Tomorrow I'll try my first pickup line - help

[partytillyoung]

Tomorrow I am going to try my first pickup line, I'll be there in town for like 6 hours, so I'll got plenty of time to pickup some girls. So what do you recommend me I've watched some youtube videos how to pickup a girl and get her number? What do you recommend me to do, when I get number of girl?

I'll also try some cheesy pickup line like : Is your body made in Mcdonalds? No why? Because I'm lovin it. Also to build more confidence and to see reactions.

Any recommendations would help me allot, thanks.

 

[Man-O]

Just approaching ending with you not doing anything is a success. That said I'd recommend yourself saying your openers in front of a mirror 100 times at least

 

[Troy]

It's great that you are going to pick up tomorrow. I think the reason you feel so nervous is because you are thinking too hard about what to say. Let go of the pressure by joking to yourself how girl's are silly and cute.

Next thing: Avoid pickup lines because they are cheesy and can make you weird. Remember the main goal in seduction: get yourself comfortable then get the girl comfortable. How you make her feel is the most important thing. Avoid PUA terms and relax. Be natural.

You may use a template such as the direct opener, indirect, or situational (my favorite since it's more natural and helps build my humor skills plus it gets the girl comfortable in YOUR PRESENCE )

Have a good day tomorrow dude. Hope this helps.

Troy

 

[Palpability]

Hey baby, why don't we go get some fried chicken and get busy?

 

[Palpability]

Originality comes clearest with honesty. Remember, men are more attractive the more straight forward and the less spoken we are. Respect, don't judge, get comfortable. You the man, go get em'!

 

[Lotus]

Why not just say "Hi" and smile .

Lot less work than trying to think of lines.

All you need is 5 minutes and a mirror

 

[partytillyoung]

Results Hello thank you all for help I went with friend for pickup. I thought it would be easier to get a number, but it wasn't that at all. We talked to like 10 girls, 2 cockblocked that happened in group cockblock, 0 numbers sadly. I think we made mistake, because we were picking up at shopping mall. But for first try I think it's good.

Any kind of recommendations ?

 

[ray_zorse]

Shopping mall is not a bad place to approach. I find it a little challenging, but nothing that can't be handled. Anyway, you can always mix it up by trying specific shops: Bookshop, department store are my favourites...

Getting numbers is not really the primary goal, it's getting dates... be sure to always ask for the date first, and if possible discuss a time, date, place at least in general terms... the number is only for if she has to cancel or if the details couldn't be determined ahead of time.

Another thing to consider about numbers is the quality. With a little practice you'll know which numbers are hot, by factors such as her demeanor and body language, how she saves it in her phone, how invested and engaged she was in the interaction, how you felt you performed and she responded, etc...

The thing that will get you dates is basically your conversation. So you've opened... preferably direct... now you might want to sprinkle in a few lines of banter...

You: hi there... I could not help but notice your skirt, it goes great with your outfit... you look fantastic and I wanted to meet you. I'm partytillyoung.
Her: I'm HB8
You: We're actually almost twins, got that denim/black/white look going... how about we swap jackets, that would look cool
Her: haha you'll have to try and wriggle into it
You: I'm a size 8! your honour!
Her: haha

You don't need any banter at all, or you can sprinkle it in later (or use sexual humour instead)... but if you do a few lines is sufficient as above, then try a cold read

You: you've been shopping at my favourite shop, can't get enough of uniqlo... is that all for today, u were heading home now?
Her: no I was gonna meet my mum for coffee, she's in another part of the centre
You: (thinks: shit, I had better grab a number before the mum turns up) oh cool, is the shopping with your mum a regular thing?
Her: oh not really it's just when we feel like it... I didn't have work today and hadn't seen her in a bit, so we met down here
You: (checks logistics) oh right so you live somewhere close by? like a share house or something?
Her: no well I'm coming from (suburb), I have one roommate but it's not really a share house

Normally would ask a bit about the work as well and her routine but since mum is on the way, let's pull the trigger

You: cool... I live near there too, maybe we could meet up sometime, since you obviously don't have much time today?
Her: ookay?
You: great I am enjoying talking to you, if you are free say Thursday or Friday that might be okay?
Her: okay well I'll let u know, I haven't got my schedule yet
You: awesome so lets just exchange numbers and take it from there then... pass me your phone
You: (puts your number in) okay if I call myself?
Her: sure (you call yourself)

Now that that's sorted we can't let the vibe die straightaway... have her put her phone back in her bag so mum won't see it... and continue thus

You: so you mentioned you have the day off work today?
Her: yeah I don't work Tuesdays... I'm a dental nurse
You: oh awesome! you must meet a lot of interesting people
Her: yeah some of our patients are hilarious, I don't think they mean to be, but sometimes its a shame to put stuff in their mouths cos it stops them talking
You: haha, and you get on well with your boss?
Her: yeah she's cool, although I don't know her that well, I only work 2-3 days a week and there's another nurse who does the other days
(her mum comes up)
You: oh hi you must be HB8's mum... I'm partytillyoung, did u get your shopping done?
Mum: yeah nice to meet you
You: okay well I'm sure you've got lots to catch up on, I'll leave you to it (smile, take leave)

That's pretty much what a successful interaction looks like, notice that when we asked a question we either phrased it as a statement, using only a very slight amount of tonality to prompt her to answer, and/or we provided a suggested answer to make it easier for her (this is what a cold read really amounts to).

Ray

 

[partytillyoung]

That's nice I was pretty amateur with talking I mean for first time it's quite good, but I know where I made some mistakes. Sometimes I was little shy (when girl started in group cockblocking me I didn't know what to say, to stop so she said let's go and the whole group went, because of one girl who was unhappy with talking, I didn't handle that good fuck it)...

What should I do there were group of 5 girls, to 3 girls my friend was talking and I saw that they were more kind, but I was talking to 2 girls and the one girls started oh let's go blah blah... the other one was pretty okay with talking with me for little time. Then she said the one who cockblocked let's go blah blah and the.

But why I am more sucesfull in nightgame I get easily kiss even if the girl don't want to, I play little game haha

 

[ray_zorse]

Groups are a bit advanced, I rarely approach groups cos I don't find it a productive use of my time (2 girls is okay though). Having said that I am trying to train myself to be more in the moment and just approach, instead of hanging back to determine if she's with friends, bf, does she wear ring etc.

Trick with groups is to have a more IDGAF vibe, recognize u cannot control every aspect of the seduction, just give it a shot and see where it goes, but be self amused, make outrageous / funny / sexual remarks, tease the group leader "so when do u graduate from Police Academy... its good to see u are keeping a lid on things, but u would look cuter in one of those little caps"... etc. And of course talk primarily to your girl, doing the usual things such as trying to move her or the group, etc.

Ray

 

[DLegend]

Don't use pick up lines, please. Everytime I here a guy say a pick up line to a girl, I cringe...

Remember reactions do not equal results.

If you want a process for getting numbers do this:

Approach>Banter>DeepDive/ColdRead>Get number on high point> continue bantering or deep diving and then exit.

You don't want to ask for a number, then exit, because she will feel like that's just a routine for you, she won't feel special

P.S: When you ask for the #, make sure your intentions are clear, so she knows what's up. Now I don't mean say something like, "Hey, I would like to fuck your brains out, give me your number and we'll set something up". Although that could work, you probably don't have the right frame to say something like that right now. More along the lines of, "Hey you're a cool girl, I'd love for us to get to know each other better some other time... What's your number?" This is THE best way to ask for a number because, when you do text her, she will know why.


GL, DL

 

[partytillyoung]

Thanks I think we handle for first time quite good. Sometimes was a bit awkward, but damn I'll learn that too. I find interesting that I could easily see who's the leader in group there were 5 girls and the one girl was so annoying, to 3 girls my friend talked easily, I was with 2 and damn it was hard to talk to the leader one. What's the way to shut up the leader?

So asking for number and saying like that : Hey I give me your number, I'll write you romantic text you can respond if you want to, but if you find me like everyone else then don't respond. Something like that would work? Because I would tell her I don't really care (you can respond if you want to it's like saying : there are plenty of fishes out there you're not the only one.)

 

[ray_zorse]

I'm not really down with your reasoning about the number grab, when you grab the number you want to appear suave and confident, like it's completely taken for granted that she will respond to your text and you'll go on a date.

You: (some question about her life)
Her: (sharing)
You: that's really interesting...lets talk more about it later in the week, how about we grab a coffee around thursday say?
Her: ookay?
You: what about after work then
Her: I don't have my schedule yet, I'll let u know
You: okay lets exchange numbers then
(put it in her phone and call yourself... or whatever)
You: so you were saying about the blah blah
Her: (sharing)

Something along those lines. It took me like 6mths to get good at this though, but its been a turning point in my game the last month, since I do the same amount of approaching but get a lot more dates, just because I ask for them.

Ray

 

[partytillyoung]

Thanks, what about some magic tricks, I've seen a bunch of tricks about that I find this something unique to do that.

 

[DLegend]

@Ray, I find it really not un-smooth to ask for numbers like that, actually, Chase suggested this is how you should ask for numbers.

You can definitely do it your way if you've got your sexy vibe going on. But for young seducers starting out, they won't, so the girl needs to know, 100% what it is about, and it will screen her out. So it's not just, a million of the guys she gives her number to.

@Party: Stop making things so complicated on yourself right now, you gotta remember to seem relaxed and calm, right now you seem really gamey, just chill. It's good to have knowledge but experience trumps all! Go out and seduce those beautiful girls

DL

 

[partytillyoung]

Hehe thanks. What about this I'm learning Ukulele would this work playing song like Jason Mraz I'm yours to girl or some magic trick. I really enjoy playing ukulele and doing tricks, not just for girls. But I am not the best at it, almost just started uke few weeks ago.