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Hello everyone!
Tonight I go out on the town for the first time in donkey's years. I'm 35 years old and completely inexperienced with women; though I find it easy enough to hold conversations with people I've never had the guts to take the initiative with women before, mostly due to self-conciousness about my weight. I've been hugely overweight for most of my life and it really affected my self-esteem all the way through my adolescence and early adulthood, but I've been losing weight recently (down to 14.5 stone from18 stone) and now I can look in the mirror wearing clothes that actually fit me and see a man who's on his way to respectable. I've been out walking 5 times a week and when I get paid I'm joining a gym to build up some muscles and create a body to be proud of.
To be honest, I avoided reading PUA material for a long time because I swallowed the popular misunderstanding that it was all about magic tricks, funny hats, negging and manipulating girls' self esteem, but after looking at a variety of programs I've found a lot of useful advice about becoming an attractive man/inner game stuff that has really fired up my enthusiasm.
Tonight I'm off out to a meetup of like-minded strangers in a club and, after reading many of the posts on this amazing blog I've decided to concentrate on using my body language to project confidence and sexuality and have a damn good time. I don't expect to get any instant results tonight but if I can meet new people and approach a few women It'll be a great start; after all, every journey starts with a single step.
Tonight I go out on the town for the first time in donkey's years. I'm 35 years old and completely inexperienced with women; though I find it easy enough to hold conversations with people I've never had the guts to take the initiative with women before, mostly due to self-conciousness about my weight. I've been hugely overweight for most of my life and it really affected my self-esteem all the way through my adolescence and early adulthood, but I've been losing weight recently (down to 14.5 stone from18 stone) and now I can look in the mirror wearing clothes that actually fit me and see a man who's on his way to respectable. I've been out walking 5 times a week and when I get paid I'm joining a gym to build up some muscles and create a body to be proud of.
To be honest, I avoided reading PUA material for a long time because I swallowed the popular misunderstanding that it was all about magic tricks, funny hats, negging and manipulating girls' self esteem, but after looking at a variety of programs I've found a lot of useful advice about becoming an attractive man/inner game stuff that has really fired up my enthusiasm.
Tonight I'm off out to a meetup of like-minded strangers in a club and, after reading many of the posts on this amazing blog I've decided to concentrate on using my body language to project confidence and sexuality and have a damn good time. I don't expect to get any instant results tonight but if I can meet new people and approach a few women It'll be a great start; after all, every journey starts with a single step.
