To kiss or not to kiss

[warrawarra]

Hi seducers,

A few days ago I had this date with a girl off of tinder, and it ended kissing her on the cheek and she kissing mine at the train station. A few seconds after that, it felt like I could have gotten more. I didn't invite her home because I had to get the train to go to work. Afterwards I imagined kissing her on the lips and touching her a lot and kind of physically escalate, although I know it's not good to do that in a public place like a train station - still the idea of kissing her on the lips remained in my head.
Now I have read an article here lately where the author wrote he used to kiss girls on dates when he was just starting with seduction, in order to be seen as a sexual man because he didn't know other ways to be seen as a sexual man back then.
Later he states that now he doesn't kiss before taking her home, for example, because it partly kills the intrigue for her.

So, there seems to be a consens about what's best for experienced seducers, in order to get laid: Not to kiss a girl until you've taken her home.

What I am curious about, as I want to get lays as soon as possible: Might what works best for experienced seducers actually not work best for guys who are new to seduction (like me)? Might it be good to just kiss her to build up my image as a sexual man as long as I am still working on other ways to build up this image?

One of the reasons why I ask this is that most girls seem to not see me as a sexual man, because some of them end up giving me advice like "You're a nice man, but if you want to get laid, you need to be more of an asshole."

I tried it out on another girl today and kissed her and she let me (she told me it felt "blunt" - need more experience to do this in the right moment the right way... wow, maybe it IS better to kiss her when I am already at home with her, as it will also be some work to find the right moments when it feels natural to her when I kiss her... but, on the other hand, this is something I need to work on anyway...)

Glad to hear your opinions on that.
I'm not a native speaker, so if I have written something that you don't understand, let me know.
Yours, Anselm

 

[Lotus]

Hey Anselm,

The primary guidelines for the teachings here are:

1. Be seen as a sexual man
2. There is no one way to seduce a women

Everyone here has their own way of seducing women, it's all about tweaking your methods to make it work best for YOU.

So, there seems to be a consens about what's best for experienced seducers, in order to get laid: Not to kiss a girl until you've taken her home.

the consensus isn't that in order to get laid do not kiss a girl until she is home. the consensus is, in order to get laid the fastest and most consistently don't kiss a girl until she is home because yes it kill intrigue and relseases sexual tension thus decreasing the chances of getting laid.

Might what works best for experienced seducers actually not work best for guys who are new to seduction (like me)?

Correct, because the most experienced seducers are doing 100 other things that make kissing not nessecary.

Article on how to be seen as sexy:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-be-sexy-man

Once you have gotten all those down the next step is to get the conversation on the topic of sex:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-u ... turn-women

"

You're a nice man, but if you want to get laid, you need to be more of an asshole."

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... ored-women

goodluck!