Was at a meditation meeting and her energy really got me excited so I felt I should have myself some fun so when leaving, I gave her a lift and dropped her near her place then she got my number to contact me the following day because I sorted out a date with bait: job opportunity aid.
On the day, she is late but when I call, she updates me regularly till I finally see her. It’s been an hour already. Now the date is on and I can only control myself so much as she is wearing a very short frock with long sleeves. It is a lace material and the hair she has complements it beautifully.
I ask her: “How was your night?”
Then I mention how that I did not get her out today to give her any sort of work because I have nothing like a job offer in place.
Now we are round to a new location and I tell her they serve drinks, she pulls back when she sees how unkempt the place really is. I then proceed to ask her:
“Would you like to have sex?”
She leans away as though in shock. I keep looking at her but don’t repeat the question.
“I thought you said something”, said with disgust and relief.
I’m doing mental gymnastics as I think of the best place to close the deal with this babe. Now we are round about to where I think would work. Pulling in, the place has huge rats there and I mention how that they are too big for wards. She laughs. I place my hands on her hair just to establish some touch and she obliges, explaining the style she made and how it’s a lot less expensive. Conversation dulls out as we get into the place and order drinks. She wants to get some meat with it too. I decline to have meat. Then I pull out a sachet of spirit drink and put in my cup of coke. Then casually asked: “What’s your brand - Derok or Royal Challenge?” She shakes her head. I sip on the coke and spirit. She scoffs and says: You are using that?
Later I offer her the rest of my coke and she declines, pours it back into my cup and sits down. Then she gets feisty about leaving and all. I keep talking in a drawl and leaning into her, I say:
I walk to the waiter pay the bill, spend a few more minutes’ chit-chatting then go out. Looking around, my date was not there. Then as I get to the car, she’s standing there, arms across her chest and frowning. As I approach, the scoundrel says to me:
I draw a huge wad of cash from the ATM on our way, and then when I get back in the car, she’s less aggressive. I go on to spend a 2000 [cash] off of the cash I drew and she’s like: “you’re using that for subscription?”
“Yeah.” I reply.
On the way, I slightly tap her exposed thighs and get to the point where I say in a non-needy way (as much as I could): “There is more cash if one wanted it and the essence it’s there would really help in many things one would need.”- attempting to use money as bait again to get her to consent.
She says: You want sex and the way you went about it was wrong. I am not the girl for it. Then she removes my hands from her thighs. I quietly drive to the point where she’s to drop off. As we approach she gets girly as she acts like her friend is nearby.
Then she waits in the car a bit and I say: “You’re enjoying my company right now, we could have stayed some more just you have to go now.” - creating a barrier.
“Well you can see me again. You know moving house is very disturbing and the process they are giving me is like I must do this and do that and the landlord has even been calling me. I need to get there before school begins on full.”
I pull out 500 [cash] and hand it to her.
LOADS OF FEEDBACK FROM THIS ONE:
The display of sexual intent may have come on too strongly. There may have been a moment where she would have been okay with some physical escalation.
The seduction location may have become a place where she’s often been taken by other guys – especially if they never gave her what she wanted: sex. So her swift getaway from the lodge could be anchored to the fact that such places make her feel slutty. Hence wrong logistics.
I could not take her to mine for reason I look back at now and think it may have been a good idea since the way the housing area is, it’s rather unpredictable with kids running through and staff knocking to see how they can help. Fixing today up for a seduction could have been poor there also in my judgement.
On the day, she is late but when I call, she updates me regularly till I finally see her. It’s been an hour already. Now the date is on and I can only control myself so much as she is wearing a very short frock with long sleeves. It is a lace material and the hair she has complements it beautifully.
I ask her: “How was your night?”
Then I mention how that I did not get her out today to give her any sort of work because I have nothing like a job offer in place.
Now we are round to a new location and I tell her they serve drinks, she pulls back when she sees how unkempt the place really is. I then proceed to ask her:
“Would you like to have sex?”
She leans away as though in shock. I keep looking at her but don’t repeat the question.
“I thought you said something”, said with disgust and relief.
I’m doing mental gymnastics as I think of the best place to close the deal with this babe. Now we are round about to where I think would work. Pulling in, the place has huge rats there and I mention how that they are too big for wards. She laughs. I place my hands on her hair just to establish some touch and she obliges, explaining the style she made and how it’s a lot less expensive. Conversation dulls out as we get into the place and order drinks. She wants to get some meat with it too. I decline to have meat. Then I pull out a sachet of spirit drink and put in my cup of coke. Then casually asked: “What’s your brand - Derok or Royal Challenge?” She shakes her head. I sip on the coke and spirit. She scoffs and says: You are using that?
Me: Yea. It’s for flavor.
She: Is that what they told you *shit test*
Me: *no response*
She: The coke is too sweet.
Me: Hence the reason I use this coffee flavor.
Later I offer her the rest of my coke and she declines, pours it back into my cup and sits down. Then she gets feisty about leaving and all. I keep talking in a drawl and leaning into her, I say:
Note: I realize that my shifty eye contact may have struck an in-congruent nerve. I guess its cause there was so much going on in my head at the time. Basically, if I were to maintain steady eye contact, not only would it increase sexual tension, it would also make my state of oneness apparent to her and then mirror the same in her to cause her to follow my lead. I guess I wanted to infuriate her first for being initially feisty with me.“How come it’s easy for us to say: ‘I want to eat food.’ But not ‘I want to have sex.’?”
She: Well you just said it out of the blue. *referring to the initial qn. I had asked about having sex*
Me:* Looking at her like that’s not what I am referring to* Then I add, like now I would think everyone would be much more relaxed if they would be able to discuss these things without holding back.
She: I can say I am horny and my boyfriend would give me sex.
She: My boyfriend is a sex freak, he wants it all the time and he could call me and ask for it. I am not a sex freak; I would just let him and sometimes force myself to act like I want it. Also he would sometimes stay away from it for 3 months.
Me:* looking at her through my glass as I drink* Hmm.
She: *looks away*
Me: *look away also*
She: You seem very much into sex, sex sex! Where is your girlfriend?
Me: It would not be fair to her.
She: But where is your girlfriend.
Me: *leaning away still thinking I don’t have to answer her directly, I just evade the question* Not going to be fair on her *breaking eye contact*
Me: There are rooms in this place, I think. *pointing to the sections around* Accommodation can be hard to find sometimes in this town.
She: You are looking for a room or a place to stay? *sounding alarmed*
Me: Somehow.
She: I am going to get up and go and I won’t look at it with you.
Me: I'm just…*getting up*
She: I'm going. *getting up too*
Me: …checking if they have any. *I obviously knew there were rooms*
She: *leaving the premises*
I walk to the waiter pay the bill, spend a few more minutes’ chit-chatting then go out. Looking around, my date was not there. Then as I get to the car, she’s standing there, arms across her chest and frowning. As I approach, the scoundrel says to me:
She: You wanted to pay for a room to use right? *insinuating a short time use* Please give me transport money for me to go home.
Me: I don’t know what you’re talking about. *turning to the car*
She: *meekly following me, almost making me laugh* I have to go. I need transport.
Me: Come let’s go then.
She: I am not coming with you. Do I look like a slut? You took me here and wanted to pay for a place to fuck me. You did not even ask me if I had eaten today.
Me: Err- how was your night? *said with a smirk, hard to control my mirth at this point*
She:*turns to leave* you say you don’t have transport. What was it you used to pay the waiter?
Me: My last cash. I have to go to the ATM now. Get in the car.
She: I don’t trust boys. *walking back into the car*
I draw a huge wad of cash from the ATM on our way, and then when I get back in the car, she’s less aggressive. I go on to spend a 2000 [cash] off of the cash I drew and she’s like: “you’re using that for subscription?”
“Yeah.” I reply.
On the way, I slightly tap her exposed thighs and get to the point where I say in a non-needy way (as much as I could): “There is more cash if one wanted it and the essence it’s there would really help in many things one would need.”- attempting to use money as bait again to get her to consent.
She says: You want sex and the way you went about it was wrong. I am not the girl for it. Then she removes my hands from her thighs. I quietly drive to the point where she’s to drop off. As we approach she gets girly as she acts like her friend is nearby.
Then she waits in the car a bit and I say: “You’re enjoying my company right now, we could have stayed some more just you have to go now.” - creating a barrier.
“Well you can see me again. You know moving house is very disturbing and the process they are giving me is like I must do this and do that and the landlord has even been calling me. I need to get there before school begins on full.”
I pull out 500 [cash] and hand it to her.
LOADS OF FEEDBACK FROM THIS ONE:
The display of sexual intent may have come on too strongly. There may have been a moment where she would have been okay with some physical escalation.
The seduction location may have become a place where she’s often been taken by other guys – especially if they never gave her what she wanted: sex. So her swift getaway from the lodge could be anchored to the fact that such places make her feel slutty. Hence wrong logistics.
I could not take her to mine for reason I look back at now and think it may have been a good idea since the way the housing area is, it’s rather unpredictable with kids running through and staff knocking to see how they can help. Fixing today up for a seduction could have been poor there also in my judgement.