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Out on Friday evening with a non-gamer buddy. Was trying to get the girl from the last LR- off my mind as things with her paused half way during escalation and a second date was still uncertain. This night I decide to just have a talk with my friend and drink a few beers (I haven't been drinking much lately, even when clubbing and staying all night out). We go to 4 different bars. We only talk to each other for most of the evening.
When we are at the last bar, I have a very short chat with two girls at the table just to have one guy-to-girl interaction for the evening. We then come out of the bar, are on our way to getting a Uber, and I see this tall, lovely, curly haired blonde standing outside of the bar with her friend. This bar has a weird name so I aske the girl: "how do you spell that?"
We start having a fun banter on the name of this bar. Then I walk next to her as she is leaving the bar and going toward the main street (the friend doesn't follow us, which is a good sign). Two minutes into the conversation, I ask her for her number. She gives it to me and I text in front of her "Hey -girl name- let's meet up for coffee". She laughs, we hug and she goes away. 10 minutes later I get a text: "You forgot to tell me when". My answer: "tomorrow 4 pm?". Her: "ok, sure you'll remember?". Me: "We can go for a beer right now if u want". Her: "No I am very tired, tomorrow is fine". Me: "Ok, have a nice long rest and see ya tomorrow"
Next day at around 11:30 am: "Hey -girl name- I hope u R fully rested. See u at 4 at this coffee plac". Her: "Yes see you there"
Meet her at 4 in front of a coffee place within a short drive from my place. Even though it's quite cold, her heavy coat is fully open, and below that is a partially open shirt that lets part of the bra visible. Very good sign.
The first coffee place is full. So we go to a fancier cocktail place around the corner. We sit there for around 40 minutes: we talk about society, dating, movies. I alternate teasing and humor with deep dive. She's a fun type but I learned in the past not to be overly friendly with this type or u end up in a buddy frame. Towards the end of this meeting, she's starting to compliment me and call me "charming" and all sorts of things.
We move to a bar closer to my place. Have a second drink there. We are sitting on a sofa and I am getting closer, slowly caressing her back, touching her hair. When it feels right, I just go for the kiss. After a few seconds, she literally grabs my head and shoves her tongue down my throat. I pull back a bit, talk a little bit more. Then kiss her again. She is starting to caress my legs so I know it's time for the big move. I tell her that I can cook something for her at my place. She says: "so I will magically be at your place?", smiling. She agrees and we go home.
We have a little drink and we get close again. The first time I try, I can only remove her bra and lick her nipples. She gives me some resistance to taking her belt off and goes to the bathroom. So I go to the kitchen and start cooking. She comes, and starts kissing my back. We escalate again, I bring her back to the sofa and then the bad. I remove her pants, start fingering her. Then I take a condom and we start banging. Total nympho. Asked me explicitely to cum in her mouth, which I obviously did. After sex she said "I really needed to get phucked today"
Text her "was a lovely evening" after the she went home, to which she replied: "yes was surely nice".
Met another girl the morning after (she was clearly into me but I friendzoned her cuz I realized I have almost zero attraction to her). Gonna meet the one from the previous LR- this week. Feels that after returning to game last spring after years of retirement, I am finally gaining momentum. My advice to guys who want to pause is never to fully stop. Maybe reduce the frequency but don't stop gaming for years or you will need a long readjustment period lasting possibly months and months.
When we are at the last bar, I have a very short chat with two girls at the table just to have one guy-to-girl interaction for the evening. We then come out of the bar, are on our way to getting a Uber, and I see this tall, lovely, curly haired blonde standing outside of the bar with her friend. This bar has a weird name so I aske the girl: "how do you spell that?"
We start having a fun banter on the name of this bar. Then I walk next to her as she is leaving the bar and going toward the main street (the friend doesn't follow us, which is a good sign). Two minutes into the conversation, I ask her for her number. She gives it to me and I text in front of her "Hey -girl name- let's meet up for coffee". She laughs, we hug and she goes away. 10 minutes later I get a text: "You forgot to tell me when". My answer: "tomorrow 4 pm?". Her: "ok, sure you'll remember?". Me: "We can go for a beer right now if u want". Her: "No I am very tired, tomorrow is fine". Me: "Ok, have a nice long rest and see ya tomorrow"
Next day at around 11:30 am: "Hey -girl name- I hope u R fully rested. See u at 4 at this coffee plac". Her: "Yes see you there"
Meet her at 4 in front of a coffee place within a short drive from my place. Even though it's quite cold, her heavy coat is fully open, and below that is a partially open shirt that lets part of the bra visible. Very good sign.
The first coffee place is full. So we go to a fancier cocktail place around the corner. We sit there for around 40 minutes: we talk about society, dating, movies. I alternate teasing and humor with deep dive. She's a fun type but I learned in the past not to be overly friendly with this type or u end up in a buddy frame. Towards the end of this meeting, she's starting to compliment me and call me "charming" and all sorts of things.
We move to a bar closer to my place. Have a second drink there. We are sitting on a sofa and I am getting closer, slowly caressing her back, touching her hair. When it feels right, I just go for the kiss. After a few seconds, she literally grabs my head and shoves her tongue down my throat. I pull back a bit, talk a little bit more. Then kiss her again. She is starting to caress my legs so I know it's time for the big move. I tell her that I can cook something for her at my place. She says: "so I will magically be at your place?", smiling. She agrees and we go home.
We have a little drink and we get close again. The first time I try, I can only remove her bra and lick her nipples. She gives me some resistance to taking her belt off and goes to the bathroom. So I go to the kitchen and start cooking. She comes, and starts kissing my back. We escalate again, I bring her back to the sofa and then the bad. I remove her pants, start fingering her. Then I take a condom and we start banging. Total nympho. Asked me explicitely to cum in her mouth, which I obviously did. After sex she said "I really needed to get phucked today"
Text her "was a lovely evening" after the she went home, to which she replied: "yes was surely nice".
Met another girl the morning after (she was clearly into me but I friendzoned her cuz I realized I have almost zero attraction to her). Gonna meet the one from the previous LR- this week. Feels that after returning to game last spring after years of retirement, I am finally gaining momentum. My advice to guys who want to pause is never to fully stop. Maybe reduce the frequency but don't stop gaming for years or you will need a long readjustment period lasting possibly months and months.
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