Tired of being Average! How to become a hot guy every girl desires?

[Cassy]

I'm just tired of being average and dating average girls. Most of the girls I date are NOT girls I went like "wow... She's hot" when I 1st saw them. No, There just normal girls and honestly even though I love my girlfriend, she's just not my dream girl in terms of looks and I started dating her because I need some experience, sex and its better than being single. She's not bad looking, just average... But i'm tired of average. I want to date HOT GIRLS.

Lately I'v been improving my fashion and hairstyle so I can become good looking. I'm also considering getting a professional tattoo because where am from (Zambia, southern africa) most people dont have tattoos and i think getting one would make me look above average, different, hot etc.
What can I do to become a hot guy and date hotter girls?

 

[Rusty]

Go read the plethora of articles on this site that show you how to be an exceptional man. After you've read the advice there and applied it through trial and error, then come back and report your findings.

80% of your results come from 20% of the work that you do. Get back to basics. Body language. Vocal tonality. Eye contact. Knowing how to touch a woman the right way. Having a healthy sense of self-esteem and a solid self-identity.

If you can get those handled, maybe, just maybe, you won't be an average man anymore.

 

[Mr.Rob]

I'm also considering getting a professional tattoo because where am from (Zambia, southern africa) most people dont have tattoos and i think getting one would make me look above average, different, hot etc.

First off if you get a tattoo so you can get girls you're an idiot. Don't sell yourself out so you can acquire girls. If you get a tattoo get it because you genuinely think it would be awesome to have a piece of permanent artwork on your body and that is something special to YOU.

However I do resonate with your ambition to be dating the hottest women and have hot girls chasing after you so I will give you some advice on how to achieve that.

It's very simple.

Dump your lame girlfriend, go meet 1,000 hot women, 300 of those women will give you their phone number, 75 of those women will agree to go on a date with you, and 30 of those women you'll have sex with and maybe have a relationship with 1-3 of them.

Read the articles on the website here. Go take massive action to get the life you want rather than engaging in whatever mental masturbation you are currently engaging in.

Good luck and look forward to seeing your journey documented if you choose to do so.

-Rob

 

[Cassy]

I'm not just considering getting a tattoo just to get girls. I wanted to get one 3 years ago but I was afraid about what my parents, friends etc would say/think. But now am ready to get one and I like tattoos. I'm just tryna stand out from the crowd and not look like an average joe.

 

[HellAtlantic]

You say you don't wanna look like an average Joe. That's cool. But is your life average Joe? Cuz you can always change your look to make you appear as the most exciting hot guy ever and that'll get your foot in the door with lots of hot chicks - but once you start talking they're only gonna see you're like everyon else. You should work on doing exciting things, become more interesting - that'll make you stand out. Like you gotta work on your fundamentals so that your life matches your look. What's the point in looking like the hot exciting guy if once you start talking you project weakness or insecurity or some other game damaging trait?

 

[Franco]

Cassy,

You've already put yourself in a rough situation by getting into a relationship with an average girl. The only experience you get from a relationship is -- you guessed it -- relationship experience. If you want to learn how to date hotter girls, you have to free yourself up to start approaching them and getting pick-up experience. The rules of the game remain the same with hotter women, but the level of skill you need is obviously higher. The only way to develop that skill is to meet new women and practice taking them to bed (and then converting them into girlfriends if that's what you want to do).

You can certainly improve your looks and increase the value of your fundamentals, but that's only about 10% of the picture. The other 90% is actually talking to new women, getting them out on dates, and taking them to bed.

- Franco

 

[JimmyB]

I think it's also worthwhile to note that no guy is what every girl desires. That's an unattainable goal. Some girls don't find Brad Pitt (insert anyone) attractive. But you can make yourself much more attractive to a lot of girls. Like what everyone else has said - hard work and persistence improving yourself.

 

[Cassy]

Thanks guys! So after taking some time to think about it i'v realized my biggest problem is a lack of constantly meeting new women. I'v been doing Facebook game, it works well for me and am good at it but its slow but i'v realized the hottest girls dont usually respond on Facebook. I have picked up so many girls on facebook, cute girls, average girls but the really HOT girls perfect 10's are difficult to pick up on facebook and those are the girls im really interested right now. I think the only way I can meet hot women is by going out and doing day game approach but I have approach anxiety and Im tryna fix that at the moment.

 

[Drck]

The tattoo sounds good. And once you find out how to become that hot guy that EVERY girl desires, let us know

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Cassy,

I was going to say day game. But also always being watching. Many times when you are not doing planned approach a hot woman will happen along. Be prepared to approach at anytime. Also never assume she won't be interested in you. You never know which woman will find you attractive. Outside of night games situation hot women do not get approached often because most guys are afraid to approached. Their guard is down some and they are more open. Mentally start approaching right now.

SGent