So I was minding my own business as I was going out last Saturday when I spot a cutie looking my way. She smiles back so I did not have any option but to direct compliment her. I did this without pre-open (because she smiled as I pass her by) but deliver the pauses and see how excited she gets. Because it was cold outside and it looked like she was trying to find something, I started to talk about her situation.
I made her invest as we were walking to the restaurant, start talking about her and what she does in Oslo. Then we sit for 15 minutes and deep dive a little bit more. I make sure I qualify her with phrases like: "wow, I like nerdy girls (referring to her studies)" and "It's nice to meet someone who loves being in nature (she's from out of town and just moved into the city)".
After that, I ask her: "Are you single?". This one is important, because if she agrees to meet you after answering yes, then she knows what the meeting will be about.
I follow her to a place where she agreed on meeting her friends and increased touch a little on our way there. Then we trade numbers and agree on meeting as I give her a hug. I also made sure to disappear before her friends appear (I just learned about being discrete).
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The next day I message her this:
Messaging about how her plans went makes girls reply a lot more often. (So always ask what they are going to do as you leave, then you can resume and bring the cool feeling back).
She replies and I straight ask her if she down to meet up the upcoming Tuesday. She says yes and leaves it at that.
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Signs she likes you
So we meet up as I am a little late. I see her glad to see me and I move her a little around to make her follow my lead (order some food at one restaurant, then going to the cozy pub where we move to an even more intimate couch). As she was talking to me, I could see the following signs:
*Barely moving away as I touch her back.
*Letting me touch her arms and putting a finger on her thigh.
*She touches her neck and moves her hair from side to sign.
*She lets me touch her neck for three seconds.
*Dilated pupils
I recommend every guy to read about girls signs. If you see more than two of these, you know she likes you. Now, I have to wait for my chance to kiss.
We start talking about her brother and she becomes even more excited when I say that my birthday is January 10th. (because her brother has the same birthday).
She starts triangulating back (looking at my eyes and lips) and then I kissed her. All this within 40 minutes. She goes to the bathroom.
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Closing and afterthoughts
She says yes, but give me time contraints. She was also not keen on drinking more than one beer. I see some alarms here, but who cares. We should try
As she walks in my room we start kissing. I start touching her breast, and kissing her nipples, then she moves away saying "I am too dangerous".
We lay down and I try again. She gives me a firm "no" (big sign). She starts telling me she hasn't had any ONS in some years, and that she doesn't know me yet and that I am "too dangerous for her" (lover vibe, I guess).
She continues talking about mundane things. I lift her up and put her on my bed (that's my special move, haha) and start kissing her again.
I try to take off her sweater, she still resists and says "no".
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So I had a dilemma here. Almost 50% of my lays are on the first date and ONSs, so I get the feeling when something is token resistance and when she actually resist. Then I proceed to just kiss her, tell her I like her and do the 2. option here: Date compression.
So guys, if you fail to escalate to sex, how possible is a date-compression? Half of the girls I tried to sleep with have come back, even after failed attempts. Please give me some insights here.
I follow her to the bus station and make her invest by telling her to message me when she is at home and safe. She does and I tell her I will message her in a couple of days.
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I made her invest as we were walking to the restaurant, start talking about her and what she does in Oslo. Then we sit for 15 minutes and deep dive a little bit more. I make sure I qualify her with phrases like: "wow, I like nerdy girls (referring to her studies)" and "It's nice to meet someone who loves being in nature (she's from out of town and just moved into the city)".
After that, I ask her: "Are you single?". This one is important, because if she agrees to meet you after answering yes, then she knows what the meeting will be about.
I follow her to a place where she agreed on meeting her friends and increased touch a little on our way there. Then we trade numbers and agree on meeting as I give her a hug. I also made sure to disappear before her friends appear (I just learned about being discrete).
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The next day I message her this:
Messaging about how her plans went makes girls reply a lot more often. (So always ask what they are going to do as you leave, then you can resume and bring the cool feeling back).
She replies and I straight ask her if she down to meet up the upcoming Tuesday. She says yes and leaves it at that.
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Signs she likes you
So we meet up as I am a little late. I see her glad to see me and I move her a little around to make her follow my lead (order some food at one restaurant, then going to the cozy pub where we move to an even more intimate couch). As she was talking to me, I could see the following signs:
*Barely moving away as I touch her back.
*Letting me touch her arms and putting a finger on her thigh.
*She touches her neck and moves her hair from side to sign.
*She lets me touch her neck for three seconds.
*Dilated pupils
I recommend every guy to read about girls signs. If you see more than two of these, you know she likes you. Now, I have to wait for my chance to kiss.
We start talking about her brother and she becomes even more excited when I say that my birthday is January 10th. (because her brother has the same birthday).
She starts triangulating back (looking at my eyes and lips) and then I kissed her. All this within 40 minutes. She goes to the bathroom.
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Closing and afterthoughts
She says yes, but give me time contraints. She was also not keen on drinking more than one beer. I see some alarms here, but who cares. We should try
As she walks in my room we start kissing. I start touching her breast, and kissing her nipples, then she moves away saying "I am too dangerous".
We lay down and I try again. She gives me a firm "no" (big sign). She starts telling me she hasn't had any ONS in some years, and that she doesn't know me yet and that I am "too dangerous for her" (lover vibe, I guess).
She continues talking about mundane things. I lift her up and put her on my bed (that's my special move, haha) and start kissing her again.
I try to take off her sweater, she still resists and says "no".
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So I had a dilemma here. Almost 50% of my lays are on the first date and ONSs, so I get the feeling when something is token resistance and when she actually resist. Then I proceed to just kiss her, tell her I like her and do the 2. option here: Date compression.
So guys, if you fail to escalate to sex, how possible is a date-compression? Half of the girls I tried to sleep with have come back, even after failed attempts. Please give me some insights here.
I follow her to the bus station and make her invest by telling her to message me when she is at home and safe. She does and I tell her I will message her in a couple of days.
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