when I sent a simple text a little after 10 AM on Wednesday to tell her I was looking forward to seeing her that night, she replied and said she was too. I then proceeded to give her the details for that night.
As for the date, We ended up meeting around 7:30. Since its the winter and there was a parking ban in session that night due to a snow storm, I told her to park in this parking lot that was a few minutes walk to the bar. I ended up walking over from my apt to meet her at the parking lot. As soon as I saw her I knew it would be a fun interaction. She had this bright warm smile that immediately told me she was an easy going girl. I liked her style too, she had a red peacoat with dark jeans and brown leather boots.
As we were walking to the bar, I told her we were going to this spot that i’ve never been to before so we would be experiencing it together, as she never had as well. However, when I get to the door and open it, I wasn’t really impressed with it. I then start laughing about it and tell her we need to go some place else since its real small and I'm claustrophobic (lol i lied, just didn’t like the bar). We then walk across the street to the normal college bar I have been going to. The place is dead like I knew it would be for a Wed, and there is plenty of places to sit and get comfortable. We end up snagging a small table along the edge of the wall, with the bar area right on the other side. We take off our coats and I tell her we should go to the bar and get a drink. She orders a blue moon and I get a gin and tonic.
When we get back to the table, instead of sitting on the opposite side of her, I sit on the same side. We are real close and my leg is rubbing against hers. The conversation was fun, she really is an easy going girl and loves to laugh. I wasn’t trying to be funny or anything but I think its just her personality. We touched on what she wanted to do with her life (shes in grad school), and I also related back to her when she realized she didn't want to be a teacher, since halfway through college i wanted to switch my major as well. When she told me she was a bank teller, I asked her if she had any interesting stories since she is dealing with people all day. She ends up telling me a story of an older guy that always comes in and hits on her. I tell her that there are mirrors behind the counter so he probably checks her ass out through the mirror. This was about as sexual as the conversation got. After this it was mostly just deep diving and sharing stories. She had tattoos so i had her talking about them as well.
This girl had her beer polished off within the first 10 mins. I myself am a slow drinker so i was teasing her about finishing her drink quickly and now she had to help me with mine. Most girls dont like gin and tonics so I always like to watch their faces when they try it. She didn’t like it but her reaction wasn't bad. We continue to talk some more while i finish my drink.
I think we were at the bar for 30-40 mins. I usually play this by ear and how the vibe is when i decide to pull a girl back to my apt. We already had a good convo going, and I always try to end things on a high note instead of dragging out the convo. So if we’ve only been there 30 mins but the vibe is good and I think she is into me, I will pull. Once I finally finish my drink, I tell her I’m going to close out the tab and then we will go for a walk. She agrees willingly. Once outside, I throw my arm around her shoulder and we walk arm-in-arm down the street. It’s not until I get right by my street corner that I use a Yes-ladder. I usually forget to do this in the moment lol. I did a basic yes-ladder and asked her if she was having a good time and that it was still early so we should go chill out and watch a movie. She happily agrees.
We get back to my apt, and I have her take off her jacket and boots and sit on the couch as I go to the bathroom. When I get back, I turn on my PS4 and play a movie on amazon prime that I watched a few days prior. At this point, I’m just running through my process. It’s crazy how I used to be so nervous to make a move at this point, now I’m just relaxed and just biding my time until making my move
We were only watching the movie for a few minutes before I went in for the kiss. We were already cuddling on the couch, so i just look at her and pull her chin towards me. We kiss quickly and then go back to watching the movie. I kiss her again a few minutes later and start to ramp it up, my hands start wondering and im caressing her body and start to play with her boobies. She is getting into it but is also laughing a little bit.
I thought during my next escalation on her would seal the deal… but not tonight. This night proved to be a learning experience in persistence. I start kissing her again, fondling her breasts, and kissing her neck. She starts to moan and I start to wander down to her pussy. I feel her hand and the first line of resistance kicks in. I’m just having a good time so i work my way back to her boobs, pull her bra down a start sucking on her nipples. I tried to take her shirt off but she wouldn't let me. After a little while of doing this, i just grab her hand and place it on my cock through my pants. I probably went through this whole process more than i can count. The key was, I wasn’t getting mad or anything, I would just back off, laugh a little, watch some more of the movie and try again.
After a while and communicating with her, I knew it was nothing to do with me, it was more her own mental barrier and value system of not hooking up with a guy the first time meeting him. She told me just doesn’t do this. I tried to ease her mind, and also get her thinking emotional, having her grab my dick and asking her if she likes it, or when i started kissing her neck or nipples. All the while, I remained patient with her.
We end up popping on a new movie and I move to the other side of the couch and lay down. I tell her to lay on top of me, which she does. At this point, its probably been close to an hour and a half. We start watching the next movie and I dont make a move on her for probably 10 mins. I just have my hand down the back of her pants sitting on her ass. Every now and again I move my hand closer to her pussy from the back. She asks me what I’m doing in a playful voice. I tell her I just like having my hand on her ass. I eventually almost start to touch her pussy but she pulls my hand up. After that I just take my hand out from the back of her jeans and chill for a little bit. Just holding her and caressing her body. I start to play with her boobies once again after like 5 mins and start to take off her shirt. Well what do you know! She actually allows me to take it off this time. After this I get her on her back and I get on top of her, soon after that, the bra comes off… the dominos are falling!!! I kiss her all over her upper body and then start unbuckling her pants.
At this point, she has finally caved and is ready to have sex. I start taking my clothes off and get her panties off as well. I take her to my room and it becomes a fun night
I walk her back to her car once we are all done. It’s pretty cold out and I have her drive me back to my apt. We bid farewells and I go back inside to crash, We were hanging out much later than I expected to and had to work in the AM.
I started texting this girl on Tinder last Saturday night. After some back and forth, I was able to score the phone number and quickly setup a date for Wednesday night. Since there was 4 days in-between when we were to meet up, I was contemplating sending a text just to keep things alive, but I instead just waited to the morning of, as recommended here on the site.
I honestly thought this girl was going to flake since I hadn’t talked to her since Saturday night when we planned the date, but when I sent a simple text a little after 10 AM on Wednesday to tell her I was looking forward to seeing her that night, she replied and said she was too. I then proceeded to give her the details for that night.
As for the date, We ended up meeting around 7:30. Since its the winter and there was a parking ban in session that night due to a snow storm, I told her to park in this parking lot that was a few minutes walk to the bar. I ended up walking over from my apt to meet her at the parking lot. As soon as I saw her I knew it would be a fun interaction. She had this bright warm smile that immediately told me she was an easy going girl. I liked her style too, she had a red peacoat with dark jeans and brown leather boots.
As we were walking to the bar, I told her we were going to this spot that i’ve never been to before so we would be experiencing it together, as she never had as well. However, when I get to the door and open it, I wasn’t really impressed with it. I then start laughing about it and tell her we need to go some place else since its real small and I'm claustrophobic (lol i lied, just didn’t like the bar). We then walk across the street to the normal college bar I have been going to. The place is dead like I knew it would be for a Wed, and there is plenty of places to sit and get comfortable. We end up snagging a small table along the edge of the wall, with the bar area right on the other side. We take off our coats and I tell her we should go to the bar and get a drink. She orders a blue moon and I get a gin and tonic.
When we get back to the table, instead of sitting on the opposite side of her, I sit on the same side. We are real close and my leg is rubbing against hers. The conversation was fun, she really is an easy going girl and loves to laugh. I wasn’t trying to be funny or anything but I think its just her personality. We touched on what she wanted to do with her life (shes in grad school), and I also related back to her when she realized she didn't want to be a teacher, since halfway through college i wanted to switch my major as well. When she told me she was a bank teller, I asked her if she had any interesting stories since she is dealing with people all day. She ends up telling me a story of an older guy that always comes in and hits on her. I tell her that there are mirrors behind the counter so he probably checks her ass out through the mirror. This was about as sexual as the conversation got. After this it was mostly just deep diving and sharing stories. She had tattoos so i had her talking about them as well.
This girl had her beer polished off within the first 10 mins. I myself am a slow drinker so i was teasing her about finishing her drink quickly and now she had to help me with mine. Most girls dont like gin and tonics so I always like to watch their faces when they try it. She didn’t like it but her reaction wasn't bad. We continue to talk some more while i finish my drink.
I think we were at the bar for 30-40 mins. I usually play this by ear and how the vibe is when i decide to pull a girl back to my apt. We already had a good convo going, and I always try to end things on a high note instead of dragging out the convo. So if we’ve only been there 30 mins but the vibe is good and I think she is into me, I will pull. Once I finally finish my drink, I tell her I’m going to close out the tab and then we will go for a walk. She agrees willingly. Once outside, I throw my arm around her shoulder and we walk arm-in-arm down the street. It’s not until I get right by my street corner that I use a Yes-ladder. I usually forget to do this in the moment lol. I did a basic yes-ladder and asked her if she was having a good time and that it was still early so we should go chill out and watch a movie. She happily agrees.
We get back to my apt, and I have her take off her jacket and boots and sit on the couch as I go to the bathroom. When I get back, I turn on my PS4 and play a movie on amazon prime that I watched a few days prior. At this point, I’m just running through my process. It’s crazy how I used to be so nervous to make a move at this point, now I’m just relaxed and just biding my time until making my move
We were only watching the movie for a few minutes before I went in for the kiss. We were already cuddling on the couch, so i just look at her and pull her chin towards me. We kiss quickly and then go back to watching the movie. I kiss her again a few minutes later and start to ramp it up, my hands start wondering and im caressing her body and start to play with her boobies. She is getting into it but is also laughing a little bit.
I thought during my next escalation on her would seal the deal… but not tonight. This night proved to be a learning experience in persistence. I start kissing her again, fondling her breasts, and kissing her neck. She starts to moan and I start to wander down to her pussy. I feel her hand and the first line of resistance kicks in. I’m just having a good time so i work my way back to her boobs, pull her bra down a start sucking on her nipples. I tried to take her shirt off but she wouldn't let me. After a little while of doing this, i just grab her hand and place it on my cock through my pants. I probably went through this whole process more than i can count. The key was, I wasn’t getting mad or anything, I would just back off, laugh a little, watch some more of the movie and try again.
After a while and communicating with her, I knew it was nothing to do with me, it was more her own mental barrier and value system of not hooking up with a guy the first time meeting him. She told me just doesn’t do this. I tried to ease her mind, and also get her thinking emotional, having her grab my dick and asking her if she likes it, or when i started kissing her neck or nipples. All the while, I remained patient with her.
We end up popping on a new movie and I move to the other side of the couch and lay down. I tell her to lay on top of me, which she does. At this point, its probably been close to an hour and a half. We start watching the next movie and I dont make a move on her for probably 10 mins. I just have my hand down the back of her pants sitting on her ass. Every now and again I move my hand closer to her pussy from the back. She asks me what I’m doing in a playful voice. I tell her I just like having my hand on her ass. I eventually almost start to touch her pussy but she pulls my hand up. After that I just take my hand out from the back of her jeans and chill for a little bit. Just holding her and caressing her body. I start to play with her boobies once again after like 5 mins and start to take off her shirt. Well what do you know! She actually allows me to take it off this time. After this I get her on her back and I get on top of her, soon after that, the bra comes off… the dominos are falling!!! I kiss her all over her upper body and then start unbuckling her pants.
At this point, she has finally caved and is ready to have sex. I start taking my clothes off and get her panties off as well. I take her to my room and it becomes a fun night
I walk her back to her car once we are all done. It’s pretty cold out and I have her drive me back to my apt. We bid farewells and I go back inside to crash, We were hanging out much later than I expected to and had to work in the AM.
