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What's up gentlemen? Long time I didn't post here.
It's June 2018, and after a month of Ramadan in this conservative Muslim country I am really blowing a fuse. To make things worse, in the last few months I've been through a little cleaning in my life, broke up with Nairobi girlfriend and dropped my regular low-end FWBs here, focused on my powerlifting routine as well as getting started with my blog. In short, all work and no play makes Seppuku a dull boy.
Alright, so I decide to book a two weeks holiday in the Philippines, and see if I can renew my pasts exploits there... Here is what happened.
June 15th. Charlene
So I arrive in Manila on June 14th, and start to swipe my way through the usual apps. Very soon I notice Charlene, my LR in Singapore from three years ago. She's online, and apparently lives now a mile away from my hotel. She notices me, and soon opens me. I must have made a good impression on her last time
. We agree on meeting in SM Megamall about an hour later. I arrive to the meeting... And surprise, she's now overly fat. She was so cute before, but now turned into a landwhale - what a pity! We spend a few hours in the mall, have tea, coffee, chat our lives, and she shows me around. She's obviously excited and as I can tell, most likely anticipating some action... To pull or not to pull, that is the question. Old Seppuku would have pulled her in the hotel "out of mere politeness", but the new Seppuku has higher quality requirements. Sorry darling. I return to the hotel and leave her disappointed.
June 17th to 19th. Liza's mini-drama
After the Charlene short adventure, I get back in touch with Liza. She's a Philippines girl I met online in my Gulf country, but never got to meet in real because her arab employers would not let her take a regular day off. Liza is now on a holiday in the Philippines, and as per our last chat, she had already suggested I meet her there. So here I am. Warm reception on Whatsapp. She lives at a 4 hours drive south of Manila, so I suggest to book a nice room in a resort in Tagaytay, which is half-way, and a touristic attraction. She says she will join me there... Initially. But on the 17th, when I'm on the way there, she now asks "can you come to my city?". LOL. It starts smelling flakey. So, as a rule, when you have a date agreed and she changes the terms of the date at the last minute, you have to politely refuse and stick to the original plan - it would be otherwise be a massive break of frame. So I tell her I'll go to Tagaytay as agreed, the room is booked for two nights until the 19th, she can join me if she wants, and on the 19th I'll be on my way to Cebu. Her excuse for changing the plan is that her mom is sick in hospital, and as a "proof" she sends me a pic of her in a hospital room with an elderly person. A pic which, for all I know, could very well have been taken two weeks ago. The next day in the early morning, she texts that she will maybe come. Enquire about the location. Then about taxi cost - where she probably expects me to jump in and propose to pay for the taxi, which I don't. Alright this is going to be a flake. I spend the day of 18th on the tourist sites, then at the pool. In the evening she confirms that she will not come, no kidding, I don't even answer, and the next morning I'm gone.
June 19th. Cebu city. Doreen
So far it's been 5 days, and still no luck. Doreen jumped on me in Tinder from my arrival in Cebu airport in the early evening. I know fairly well that the first girls to jump on you in the apps, are usually the professionals. I suggest a coffee shop the next day, but she says she can't meet me the next day because of her busy schedule, then she'll be gone for a week in Manila. So... she proposes to come to my hotel directly and spend the night there. She sends me a bunch of very nice pictures of her. She’s definitely a beauty. And indeed she works as a professional model. I don't accept right away and go for dinner on my own.
I have some quick chat with Kalyan my friend (from these Boards). I tell him that she is most likely a hooker, and she will only let me know the price when she is in my bedroom - a situation that I find uncomfortable. He says he disagrees, she could be DTF as well. So I decide to give it a go. It's like poker, if you want to know you have to play. At 11 pm I text her.
15 minutes later she shows up in the lobby of my hotel. Very pretty.
And then the rest is exactly as I predicted. When she's in underwear in the room, she asks for money. Alright darling, you win, I'm not going to kick you out now. I end up paying 80$. She stays for the night. As pretty as she was, the sex is really medium, she's not very much into it, and to tell the truth, me neither. The conclusion is, next time I will listen to my intuition when it tells me it must be a hooker.
In the morning I give her the amount, she leaves, and I never hear from her again. And that was my first experience with a professional, and not willing to reiterate.
June 20th to 23rd. Rowena again
I met her in Tinder when I was last here, almost two years ago, and went on a single date with her. That time, she was displaying mixed signs of excitement (spontaneously toyuching me, excited chatting), but also of weak compliance (not withholding hands for long). Plus, I had a cold and didn't feel well. So I didn't push for hotel that time. And the next day, I met Jackie the self pulling beauty, who made me forget all other female prospects at once (if there is any interest, both interactions described in my journal post here). So, no LR with Rowena back then. But we somehow managed to keep contact in Instagram all these two years. And on Saturday 16th, she notices my IG post in Manila. She initiates, and ask when we can meet. She's currently on a vacation in another part of the Philippines. But on the 19th, when I arrive in Cebu, she informs me that she's back to Cebu as well. On the 20th in the morning, after Doreen left, she engages me. She's basically free from work obligations fo the next 3 days, and we agree to meet later in the morning in a coffee shop.
We catch up on our stories after all this time - she sits opposite to me but becomes very touchy over the conversation. After an hour, we take a few pictures together, then get out of the coffee shop. I take her hand... and it is well received (no weak compliance like last time). We walk around in the mall looking for a place to eat. After lunch we walk around the shops. She has been mentioning the pool at Quest hotel, so I tell her it would be a good idea to purchase her a swimming suit. In the shop, she tries various swimming suits, and I inspect the results. She briefly (and intentionally) touches my dick through the trousers. And I’m half size. LOL. She buys a suit and we then head for my hotel, direction my bedroom, where I put on my swimwear. We have a good time in the pool, then head back to my bedroom for a shower. It is around 4pm. She goes first to the shower but leaves the door open. I see her inside... she asks me to join her in the shower. I remove my clothes and join. After the shower, I take her to the bed.
About four hours meet to bed, very smooth! We both knew we would be fucking later on, from the beginning in the coffee shop, but it was confirmed when she touched my dick in the shop.
I then book two nights in a beach resort in Mactan island, where we spend the remaining time together. Excellent time, very enjoyable. On the Saturday 23rd she has to fly to Manila for her job, and we part. With Doreen and Rowena immediately jumping on me since I arrived, my swiping activity didn't have time to yield much. So after Rowena left, I return to Cebu and resume swiping. God, so many ladyboys in these apps nowadays! The results start to come on Sunday 24th morning. Two girls seem to arise, Jen and Arlyn. But Jen responds quicker. So I get a date with Jen the same day at 3pm. Arlyn is pushed for the next day.
June 24th. Jen and the ladyboy scare
So I meet her in my usual coffee shop. She is petite and cute, very well dressed, long, black, healthy hair. Mini dress and heels showing perfect legs. But when I see her from closer.. Gosh, is that an Adam apple?
In the Philippines, just because a girl looks like a girl, doesn't necessarily mean she's a girl. On their online profiles, most ladyboys have the decency to actually state it: "Proud ladyboy of Cebu", or "#TG", or "proud LGBT", or "Transgender here". Some state it a little more subtle way: "a lady with a plus" etc... But some don't state it at all, so you'd better develop a keen eye. But in her case, I didn't see anything, and I was even so sure that I didn't ask if she's a genuine girl, before we meet.
So... I start the date with a big doubt in my mind. I keep some reserve the whole time but at the same time I want to avoid being asshole, because if she's really a man, she's still good and nice. So I'm not my usual charming, I keep a distance and (initially) avoid to touch. But at the same time doing my best to remain nice people. We finish our coffee... Time to go out. I take her/his hand and we walk. Hand well accepted. We walk around in the mall. I have to raise the subject... Is she a ladyboy? She senses my inner debate and asks me "do you have a question to ask? Or something to tell me?"
Yet I still don't ask. We are now seated side by side outside on the terraces. I start to talk about my divorce and kids... And ask her "how about you? Do you have a big past to tell me?"... and this is when she mentions being a single mom. Phew! The picture of her daughter looks like her. For more confidence, I start to mention how dating here is ambiguous: the hookers, the foreigner specialists, the ladyboys... She agrees without any particular reaction at the mention of ladyboys. I'm more in confidence now... And I start to relax at last!
She starts talking about her story, her being pregnant at 16 and the guy who ran away, and the hard life of a single mom at age 16, the parents, etc... She had to interrupt school to get a job and support daughter. We have a quick drink, then start to walk again, hand in hand. There's no more anxiety from me. I led her close to the exit of the mall. She tells me "here we are going out". I say "I suggest we go to my hotel to take a rest" "Are you crazy"” with an excited, half smile. "I could use a rest" and she follows my lead anyway. It’s a five minutes walk.
We’re now in my hotel room, she comes close and kisses me. It takes a little while, because she's fighting against her "I’m a good girl" ASD. I give her complete freedom to leave if she's not comfortable. But finally she gives in. The sex is very good. Didn't notice any dick
Even so petite (normally not my body type), it is still sexy and nice.
June 25th to 30th. Arlyn
I was thinking of canceling the planned date with Arlyn and focus solely on Jen. But overnight, she has become distant. Not initiating texting (which is a bad sign) and taking ages to reply to my texts. In hindsight, she texted last night that she was afraid of falling in love with me. Well, I've got to respect that. So... I'm going to give a shot to Arlyn after all. Since I'm still not sure if I'm going to meet Jen, I tell Arlyn that I have things to do with my real estate agent later at 3:30pm, so our date is going to be from 1 to 3 pm.
We meet at 1:15 in the same coffee shop. She’s undoubtedly a girl, pretty in person, very lively, happy and smiling. We sit at 90 degrees. The contact is immediately very good, within 15 minutes she's very touchy (she initiates the incidental touching) and I tease her, and create tension and comfort in my usual fashion, and she's all excited and giggling. At 1:50 she comes in my arm for the selfie. I tease her that there's a 5% chance she's a ladyboy. We finish our coffees then go for a walk around in the mall, she accepts my hand right away. At 3pm we part.
By 6pm there is still no sign that I'm going to meet Jen. I text her "Well, if you still want to talk to me you can reach me here". Then I text Arlyn that I'm done with the real estate agent and going out for a dinner. She wants to join. So we meet at around 7:30pm for an italian restaurant. Mood is good. I joke her that she would do a very good lechon meat (local pork-based specialty dish. Delicious). Dinner finished, we walk around in the mall again, hand in hand. She's rubbing her boobs against my arm as we walk - so I joke her about "playing bowling". First floor, second floor, then first again... I mention that I want to drink some wine. She brings me to a restaurant on the third floor that sells wine. The place sucks, and so I tell her. Alright. Time to move. I know I'm in very safe territory here, I have all the signs:
* she touched me first
* accepts my hand very well
* follows my lead
* giggles excitedly
* talks all the time
* and rubs her boobs against my arm as we walk
So. I just say nothing and simply lead her towards my hotel. She doesn't ask any question, until in the lobby, when I take the direction of the elevators. "I thought you wanted have wine in the lobby?" Don’t take this at face value, it's just ASD rationalization. "Yes. We will order wine in my room. Plus, I want to take a shower". I order the wine, go for a quick shower, then come on the bed next to her. She has switched the TV on. Wine arrives. It's me vs the TV show, but I easily I win her over doing a little push pull.
She is extremely good in bed, and has a very sexy body. We end up staying 5 nights together before I leave.
Aftermath
* Charlene re-initiated texting, trying to see if I would be back to Manila. So bad that a cute, pretty girl let herself grow into such a fatty. Sorry darling.
* Liza continued (to this day) liking my IG pics and watching my WhatsApp statuses. Sorry darling, you chose to throw me some BS (say, 70% sure). The chance is gone now.
* Rowena turned crazy jealous the following week. She texted me things like "Enjoying cebuana pussy?" "the Doctor is busy with his patient" "woman's bag LOL" (comment on my Instagram), etc... I deflected all her insinuations the whole week but, at her insistence, I finally gave in and told her three girls. She exploded at my face on Whatsapp. What the fuck? When I was with her, she carefully avoided kissing me on the lips the whole time. Aaaah crazy girls!
* Jen kept a low key contact with me the whole week. But we never got to meet again. It's better like this I suppose.
* Arlyn... She was one of the most sexy girl I had in these past four years. Making love with her was an experience. We're still in touch, however with her vast sexual needs I don't think I can keep her around me until my next stop to Cebu. Let's see.
As for me, I'm pleased to see that the vibe and the skill are still there, even after several months of no practice. Great vacation!
Cheers,
Seppuku
PS. What exactly do I do on date? To be fair I find it harder and harder to describe. It's a combination of sexy vibe, holding frame, and building tension. Within 30 to 60 minutes she's giggling excitedly. The rest is being smooth, and pulling home.
It's June 2018, and after a month of Ramadan in this conservative Muslim country I am really blowing a fuse. To make things worse, in the last few months I've been through a little cleaning in my life, broke up with Nairobi girlfriend and dropped my regular low-end FWBs here, focused on my powerlifting routine as well as getting started with my blog. In short, all work and no play makes Seppuku a dull boy.
Alright, so I decide to book a two weeks holiday in the Philippines, and see if I can renew my pasts exploits there... Here is what happened.
June 15th. Charlene
So I arrive in Manila on June 14th, and start to swipe my way through the usual apps. Very soon I notice Charlene, my LR in Singapore from three years ago. She's online, and apparently lives now a mile away from my hotel. She notices me, and soon opens me. I must have made a good impression on her last time
June 17th to 19th. Liza's mini-drama
After the Charlene short adventure, I get back in touch with Liza. She's a Philippines girl I met online in my Gulf country, but never got to meet in real because her arab employers would not let her take a regular day off. Liza is now on a holiday in the Philippines, and as per our last chat, she had already suggested I meet her there. So here I am. Warm reception on Whatsapp. She lives at a 4 hours drive south of Manila, so I suggest to book a nice room in a resort in Tagaytay, which is half-way, and a touristic attraction. She says she will join me there... Initially. But on the 17th, when I'm on the way there, she now asks "can you come to my city?". LOL. It starts smelling flakey. So, as a rule, when you have a date agreed and she changes the terms of the date at the last minute, you have to politely refuse and stick to the original plan - it would be otherwise be a massive break of frame. So I tell her I'll go to Tagaytay as agreed, the room is booked for two nights until the 19th, she can join me if she wants, and on the 19th I'll be on my way to Cebu. Her excuse for changing the plan is that her mom is sick in hospital, and as a "proof" she sends me a pic of her in a hospital room with an elderly person. A pic which, for all I know, could very well have been taken two weeks ago. The next day in the early morning, she texts that she will maybe come. Enquire about the location. Then about taxi cost - where she probably expects me to jump in and propose to pay for the taxi, which I don't. Alright this is going to be a flake. I spend the day of 18th on the tourist sites, then at the pool. In the evening she confirms that she will not come, no kidding, I don't even answer, and the next morning I'm gone.
June 19th. Cebu city. Doreen
So far it's been 5 days, and still no luck. Doreen jumped on me in Tinder from my arrival in Cebu airport in the early evening. I know fairly well that the first girls to jump on you in the apps, are usually the professionals. I suggest a coffee shop the next day, but she says she can't meet me the next day because of her busy schedule, then she'll be gone for a week in Manila. So... she proposes to come to my hotel directly and spend the night there. She sends me a bunch of very nice pictures of her. She’s definitely a beauty. And indeed she works as a professional model. I don't accept right away and go for dinner on my own.
I have some quick chat with Kalyan my friend (from these Boards). I tell him that she is most likely a hooker, and she will only let me know the price when she is in my bedroom - a situation that I find uncomfortable. He says he disagrees, she could be DTF as well. So I decide to give it a go. It's like poker, if you want to know you have to play. At 11 pm I text her.
Me: Finished dinner. Where are you?
Her: You accept me?
Me: Yeah. So let's meet. If you’re still up
Her: I'll tell you if I'm coming - no darling, you can't give me this crap.
Me: No. I'm playing by your rules. You wanted it this way. So if you're not sure, it's ok. Tomorrow we get a coffee during the day.
Her: I'm almost coming. Are u really OK?
Me: Yes I am, if you are. But you tell me now yes or no because I want to know now.
Her: I'm coming
Me: When?
Her: Now
15 minutes later she shows up in the lobby of my hotel. Very pretty.
And then the rest is exactly as I predicted. When she's in underwear in the room, she asks for money. Alright darling, you win, I'm not going to kick you out now. I end up paying 80$. She stays for the night. As pretty as she was, the sex is really medium, she's not very much into it, and to tell the truth, me neither. The conclusion is, next time I will listen to my intuition when it tells me it must be a hooker.
In the morning I give her the amount, she leaves, and I never hear from her again. And that was my first experience with a professional, and not willing to reiterate.
June 20th to 23rd. Rowena again
I met her in Tinder when I was last here, almost two years ago, and went on a single date with her. That time, she was displaying mixed signs of excitement (spontaneously toyuching me, excited chatting), but also of weak compliance (not withholding hands for long). Plus, I had a cold and didn't feel well. So I didn't push for hotel that time. And the next day, I met Jackie the self pulling beauty, who made me forget all other female prospects at once (if there is any interest, both interactions described in my journal post here). So, no LR with Rowena back then. But we somehow managed to keep contact in Instagram all these two years. And on Saturday 16th, she notices my IG post in Manila. She initiates, and ask when we can meet. She's currently on a vacation in another part of the Philippines. But on the 19th, when I arrive in Cebu, she informs me that she's back to Cebu as well. On the 20th in the morning, after Doreen left, she engages me. She's basically free from work obligations fo the next 3 days, and we agree to meet later in the morning in a coffee shop.
We catch up on our stories after all this time - she sits opposite to me but becomes very touchy over the conversation. After an hour, we take a few pictures together, then get out of the coffee shop. I take her hand... and it is well received (no weak compliance like last time). We walk around in the mall looking for a place to eat. After lunch we walk around the shops. She has been mentioning the pool at Quest hotel, so I tell her it would be a good idea to purchase her a swimming suit. In the shop, she tries various swimming suits, and I inspect the results. She briefly (and intentionally) touches my dick through the trousers. And I’m half size. LOL. She buys a suit and we then head for my hotel, direction my bedroom, where I put on my swimwear. We have a good time in the pool, then head back to my bedroom for a shower. It is around 4pm. She goes first to the shower but leaves the door open. I see her inside... she asks me to join her in the shower. I remove my clothes and join. After the shower, I take her to the bed.
About four hours meet to bed, very smooth! We both knew we would be fucking later on, from the beginning in the coffee shop, but it was confirmed when she touched my dick in the shop.
I then book two nights in a beach resort in Mactan island, where we spend the remaining time together. Excellent time, very enjoyable. On the Saturday 23rd she has to fly to Manila for her job, and we part. With Doreen and Rowena immediately jumping on me since I arrived, my swiping activity didn't have time to yield much. So after Rowena left, I return to Cebu and resume swiping. God, so many ladyboys in these apps nowadays! The results start to come on Sunday 24th morning. Two girls seem to arise, Jen and Arlyn. But Jen responds quicker. So I get a date with Jen the same day at 3pm. Arlyn is pushed for the next day.
June 24th. Jen and the ladyboy scare
So I meet her in my usual coffee shop. She is petite and cute, very well dressed, long, black, healthy hair. Mini dress and heels showing perfect legs. But when I see her from closer.. Gosh, is that an Adam apple?
In the Philippines, just because a girl looks like a girl, doesn't necessarily mean she's a girl. On their online profiles, most ladyboys have the decency to actually state it: "Proud ladyboy of Cebu", or "#TG", or "proud LGBT", or "Transgender here". Some state it a little more subtle way: "a lady with a plus" etc... But some don't state it at all, so you'd better develop a keen eye. But in her case, I didn't see anything, and I was even so sure that I didn't ask if she's a genuine girl, before we meet.
So... I start the date with a big doubt in my mind. I keep some reserve the whole time but at the same time I want to avoid being asshole, because if she's really a man, she's still good and nice. So I'm not my usual charming, I keep a distance and (initially) avoid to touch. But at the same time doing my best to remain nice people. We finish our coffee... Time to go out. I take her/his hand and we walk. Hand well accepted. We walk around in the mall. I have to raise the subject... Is she a ladyboy? She senses my inner debate and asks me "do you have a question to ask? Or something to tell me?"
Yet I still don't ask. We are now seated side by side outside on the terraces. I start to talk about my divorce and kids... And ask her "how about you? Do you have a big past to tell me?"... and this is when she mentions being a single mom. Phew! The picture of her daughter looks like her. For more confidence, I start to mention how dating here is ambiguous: the hookers, the foreigner specialists, the ladyboys... She agrees without any particular reaction at the mention of ladyboys. I'm more in confidence now... And I start to relax at last!
She starts talking about her story, her being pregnant at 16 and the guy who ran away, and the hard life of a single mom at age 16, the parents, etc... She had to interrupt school to get a job and support daughter. We have a quick drink, then start to walk again, hand in hand. There's no more anxiety from me. I led her close to the exit of the mall. She tells me "here we are going out". I say "I suggest we go to my hotel to take a rest" "Are you crazy"” with an excited, half smile. "I could use a rest" and she follows my lead anyway. It’s a five minutes walk.
We’re now in my hotel room, she comes close and kisses me. It takes a little while, because she's fighting against her "I’m a good girl" ASD. I give her complete freedom to leave if she's not comfortable. But finally she gives in. The sex is very good. Didn't notice any dick
June 25th to 30th. Arlyn
I was thinking of canceling the planned date with Arlyn and focus solely on Jen. But overnight, she has become distant. Not initiating texting (which is a bad sign) and taking ages to reply to my texts. In hindsight, she texted last night that she was afraid of falling in love with me. Well, I've got to respect that. So... I'm going to give a shot to Arlyn after all. Since I'm still not sure if I'm going to meet Jen, I tell Arlyn that I have things to do with my real estate agent later at 3:30pm, so our date is going to be from 1 to 3 pm.
We meet at 1:15 in the same coffee shop. She’s undoubtedly a girl, pretty in person, very lively, happy and smiling. We sit at 90 degrees. The contact is immediately very good, within 15 minutes she's very touchy (she initiates the incidental touching) and I tease her, and create tension and comfort in my usual fashion, and she's all excited and giggling. At 1:50 she comes in my arm for the selfie. I tease her that there's a 5% chance she's a ladyboy. We finish our coffees then go for a walk around in the mall, she accepts my hand right away. At 3pm we part.
By 6pm there is still no sign that I'm going to meet Jen. I text her "Well, if you still want to talk to me you can reach me here". Then I text Arlyn that I'm done with the real estate agent and going out for a dinner. She wants to join. So we meet at around 7:30pm for an italian restaurant. Mood is good. I joke her that she would do a very good lechon meat (local pork-based specialty dish. Delicious). Dinner finished, we walk around in the mall again, hand in hand. She's rubbing her boobs against my arm as we walk - so I joke her about "playing bowling". First floor, second floor, then first again... I mention that I want to drink some wine. She brings me to a restaurant on the third floor that sells wine. The place sucks, and so I tell her. Alright. Time to move. I know I'm in very safe territory here, I have all the signs:
* she touched me first
* accepts my hand very well
* follows my lead
* giggles excitedly
* talks all the time
* and rubs her boobs against my arm as we walk
So. I just say nothing and simply lead her towards my hotel. She doesn't ask any question, until in the lobby, when I take the direction of the elevators. "I thought you wanted have wine in the lobby?" Don’t take this at face value, it's just ASD rationalization. "Yes. We will order wine in my room. Plus, I want to take a shower". I order the wine, go for a quick shower, then come on the bed next to her. She has switched the TV on. Wine arrives. It's me vs the TV show, but I easily I win her over doing a little push pull.
She is extremely good in bed, and has a very sexy body. We end up staying 5 nights together before I leave.
Aftermath
* Charlene re-initiated texting, trying to see if I would be back to Manila. So bad that a cute, pretty girl let herself grow into such a fatty. Sorry darling.
* Liza continued (to this day) liking my IG pics and watching my WhatsApp statuses. Sorry darling, you chose to throw me some BS (say, 70% sure). The chance is gone now.
* Rowena turned crazy jealous the following week. She texted me things like "Enjoying cebuana pussy?" "the Doctor is busy with his patient" "woman's bag LOL" (comment on my Instagram), etc... I deflected all her insinuations the whole week but, at her insistence, I finally gave in and told her three girls. She exploded at my face on Whatsapp. What the fuck? When I was with her, she carefully avoided kissing me on the lips the whole time. Aaaah crazy girls!
* Jen kept a low key contact with me the whole week. But we never got to meet again. It's better like this I suppose.
* Arlyn... She was one of the most sexy girl I had in these past four years. Making love with her was an experience. We're still in touch, however with her vast sexual needs I don't think I can keep her around me until my next stop to Cebu. Let's see.
As for me, I'm pleased to see that the vibe and the skill are still there, even after several months of no practice. Great vacation!
Cheers,
Seppuku
PS. What exactly do I do on date? To be fair I find it harder and harder to describe. It's a combination of sexy vibe, holding frame, and building tension. Within 30 to 60 minutes she's giggling excitedly. The rest is being smooth, and pulling home.