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Twos and Threes: How to?

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Space Monkey
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I started with game around early spring and had success by May, April was a looong month. Summer went well too!

I'm a busy guy and really just love focusing on my career (age is late 20s), so I really only find myself enjoying going out at night Thurs - Sat. I am only interested in same night lays right now - I just have a strong drive for my work / mild hobbies and CAN NOT STAND texting women for very long! yuck lol. After reading the forums it seams developing a good rotation of women is an ideal fit.

However, since I am going out alone most nights to pick up girls I REGULARLY find myself in the following situation. Twos and Threes. I noticed that term in this dr phil interview with the nyc casanova guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmYT6qlyIws and haven't found many specific tactics to address it. By Twos and Threes, I mean either two women on their own or three women on their own. The question: what are good ways to crack this nut when going out on your own?

What are good ways for a single alone male to notice / approach / isolate / escalate a girl away from these VERY tight groups? Because when you approach them you are in the DEAD MIDDLE of the f**** stage spotlight lol. How often are threesomes possible? What are solid approaches, reasons to introduce? The best so far has just been walking past them, close to their side and then coming up with an excuse to make a comment right before i would otherwise walk away.

outcomes
Twos: both single / one single one relationship / both relationship (maybe a friend on the way / near by?)
Threes: all single / a pair single other relationship / a pair relationship one single / all relationship

The only times ive ever had success so far is with twos. Im right now 1/2 way with Mark Mansons models book, the concept of polarizing has been very helpful. When polarizing, i'll usually get a hard no from both or a hard no from one but the other is very interested. the one that is a hard no somehow gets distracted on phone or talks with another guy near by and then i can focus on the one displaying interest and i can isolate / escalate from there.

It can be very difficult but feel it doesn't have to be.

Any help or advice? Thanks!

ALSO your girls chase sound cloud podcasts are the best!! please make many more, i can listen to them in the car to work, or even at the office. SOO much easier than reading but the articles are of course the bread and butter. https://soundcloud.com/girlschase
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Be more indirect with your openers. They are probably having a conversation already. Imagine how you would approach 3 other guys in the same venue.

I opened 3 hot women last night, by overhearing a snippet of their conversation. I inquired about the subject. The one I knew explained the context, I introduced myself and they included me in the conversation. Now in order for that to work, you need to have something of value to add to it. Often that can be admiration or asking for clarification. "oh so you qualified for Boston Marathon? That's awesome! How did you train? " aaaannnnddd you are in...

If you rock up head on and say "Heeeeeeyyyyyy LLLaaaaaddddiiiiieeees" but don't bring any conversational value they are gonna look at you like a chump and dismiss you.

Indirect subjects at a club are numerous. "you ever seen this band/DJ before?" has been a solid one for me. Especially when I can act dumb and let them tell me all about them.

Usually I will make eye contact with one of them and gauge her interest. In those groups there is always one that you are going to find most attractive. If she is interested back, she will separate herself enough that you can engage her one on one. That usually is when I will ask her to dance...
 

naturalmikey

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Try opinion openers until you get comfortable. Like fuck this said don’t come with some irrelevant shit or nine times out of ten shit will fizzle quick. Also come in with similar energy to the group
 

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Space Monkey
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Thank you, this is all good information! Will use this when going out next time.
 
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