Couple of days ago I was asking out a girl at the sports club where I usually train. When I spoke to her another guy starting to join our conversation. After I left they continued talking, from a distance I could see that they were exchanging contacts. Tonight we had the date, we took a seat outside and had some talk. Everything fine, but suddenly this guy from the sports club showed up and starts to sit beside her. Turns out that he was asking her to join our meeting on instagram and she said yes, without letting me know that.
So after he came he started to take over the conversation to himself and the girl. While I tried to tell something I tried to discuss me that I was wrong, blah blah. For me it felt that he was trying to lower me down to impress her. But yeah, I didn't expect that he would join our date, and I left after 1 hour because I saw that he was getting closer and closer to her and that was frustrating me a lot.
This guy, I know him for months but we barely speak to each other because he mostly doesn't interact with men but when there is a women around he becomes very social and super competitive. I heard from other men that they were complaining about him, taking girls but officially he doing nothing wrong.
But what can I do the next time. How can I plan a date with a girl, knowing for sure that there will be no uninvited guests ruining our night.
So after he came he started to take over the conversation to himself and the girl. While I tried to tell something I tried to discuss me that I was wrong, blah blah. For me it felt that he was trying to lower me down to impress her. But yeah, I didn't expect that he would join our date, and I left after 1 hour because I saw that he was getting closer and closer to her and that was frustrating me a lot.
This guy, I know him for months but we barely speak to each other because he mostly doesn't interact with men but when there is a women around he becomes very social and super competitive. I heard from other men that they were complaining about him, taking girls but officially he doing nothing wrong.
But what can I do the next time. How can I plan a date with a girl, knowing for sure that there will be no uninvited guests ruining our night.