Touching Problem

[Dago]

Hello Guys,

I found this page 2 months ago and I am slowly starting to improve my life when it comes to seduction and contact with other people.
I am working currently on my fundamentals and some aspects of game. 5 days ago i met a girl alone and i think that i overused touching. I mean, i dont have problems with Incidental Touch and Protective Touch. But during the date i was putting my arm around her shoulders or on her back while we were going through the street.(not kisssing or romantic touch included). Is this to direct behaviour or this means nothing special for a girl? And i did the same when we sit down on the beach.Is this a mistake? Or maybe i should pull her in for couple of minutes then and push her ? Please can you explain me how to use touch properly when touch is being closer and closer to romantic touch? And i would be grateful if sb could present me difference in indirect direct and direct game when it comes to touch.
Thank you in advance!

 

[Mr.Rob]

escalate your touching until she runs away. you cant touch to much. just make it sexual.

aim to finger every girl you meet within 20 min. of meeting her.

-Rob

 

[Dago]

,,fingering her within 10 min i met her.. thats not what i learned from chase and his blogs. Still dont know how to use touch in direct and indirect direct game when i am meeting a girl.

 

[Mr.Rob]

fingering her within 10 min i met her.. thats not what i learned from chase and his blogs.

You never read the "fingering a girl in under 10 min... the only way to get laid" article?

Still dont know how to use touch in direct and indirect direct game when i am meeting a girl

Touching a girl is the same in all situations. Unless we have a language barrier and I'm not understanding where your coming from I'm going to have to say I don't understand your question.

But assuming your on point I'll give you an example:

Direct:
You: Hi there are you single?
Her: Yes!
You: Cool your fucking hot (grab her hand in a nonthreatening socially calibrated way)
Her: Oh my!
You: Now suck my cock you slut... (hahaha don't say that... well maybe)

Indirect:
You: Hi there I'm looking for the place that removes cat testicles... my cat is way to horny for his own good (said in a self amusing way)
Her: uhhh... haha idk. But I know there is a veterinary right around the corner there.
You: lol I'm just playing I saw you over here and thought you looked adorable. I'm X. Tell me your name. (Extend your hand when she gives it too you assess how into you she is... if her eyes light up big and beamy pull her into you and put your arm around her or hug her)

As you can see you touch a girl exactly the same if it's direct or indirect.

The main point is that you touch her. If you touch her and it doesn't go well (she rejects your advances) pretend like nothing happened and keep the conversation going then try again in a couple minutes.

Good luck bro

 

[Dago]

Ty man, maybe i wasnt specific enough but i was thinking how to use touching with push and pull rules and this all intrigue thing. Also could u add link to the article - i cant find it.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Also could u add link to the article - i cant find it.

haha i'm playing with you homie, I don't think the article exists.

Ty man, maybe i wasnt specific enough but i was thinking how to use touching with push and pull rules and this all intrigue thing.

Well a basic example I like to do is if you just met a girl (assuming you have a sexual vibe going) pull her into you with a sexual hug and tell her something you like about her. Then push her away playfully and say "but I don't feel like your adventurous enough for me". You have to do it right though.

If you read the article on push pull I believe Chase says that this isn't something that you want to do to make a girl start liking you but more so a tactic you can use to amplify a girls current attraction for you. Basically if she's not that into you and you do a push pull she's not going to change her mind about you all of a sudden.

 

[Richard]

I cover touching here: How to Arouse a Girl With Sexy Nonverbals

Believe it or not - there's a lot more to touching than you might think, and touch itself requires it's own kind of escalation.