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Hey guys...
Sticking point time!
I won't BS and say I'm sleeping with girls every night but as I get better I'm getting more and more lays. Sometimes straight from a bar/club, sometimes from a date. I've slept with more girls in the first half of this year than I ever have in that period of time, waaaaaay more.
But I guess a sticking point is following up. It's usually a one time deal. We hook up, she probably feels a bit slutty once it sinks in and after a few days she seems to be gone.
Initially they are usually quite warm right after we part ways.
I try to usually follow up with a re-assuring or sweet text to show I'm not being a player.
Try to play down any feelings she might get of it being "wrong" to hookup so fast.
Try to follow up to see her again quickly.
Not being braggy but I know I take care of them well in the bedroom.
But more often than not it falls through after it all seems to "settle in" with her.
I haven't minded so much as I'm learning but I'm thinking of when I meet that awesome girl I really like. I'm on the verge of saying moving fast will hinder my chances but at the same time I know if I don't push it, chances are I won't get her either... just being pro-active about this one
Thanks guys!
Sticking point time!
I won't BS and say I'm sleeping with girls every night but as I get better I'm getting more and more lays. Sometimes straight from a bar/club, sometimes from a date. I've slept with more girls in the first half of this year than I ever have in that period of time, waaaaaay more.
But I guess a sticking point is following up. It's usually a one time deal. We hook up, she probably feels a bit slutty once it sinks in and after a few days she seems to be gone.
Initially they are usually quite warm right after we part ways.
I try to usually follow up with a re-assuring or sweet text to show I'm not being a player.
Try to play down any feelings she might get of it being "wrong" to hookup so fast.
Try to follow up to see her again quickly.
Not being braggy but I know I take care of them well in the bedroom.
But more often than not it falls through after it all seems to "settle in" with her.
I haven't minded so much as I'm learning but I'm thinking of when I meet that awesome girl I really like. I'm on the verge of saying moving fast will hinder my chances but at the same time I know if I don't push it, chances are I won't get her either... just being pro-active about this one
Thanks guys!
