Trying to get her to my place

[mbbx5va2]

Guys,

What's the best line to get her back to my place. How about something along the lines of:

Had a good time tonight....really enjoyed chatting to you lets continue chatting at mine / have some more drinks at mine.

If she says: I'm unsure what's the best way to reassure her?

Also after how many dates should you try to get her back to yours?

Thanks

 

[Sub-Zero]

Chase says to say nightcap, idk remember the exact way he said it, but he has an article on bringing girls home, the key is to be subtle and not outright say come back to my place. Your examples don’t sound too bad.

Personally I would try every first date, I’m trying everything the first date; the invite to the lay.

Girls now a days play so many fuckin game, getting her out one time is hard enough, imagine two!

It’s really on how comfortable you feel doing it, Chase has this on his site too, it’s called date compression; you go on 2-3 dates in like a week in a half or 2.

 

[Fuck This]

More often than not, I've actually gone to the girl's place. Not on purpose, but I think she felt more comfortable, had her birth control, was in familiar surroundings, etc.

It's been a matter of escalating physically until she whispers, "take me home..." and then things happen.

If you set up the date so she meets you at your place before the date, it will be more familiar for her to return,

You can also set up a REASON to return. ir: a "special dessert" like a cannoli, or some cheesecake that needs to stay refrigerated. You tell her early in the evening so save room for dessert, because you bought it/ made it special...

Same goes for a special bottle of wine, or Port, or aperitif....or coffee (French pressed fresh roasted beans)

The whole idea is to NOT make going to your place a big deal.

Another strategy is to do a group function with others at your place. Ideally the rest of the group knows to excuse themselves early in the night. Then of course before you take her home, you have to "clean up a little bit"....and Finally you are alone....and Nature takes its course...