Too much bf material bs

[Burning_slow]

It's not been the case in the past. However, while dabbling into social circle game, i have begun swirling in the muck of being treated as the early bf or husband material; which leads to delayed sex from these girls.

If i quit social circle game, having not overcome this sticking point, i wonder if i would be casting my lot properly: that means, it's possible i would still run into it eventually at some other social circle maybe on a job or a new city i visit with friends.

I'm not really sure how to deal with it. My present symptoms which i can point out have been :

I drive a nice car;
I am pivotal part of a large organisation;
I live in an apartment with a dog and it's fenced around and at the upscale part of town.
I dress with jeans and button down shirts alot.
No tattoo or piercing.
No beard - just a stubble on my chin which i leave there without shaping or shaving off.


The things above would sum up what i think is making mr reek of bf material or hubby cheese.

I do use a players process(instant date or keep on hook till ripe) and almost touch girls any chance i get.
I also bring up sexual convos with ease and in a more calliberated way than before.
Eye contact
Deliberate body movements
Keeping convos on others (male or female) which translates to deep diving.


If there's anything anyone would recommend, am all ears. This is a dillema, being at least somewhat valuable and still being seen as not fit for a fling without the "cuff and wait".

 

[JimmyB]

These are all good things. Having a good job and a dog and a nice place and no tattoos are very important check-marks a guy must hit to even be eligible. Where you can go wrong is if you don't have an exciting side to your life. Girlschase talks about being more exciting. I believe this largely comes from being unavailable because you're doing cool things. So if you are doing well for yourself and it seems you have most of your life sorted out, here's some things that might help:
- Be somewhere else a lot of the time
- go camping or rock climbing
- Travel to exotic places like asia
- Be involved in a hobby that takes up a lot of your time that you are passionate about
Girls will recognize the time they have with you is limited and they need to capitalize on it when with you. They'll be much more receptive to sex. They'll also be much more receptive to relationships because they will swoon at how exciting your life is. I don't think material possessions do a good job of this like having nice cars. They help but don't pull you out of the bf zone as efficiently. With all of this you can maintain social circle game, you will naturally become more on the outer limits of it, where Chase recommends you to be. Working for a large corporation labels you as a plain-vanilla type of boyfriend guy. Go out and defy that stereotype by being exciting out of work. I wouldn't do it just to get girls, but for yourself to really take advantage of life and your options. Then, girls naturally follow. That mantra is reiterated on this site a lot because it's true.

 

[lao che]

sounds like you're doing a lot right but you're selling yourself wrong. presentation, fashion would be my first guess.
but then you state that this is specifically a social circle problem. well, what do you expect? they have to at least pretend to protect their reputation.
are you discreet? this could be the obstacle. if you don't communicate that "what happens between two people only four eyes shall see" then no "good" girl from your social circle will wanna hook up for a ONS or a more regular thing. but she might be down for dates and stuff so she can tell her friends

makes me think of a girl i'm seeing now from my social circle. most of our friends are aware that we are fucking, because she has a big mouth. she texted her friends next morning *SMH*. i never hang out with them and she together, and we meet up for fun about once a week or less.
still, she asks "Are you ashamed of me? why can't we hang out with the others? you don't wanna be seen with me?" etc etc but only now having written this reply to you can i see things from her POV. of course she wants to make it official. all her friends know that she hooks up for crazy sex with the older single "player". she's been doing that for six months. how does that look now? it's damaging to her to have it continue even though she knows exactly where she stands.


her friend: so ... you and lao che ...? getting serious?

her: not really we just fuck once a week.

or

less close friend: is it true you and lao che are dating?

her: i wouldn't call it that. i'm more like his regular fuckslave


see what i mean?
so cheers bro, you given me some insight.

as for you - work on your sexy presentation and fashion, communicate discretion. that is all

oh and just in general stay away from girls in your social circle/workplace unless you have very tight bitch management skills.

forgot to mention, lots of chase-framing is very helpful with girls in social circle.

 

[lao che]

sorry double post