LR Turned down 3 women, met a hot one at last

[TheChased]

Hi guys, just some basic info first:

English is not my native language and the translation will not be perfect, and sorry if there is any major grammar errors.
This is my first post on this forum, but I have been visiting this site since 2013.
You can skip the intro and First girl if you want to jump straight to the girl I actually went home with, but I must say, First girl was kinda funny.

Story happened about two weeks ago, anyways lets fade in.
I started the evening at home wanting to go out, sent out a text to an old friend of mine, asking what he was doing that night.
Sure thing, he was at a pre-party (don't know what you guys call it in your country, but a small event before you hit out to the clubs/bar).
So I called a friend of mine and got a ride over to the pre-party. When I came in the door, there was 3 chubby girls and some guys there.
Greeted my friend and introduced myself to the crowd. After a while, two of the girls started hitting on me, I just played along, laughing off when they said stuff like "We should have a threesome" and "It's something special about you". Thinking this was a great way to get my groove.

After a while, we hit the club, it was right before the summer vocation was over for the students. So the place wasn't packed, perfect amount of people if you ask me.
So my friend and I sat down after ordering us a drink. Thinking I would screen the room. Noticed a girl came and greeted my friend, asking how he had been since last time. She was a cute girl, maybe a 7, so I introduced my self.

First girl:
Me: "Hi, I'm xxx" (Friendly smile)
Her: "Hi, I'm xxx. I know who you are, you're a friend of me former boyfriend."
Me: "Friend? I know him, but we really don't have any contact anymore."
Her: "Ohh, didn't you used to work at "xxx"?"
Me: "Yeah, like five years ago! You stalker, haha"
Her: "Yeah, I always kinda have had a crush on you." (What? third thing she says to me after we first met. Already at this point I knew she was a sure lay)
Me: "Ohh, yeah? Well, it's not something I can turn off I'm afraid.. You're cute."
Her: *Laughing*
Her: "Wanna go out to the smoking arena and get some fresh air?" (At this point I realised she was so ready to come home with me)
Me: "I don't really smoke or anything, but fresh air seems like a fair deal."

As we we're going outside and I knew this girl wanted to so bad to go home with me, I took her arm, pulled her close and kissed her passionately, but brief. Looked her in the eyes, and the first thing this girl says is this: "We can't go home to my place, so we have to go to your place" Me: "We will figure out that later, let's have fun for now."
After a while I kinda got bored of this girl, and I knew I had her if I wanted too. So I told her I was gonna talk a bit with my friends and that we should hook up later that night. (Not that many people in the club, so it wouldn't be hard finding her again.) So I stood in line waiting to order me a beer when I looked at my side and I saw this really hot girl, right by my side. I had met this girl for a brief moment three years back, all I knew about her was that she could be a bitch (permanent bitch face).

Second girl:
Me: "Hi, I remember you" (looking at her with a sexy smile) -Comment: I know, not really a great opener.
Her: "Hi, ohh?"
Me: "Yeah, your friend went all crazy a while back when we was at a club, telling us we had it so easy since we we're good looking."
Her: "Ohh, yeah that! haha" (Alright! she dropped the permanent bitch face.)
Me: "That was a bit crazy, so what you up to?"
Her: "I came with my friends, they sit over there"
*Points*
Her: "And that's my crazy friend"
Me: "Let's order us some drinks and have a chat." (Placed my hand on her shoulder like a signal that we should face the bar)
Her: "Yeah"

We ordered the drinks and I asked her to move to a table where her friends didn't sit so we could talk. She complied.
After a little chitchat she asked me if I wanted to go out and have a smoke, I told her i didn't smoke, but fresh air would be nice. (What, again with the fresh air?)
So I deep dived a bit, made some funny remarks, and she would test me quite often. So I got stuck up about it and told her something like this:

Me: "You haven't been doing this with me, but I look at you and I think you can be a bitch to some people" (I told her this with a smile and a little laugh at the end to not come off harsh)
Her: *laughing*
Her: "Yeah, that's probably right"
Me: "Hmm, suddenly I wanted to kiss you."
Her: "Then do it."

So i did the same as last time, kissed passionately, but brief. I know Chase have had an article about this recently, if you can pull it off, it works like a charm, if not.. you better not kiss her in public. The thing is, I didn't read this article before this event, so I think it is something I have just found out by my own. Anyways, we talked a bit more and then we walked back in, but she went for the table with her friends.. We sat down at the table, but the others were talking with each other and didn't really notice us, except this guy that was hitting on her earlier on. (She told me when we sat down, also that he was an idiot.) He waved her towards him, she went over for a brief moment and came back.

Her: "He said he could rate me if I wanted to."
Me: *Looking weird at her*
Her: "What do you think he would rate me as?" (Another test)
Me: "It looks like he's really into you."
Her: "Let's make a game out of it, we guess, and the loser buys a drink." (Well, if I win, she would have to buy me a drink, which is not so normal for this girl. And if I lose, I just lost a game, not really that much of a big deal.)
Me: "You first then, so I know what I'm dealing with here."
Her: "I think he will rate me as a 9."
Me: "Damn, that was what I was gonna say, I will take 10 then."

Sure thing, this guy gave her a 10. So we went to the bar, she bought us drinks. I didn't really want a drink, but having a girl that is used to guys giving her drinks, buy me a drink is a win. We went back to the table, talked for like 2minuttes.

Me: "Let's get out of here, it's closing soon, and it can be hard getting a taxi."
Her: "Good idea."
Her friend: "Hey, you're going?" (She looked at both of us, knowing that we we're going home together)
Her: "Yeah"
Friend: "No, don't fuck shit up again."
Her: "We're going"
Friend: "You have a guy."

I had to think quick, so I grabbed her hand and we went outside. I asked what that was about, she told me it was complicated, but they wasn't together. (Sorry for you guys thinking I'm a douchebag here, I have never cheated on a girl my self, but what other people do is not my business. That's their mess, and hadn't it been me, it would've be someone else)
We grabbed a taxi, went to her place. Went straight to her bedroom, kissing heavily while clothes went all over the place! Fade out..


That was a crazy night, each girl was just better than the next one, and I was on a crazy flow. Anyways, I don't know if this was too long? I tried as best as a could remembering the conversations we had, but things get more blury when time goes by. The conversations I've written here is the ones I remember the best and they should be pretty accurate. Next time I will write closer to when it happened. Let me know what you guys think. Cheers

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Yo, TheChased, that was some really,really solid shit. You've got girls opening you regularly, get them to lead and escalate, and you successfully close directly (either through kissing or "let's get out of here," both very direct).

Your fundamentals sound phenomenal, but you also have your attainability down pat - when cute girls are approaching you and suggesting things like "let's have a threesome," then women aren't too afraid of rejection, knowing that you'll be cool about it if you do reject 'em. You give off a warm and accepting vibe.

As for your game, it seems to be a mix of "boytoy" and social king. Very cool and dynamic mix. Very high energy, but low effort, and very simple transitions. Keeps things simple and fun.

Her: "Ohh, didn't you used to work at "xxx"?"
Me: "Yeah, like five years ago! You stalker, haha"
Her: "Yeah, I always kinda have had a crush on you." (What? third thing she says to me after we first met. Already at this point I knew she was a sure lay)

Chase framed like a boss.

Me: "Hi, I remember you" (looking at her with a sexy smile) -Comment: I know, not really a great opener.
Her: "Hi, ohh?"
Me: "Yeah, your friend went all crazy a while back when we was at a club, telling us we had it so easy since we we're good looking."
Her: "Ohh, yeah that! haha" (Alright! she dropped the permanent bitch face.)
Me: "That was a bit crazy, so what you up to?"
Her: "I came with my friends, they sit over there"
*Points*
Her: "And that's my crazy friend"
Me: "Let's order us some drinks and have a chat." (Placed my hand on her shoulder like a signal that we should face the bar)
Her: "Yeah"

Your anecdote was actually pretty cool - it could potentially come off as braggy since you're highlighting your attractiveness, but since it actually happened and is a funny thread, she bites. And the dropping of the bitch face was very telling (though, I personally LOVE bitch-face; all of my favorite lovers/girlfriends were very "bitchy"). Also, she was ready for the D the moment she said "I came with my friends, they sit over there" - she's showing how popular she is for coming with friends and even points them out to you."

So i did the same as last time, kissed passionately, but brief. I know Chase have had an article about this recently, if you can pull it off, it works like a charm, if not.. you better not kiss her in public. The thing is, I didn't read this article before this event, so I think it is something I have just found out by my own. Anyways, we talked a bit more and then we walked back in, but she went for the table with her friends.. We sat down at the table, but the others were talking with each other and didn't really notice us, except this guy that was hitting on her earlier on. (She told me when we sat down, also that he was an idiot.) He waved her towards him, she went over for a brief moment and came back.

Her: "He said he could rate me if I wanted to."
Me: *Looking weird at her*
Her: "What do you think he would rate me as?" (Another test)
Me: "It looks like he's really into you."
Her: "Let's make a game out of it, we guess, and the loser buys a drink." (Well, if I win, she would have to buy me a drink, which is not so normal for this girl. And if I lose, I just lost a game, not really that much of a big deal.)
Me: "You first then, so I know what I'm dealing with here."
Her: "I think he will rate me as a 9."
Me: "Damn, that was what I was gonna say, I will take 10 then."

Lots going on here. Firstly, she probably somewhat liked him, enough that throwing him under the bus to you would pump her value (though women will throw a guy they don't like under the bus just as quickly, too; but they get more points if he's cute). She wouldn't have went over to him had she not somewhat liked him (also it's an attempt at jealousy).

So far so good.

Then you avoid her first two tests. Sometimes ignoring a test is a sign of weakness (i.e., you can't think of a response), but with shit this silly, you definitely just wanna joke it away. Also, when you said "it looks like he's really into," what was your facial expression?

Me: "Let's get out of here, it's closing soon, and it can be hard getting a taxi."
Her: "Good idea."
Her friend: "Hey, you're going?" (She looked at both of us, knowing that we we're going home together)
Her: "Yeah"
Friend: "No, don't fuck shit up again."
Her: "We're going"
Friend: "You have a guy."

Hahah, yessssss. (sidenote: don't feel too guilty about shagging girls with boyfriends. Unless you know the guy and/or like him, fuck the cock-thirsty girlfriends of the world. They need it. You're honestly doing women a favor).

Overall, fantastic. Look forward to reading more of your shenanigans.

- Anatty

 

[TheChased]

Thanks for looking over this Anatman!

Your anecdote was actually pretty cool - it could potentially come off as braggy since you're highlighting your attractiveness, but since it actually happened and is a funny thread, she bites. And the dropping of the bitch face was very telling (though, I personally LOVE bitch-face; all of my favorite lovers/girlfriends were very "bitchy"). Also, she was ready for the D the moment she said "I came with my friends, they sit over there" - she's showing how popular she is for coming with friends and even points them out to you."

I love the bitch-face too, I must say. Kind of a challenge when the girl has a wall up for most guys, and I love a challenge. It's also much more pleasing when you get her to put it down.

Then you avoid her first two tests. Sometimes ignoring a test is a sign of weakness (i.e., you can't think of a response), but with shit this silly, you definitely just wanna joke it away. Also, when you said "it looks like he's really into," what was your facial expression?

I don't think I got i through, but she was actually annoyed by the guy, so I never felt threatened by him. (He was a bit tipsy you could say). So my facial expression was kinda a "haha, what an idiot". Dont know how to describe it.


Love the response, still got stuff to learn, so I appreciate it. I never feel guilty about it when it's just a relationship. Felt kind of guilty when i shagged a married woman with two kids tho(milf), but that lady was looking for it

 

[ray_zorse]

Yeah, your overall convo, subtle chase frames, economy, chilled vibe with a touch of IDGAF sounds extremely smooth. I think you passed a lot of tests just by not getting excited about shit, this takes confidence and a solid abundance mentality. If I could handle nightgame with this kind of elan I'd be thrilled, still pretty hit/miss for me. I also didn't pick up on the points Anatman noted in their behaviour, useful stuff, guess I have a bit more work to do in reading women's state.
Ray

 

[TheChased]

Thanks for the compliments Ray. Yeah, I would say that night-game is where I'm doing best. I know I should work more on my day-game tho, because I'm weaker there. My fundamentals are okey in day-game, but my availability can come off really bad. So the more shy girls will get the idea that I'm way out of their league. So when I meet the same girls in a club or at a bar, they will respond better. Could be that I (and they) have more confidence at night too, since it's where I've got the most practice. As mentioned in another post, it's just some months ago that I got out of a relationship, so I have to find my groove back there.