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I've been reading the website for a month and bought the e book. I have been pushing myself out of my comfort zone to start approaching girls ever since. So it turned out pretty well and i've met 3 new girls last week, i've been dating them and there is this particular girl which i am really interested in.
The first date went pretty well and she even confessed that she likes me via text after i sent her home. So we met up for the second time and i decided to hold her hand, i could tell she was shy but totally fine with it. Now, here comes the twist, she told me after the second date that she was confused, because there is this tomboy that she is interested in as well. They've been going out with each other for a week or so watching movies, having dinner together right after her work, she would also send her gifts and wait for her to end work. So now, this girl that i'm interested in is actually asking me to put in effort to text her, which i usually don't because from what i see, texting is just a way of communication to meet up as mentioned in the website/articles. This particular girl doesn't seem to be investing much in me as well, which is kinda disappointing.
I tried dissuading her that getting together with a tomboy would be a bad idea, but she doesn't think that it is. So the burning question is, should i put in effort to get her attention/compete with that tomboy or should i not compete?
The first date went pretty well and she even confessed that she likes me via text after i sent her home. So we met up for the second time and i decided to hold her hand, i could tell she was shy but totally fine with it. Now, here comes the twist, she told me after the second date that she was confused, because there is this tomboy that she is interested in as well. They've been going out with each other for a week or so watching movies, having dinner together right after her work, she would also send her gifts and wait for her to end work. So now, this girl that i'm interested in is actually asking me to put in effort to text her, which i usually don't because from what i see, texting is just a way of communication to meet up as mentioned in the website/articles. This particular girl doesn't seem to be investing much in me as well, which is kinda disappointing.
I tried dissuading her that getting together with a tomboy would be a bad idea, but she doesn't think that it is. So the burning question is, should i put in effort to get her attention/compete with that tomboy or should i not compete?
