Calls & Texts UPDATE : I thought things were going almost good but Apparently I got blocked

[Spyce D]

(Edit : read the 3rd post to get the full picture .)

Original headline : when girls say something then they don't

No idea how to put it other way .

I number closed a girl this Saturday , we texted a bit on Sunday and it was great . And a call was planned for Monday Eve ( 4 pm ) cuz she was curious about something which I couldn't talk on text .

So ,.when I called her ,.she didn't respond but after 1 minute ... I got call back from her , she told me that she was in extra class which would be till 6 pm and that she would call me on her own .

She didn't .

So , I am thinking of sending her "…" today to see gauge her reaction / interest .

Now , this kinda shit has happened before when a girl would say that she would call / text / make plans on her own but It would never happen most of the time and I would be the one end up doing calling , texting .

There was this another girl I had been on 1 date with before , whom I had asked for hangout on someday of that week and she replied with " ok , I will tell " but afterwards ,.I never got any text .

Generally , I am the one who has to keep on initiating the calls , texts even if the girl may say that she would call me first .

But , these days ... I am shifting from constantly trying to get them to being more subtle about my persistence .

 

[Adventurer]

Yeah girls change their mind all the time. You can't really keep them accountable, and if you act angry or disappointed about it they will lose even more interest.

Just message them a few days later like nothing happened. Doesn't work often because when stuff like that happens, you're most likely not on the top of her mind to begin with. But it shows that you are laid back and sometimes she will just tell you she was busy and you can still seal the deal

 

[Spyce D]

Anyways , I got blocked for no apparent reason by her .

Thats what I found out after I sent her a ping on WhatsApp .

Single tick , no dp , no profile .

And motherfuckers talk about how approach anxiety is the worst , how they are not able to overcome it .

 

[empath]

One possible reason is she might have a bf. Once my gf has given her number to a strange who from her home town. I also made her block him.

Another reason is her friends might have influenced her.

How did you approached her? What conversation you had, details might help to diagnose the issue.

 

[Spyce D]

One possible reason is she might have a bf. Once my gf has given her number to a strange who from her home town. I also made her block him.

Another reason is her friends might have influenced her.

How did you approached her? What conversation you had, details might help to diagnose the issue.

Thanks but I have moved on from her .

The reason could be anything , My wing who saw my interaction and my chats with her . He was more shocked than me .

Anyways , Looking forward for next leads now .