Try Again or Move on ?

[Mogga]

this is kinda messy so please bear with me , there's this chick who I met in class , I did pretty well with her until I tried to ask her out , basically I told her if she wants to meet up and study together
long story short : she said she can't give me her number and she's sorry to which I responded : 'why you're shy *bored look*"

her: "Well Yeah! this is the first time ever a guy does that to me .... I can't give you my number sorry but we'll study together if you want"

so I just said it's no big deal and it's alright said nothing else and bailed out ( now she might think I'm bitter or something ), I know that might've been a dumb move but in the heat of the moment I felt like that was a "trap" to get sucked into the friendzone or "nice guy" territory .

Should I try again and "fix" this ? if so how ? or do I let it go .

Thanks.

 

[Fuck This]

Sounds like teenager problems.....

She have a boyfriend?

still living with controlling parents?

Or she doesn't want you blowing up her phone with needy wannabe boyfriend crap...

If you conduct yourself in a manner where you are going after what you want in life outside of female attention, SHE will be asking for YOUR phone # ......

 

[Mogga]

Sounds like teenager problems.....

She have a boyfriend?

still living with controlling parents?

Or she doesn't want you blowing up her phone with needy wannabe boyfriend crap...

If you conduct yourself in a manner where you are going after what you want in life outside of female attention, SHE will be asking for YOUR phone # ......

Teenager problems ? probably , she definitely has controlling parents , religious and all
so what should I do ? cuz I don't have much time till I won't be able to see her (around 2 months )
what do you suggest ?

 

[Mogga]

bump

 

[pks391]

It seems as though she wanted to give you a shot at personalizing with her but you were too focused on getting her number.
You should've used the study date as a ruse to get to know her better and forward the scene between the two of you.
If you want to turn it around you need to fix another situation where the two of you are alone together but in a SMOOTH manner and not in a desperate manner. Like next time you get a moment where you guys are talking, just casually tell her, "Hey I was kind of wrapped up with some work last time. Would you like to reschedule that study date?" You'll know if she's interested if she responds with a yes or else chalk her off as a loss.

 

[sneaky_charm]

Listen to Fuck This, he knows his shit.

Also I second pks391. If you get a chance to study together why are you worried about the number. You can seduce a girl only in person cause you have voice, eye contact, touch etc. going. Texting cant do that for you.

 

[pks391]

Hey, Sneaky_charm, I have made the date as a focal point and not getting the number if you read a bit closely.

Cheers

 

[sneaky_charm]

Hey, Sneaky_charm, I have made the date as a focal point and not getting the number if you read a bit closely.

Cheers

Oh thats what I meant. I said I agree with you.

 

[DarkKnight]

I would try again, if only for your own conscience that you have at least "tried" and didn't drop the ball immediately. If she again rebuffs you definitely next her immediately. There is no reason to overanalyze this, except for scarcity of course which is bad on itself and a bigger problem. Trust me kid, you're pretty young and there are PLENTY of women around. You'll be kicking yourself over a couple of years when you notice all the opportunities you passed because of one specific girl.

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