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Journal Goal:
Chronologically record my success and failures at seduction and my improvements. –thanks Stef well said
Alright so a little about me, I'm a 23 year old teacher/ amateur pua, I'm currently living in Korea, and while I'm here I wanted to document my successes and sometimes failures
So I guess I'll dive into it
Day 1: Feb. 24/2013
Using some solid text game scored 2 dates on the same day.
Had my first one this afternoon at 1pm. It was an informational date as I hadn't seen this girl in forever plus I knew I had only a couple hours of a window. So we meet at the subway near my place, I still am learning the area so I got us lost a bit (bad DLV for me lol) but we finally get to where were going. I took her back to my place saying I forgot something just so she'd be comfortable. It worked pretty well, was a quick in and out excursion to my place, then we went to a nice little eatery, just cheap food. We had some good conversation, mainly small talk, I didn't really try to deep dive much, but I did do qualification and cold reads. We actually discussed sex and I made some innuendos, but she kinda felt uncomfortable so maybe too soon. Well I felt like it was going good so I decided to move her to a nice little yogurt and icecream shop where we sat down and had a good time. I then asked her if she could finish the icecream as we was we walked, she asked why the hurry and I told her I was meeting a friend she didn't know I had another date lol
Second date started at 3pm. This was SUPPOSED to be a structural date. She picked me up in her car, and we drove about 20 min. outside the city, she wanted to go to taco bell… but hey so what. Anyways, we get to taco bell, sadly I’m still an amateur so I’m giving her protective touches on the back and the arm steering her around, and a couple more flirty touches, which she returned. We ate taco bell then I pulled her into a little museum place, but I could tell she wasn’t really into it, we took some pictures together by the paintings and left. She wanted to go back to where we live (Note: She lives in the same building as I do, like 3 floors down which is pretty damn good logistically) So we drive back, I’m still trying to kino a bit, but its hard in a car (at least for me) when we get back I suggest we go grab a drink, and she says why don’t we just watch Lost Rooms. I didn’t really understand her so I thought she was inviting me back to her place… This is where I made a mistake, I deviated from my plan and said sure and then I find out that she meant she’d give me the USB and I could watch it on my own…OUCH that was a kick in the teeth. I try to persist asking her if we could just go to her place for a smoke, and she said she was tired. She left me in the elevator holding a smoke, felt like such a beta. It wasn’t exactly successful b/c if I had kept with the drink, loosened her up a bit, and then I might have been able to take her home. I’m going to wait a couple days and try for a second date, and hopefully lay her, but it will all depend on how she perceived the date.
I think my main problem was I didn’t stay confident, when she gave me a new idea I took it instead of leading her like a man. I feel I kind of blew it on this one, but I’m not too upset, the informational date went very well. I’m just going to do damage report, and not get hung up, there will always be other girls.
If you have any criticisms or advice, let me know. I’m always trying to learn new things.
Cheers,
Trav
Chronologically record my success and failures at seduction and my improvements. –thanks Stef well said
Alright so a little about me, I'm a 23 year old teacher/ amateur pua, I'm currently living in Korea, and while I'm here I wanted to document my successes and sometimes failures
So I guess I'll dive into it
Day 1: Feb. 24/2013
Using some solid text game scored 2 dates on the same day.
Had my first one this afternoon at 1pm. It was an informational date as I hadn't seen this girl in forever plus I knew I had only a couple hours of a window. So we meet at the subway near my place, I still am learning the area so I got us lost a bit (bad DLV for me lol) but we finally get to where were going. I took her back to my place saying I forgot something just so she'd be comfortable. It worked pretty well, was a quick in and out excursion to my place, then we went to a nice little eatery, just cheap food. We had some good conversation, mainly small talk, I didn't really try to deep dive much, but I did do qualification and cold reads. We actually discussed sex and I made some innuendos, but she kinda felt uncomfortable so maybe too soon. Well I felt like it was going good so I decided to move her to a nice little yogurt and icecream shop where we sat down and had a good time. I then asked her if she could finish the icecream as we was we walked, she asked why the hurry and I told her I was meeting a friend she didn't know I had another date lol
Second date started at 3pm. This was SUPPOSED to be a structural date. She picked me up in her car, and we drove about 20 min. outside the city, she wanted to go to taco bell… but hey so what. Anyways, we get to taco bell, sadly I’m still an amateur so I’m giving her protective touches on the back and the arm steering her around, and a couple more flirty touches, which she returned. We ate taco bell then I pulled her into a little museum place, but I could tell she wasn’t really into it, we took some pictures together by the paintings and left. She wanted to go back to where we live (Note: She lives in the same building as I do, like 3 floors down which is pretty damn good logistically) So we drive back, I’m still trying to kino a bit, but its hard in a car (at least for me) when we get back I suggest we go grab a drink, and she says why don’t we just watch Lost Rooms. I didn’t really understand her so I thought she was inviting me back to her place… This is where I made a mistake, I deviated from my plan and said sure and then I find out that she meant she’d give me the USB and I could watch it on my own…OUCH that was a kick in the teeth. I try to persist asking her if we could just go to her place for a smoke, and she said she was tired. She left me in the elevator holding a smoke, felt like such a beta. It wasn’t exactly successful b/c if I had kept with the drink, loosened her up a bit, and then I might have been able to take her home. I’m going to wait a couple days and try for a second date, and hopefully lay her, but it will all depend on how she perceived the date.
I think my main problem was I didn’t stay confident, when she gave me a new idea I took it instead of leading her like a man. I feel I kind of blew it on this one, but I’m not too upset, the informational date went very well. I’m just going to do damage report, and not get hung up, there will always be other girls.
If you have any criticisms or advice, let me know. I’m always trying to learn new things.
Cheers,
Trav