To approach in a relationship

[matthewpoland023]

I am in a committed relationship with a girl that I love. She is awesome. However, I enjoy getting better with women and I don't want to develop oneitis and keep my abundance mentality. My question is, is it wrong to practice my approaches on random women without escalating it further while in this relationship? I feel guilty when I do so, probably because if she were to do the same I would be ending the relationship swiftly. I also consider that women's sexual value increases while in a relationship from continually getting approached while men often stay stagnant or lose sexual value from not approaching. Suggestions please.

 

[Fuck This]

If you ain't gonna bite, don't growl....

But there is nothing wrong with being sociable with people. Male and female alike. Strike up a conversation, exchange names, find a common interest, it is how people socialize. It's called "being a natural". Do approaches to get your buddies introduced to women.

Practice escalation with your girlfriend. Find new ways to incorporate kino in a public environment. See what sort of ways you can get her in a sexual state with conversation topics. Learn her body language and find ways to read her. Find words that stimulate her.

 

[matthewpoland023]

Two Rocky, that was pure gold for me thank you. I will absolutely take that advice into action.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Note: this is not an advocacy of cheating or philandering.

You should investigate the morality of "I would be upset if she screwed other guys" as an inhibitor of you approaching and sleeping with other women.

It's not a simple 1-1 ethical relation when you dig deep. Also, look up "morally permissible." Might give you an interesting perspective on the traditional "right vs wrong" that most people associate with ethics.

Again, not an advocacy of action, but an advocacy of investigation.

The devil whispering over your shoulder,

Hector

 

[HellAtlantic]

Note: this is not an advocacy of cheating or philandering.

You should investigate the morality of "I would be upset if she screwed other guys" as an inhibitor of you approaching and sleeping with other women.

It's not a simple 1-1 ethical relation when you dig deep. Also, look up "morally permissible." Might give you an interesting perspective on the traditional "right vs wrong" that most people associate with ethics.

Again, not an advocacy of action, but an advocacy of investigation.

The devil whispering over your shoulder,

Hector

This is an interesting premise. Can you discuss it further. You have some pretty good perspectives so I might want to explore this further. Thanks.

 

[matthewpoland023]

So I looked up morally permissible as a definition and I do understand what you are getting at and I thank you for the perspective. Basically, whatever is not morally FORBIDDEN is permissible even though it may be looked down on.