For me, number one is strong, soul piercing eye contact. Then a sexy smile and then being centered, grounded and hardly affected by what's going on around me (which I think in terms of nonverbal communication could go alongside slowness as you mentioned)
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I'm in good shape and my voice is pretty deep but I'm not counting anything about my physical appearance.
Three fundamentals that I actively do in the company of a woman:
- Sexy smile
- Sexy, confident walk
- Calm, playful demeanor
Three fundamentals that I actively do in the company of a woman:
- Sexy smile
- Sexy, confident walk
- Calm, playful demeanor
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Not sure about the "top" fundamentals, as they all matter. Here are a few that everyone should learn, as they are very important:
1) Looks
- It's true; looks matter, a whole lot.
2) Slow, controlled, sexy vibe
- Cannot overstate this enough. Staying in control of your movements and moving slowly and deliberately is the most important fundamental. Learn to control your emotional state to one that keeps energy in, and you'll see a large improvement in performance.
3) Voice/Tone/Facial Expressions - The Rest
- Take care of voice, tone, and facial expressions next. Then, the rest, such as scent, style, etc. I spent a lot.. a lottt of time on facial expressions before I got my vibe down. It can be pretty exhausting. In the end, it doesn't matter too much in comparison to a slow, controlled and sexy vibe, as the facial expressions seem to come pretty naturally after that.
1) Looks
- It's true; looks matter, a whole lot.
2) Slow, controlled, sexy vibe
- Cannot overstate this enough. Staying in control of your movements and moving slowly and deliberately is the most important fundamental. Learn to control your emotional state to one that keeps energy in, and you'll see a large improvement in performance.
3) Voice/Tone/Facial Expressions - The Rest
- Take care of voice, tone, and facial expressions next. Then, the rest, such as scent, style, etc. I spent a lot.. a lottt of time on facial expressions before I got my vibe down. It can be pretty exhausting. In the end, it doesn't matter too much in comparison to a slow, controlled and sexy vibe, as the facial expressions seem to come pretty naturally after that.
Ross said:
Yep, looks is true. Deal with it.
Besides that, I think the top fundamentals to get instant attraction are the ones that are based on non-verbal. I agree with Ross. Slow, controlled, sexy vibe, overall movement (walk, posture) and fashion is the first things girls will see when they spot you. Eye contact is other good one because you are not forcing it with anyone. You just focus on something and move your eyes slowly. Facial Expressions and gesture would be the next one. They will see you interacting with other people. I guess then, it will be voice. Especially when they see you don't talk that much and just seem to be focus on whatever you are paying your attention to.
Cheers!
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Being overweight turns girls off a bit but I've seen plenty of hot chicks with ugly faced men and occasionally with fat guys too.Ross said:
As a womans attraction for you increases, so does her opinion of your looks.
I can't agree looks matter a whole lot, sure it matters a bit though, game is more important.
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Have to say that voice matters quite a bit. I used to try to stop girls walking by at the mall / grocery store / etcetera and they would just walk right by me when I would try to open them. If your opener feels "quiet" like you're making sure nobody else will hear it, then you're not doing it right. Open a girl with the same tone of voice you would use at the checkout counter. Remember, it's just normal conversation.