Tips on conversing with non-English speakers

[ablearcher]

Hi all, first post. I went to a Spanish night club last night, and worked up my courage to talk to the most beautiful lady there. Long story short, I got some nice smiles and a few appreciative glances, but it was hard to make a connection for many reasons, the most obvious was that she didn't speak much English and I don't speak much Spanish. I am attracted to Spanish ladies in general, so I should probably work on a few phrases, but still many of the conversation techniques taught by Chase are near impossible to pull off when there is a language barrier. Any advice would be appreciated!

 

[Tr1cky]

The only consistent way is;

1) money (effective but not advisable)
2) learn to dance

 

[Skills]

Hi all, first post. I went to a Spanish night club last night, and worked up my courage to talk to the most beautiful lady there. Long story short, I got some nice smiles and a few appreciative glances, but it was hard to make a connection for many reasons, the most obvious was that she didn't speak much English and I don't speak much Spanish. I am attracted to Spanish ladies in general, so I should probably work on a few phrases, but still many of the conversation techniques taught by Chase are near impossible to pull off when there is a language barrier. Any advice would be appreciated!

- you need to go for Spanish girls that speak English
- and learn how to dance...

Take Spanish dance classes...

Teach Spanish in one of those English as second language type places...

 

[ablearcher]

Thanks, good advice. The dance class itself would be a great place to meet new girls.

 

[Derek da man]

Good advice above @Skills and @Tr1cky.

I've already been doing this at dance classes - Salsa (LA, Cuban, etc), Bachata and Kizomba.

Classes are great for getting to meet lots of ladies as they usually move round every couple of minutes, this means you can practice your opening lines and talk on girls that you have no interest in but judge the outcomes of which get the warmest responses. Think speed dating without most of the awkwardness. Some classes and teachers are better than others so do try a variety of places, they are not all equal.

Lots of Spanish, Latino, Russian, etc ladies - just take your pick - the vast majority are looking to dance and date.

Once you can dance a little bit you can easily ask ladies to dance, my advice is always look for approach invitations as this is already on a yes.