Upcoming date, how to not come across as too needy

[killerman]

Right guys, got this sexy girl who wants to go on a date with me, i asked her and she said that it had to be later in the week which means it's going to have to be friday. im thinking of telling her friday night but that's like 6 days away and am wondering if it's a little too soon to plan that far ahead? would i be coming across as needy?

 

[topcat]

Why not try it and see? If neediness is your fear I'd say the opposite of neediness would be outcome independence, no? So treat it as an experiment, go with the riskier move (in this case "telling her friday night") and see what happens. Throw caution to the wind, and you automatically stop walking on eggshells. In my experience, treating seduction as an experiment where you try to figure out what works and what doesn't always eliminates neediness.

Topcat