So yesterday was a day I had many cold approaches and was even able to have one instant date, thanks to my increased libido and sexual transmutation.
Crazy girl and logic vs emotions
As I left the gym, energized and ready, I see a girl just standing by the bus stop. I pre-open her and introduce myself, she even remembered me since this was a girl I cold approached a couple of years ago when I was new in the game and did not have a clue.
I say I am going the same way as she since she was looking for a sim card. As we start talking, I realize she is crazy. She began telling me about domestic abuse and that she lives in a center for abused women. I ask her how she is and she tells me she is not "in a good place" psychological-wise - but I manage to flirt with her and make our encounter an instant date (by asking her if she wants a coffee).
As we sit there, I cant make her invest emotionally anymore (we where flirting before entering the coffee shop) and I realize it might have something to do with her being logical as she was trying to figure out how to install the sim card. I try applying some social pressure on her. I try helping her and I try deep diving a little as she sat there (and at the same time not appearing chasey), only for her to ignore me. After 30 minutes I follow her outside, hug her goodbye and leave on good terms. It was clear to see that she wasn't in a good place mentally to be seduced.
Then I went for walk - on my way to Miss T.
Another blast from the past
I spot another girl I daygamed earlier (and this one 8 months ago or so).
She recognizes me instantly and we start talking. Because logistics were bad (on my way to Miss T), I did not put too much emphasis on making this an instant date, but instead spent my time deep diving, asking her questions about her day and transitioning from there.
*As she says she is walking to look for a place where she can write, I start asking her about this, her writing goals and comparing it to my journey.
*I also found out what she does for a living (teacher) and spoke about kids and how much you learn from them.
*For each time I ask her something, I also "reward her" by touching even more, and increasing my sexual tension - by looking more intensely in her eyes.
*Then I invite her out, she says okay and we agree to meet up this Wednesday
I continue walking and see another girl looking at me. I smile, just like I did in the description in my last post and pre-open her. It turns out we went to junior high together and I manage to number closer her. I still feel she won't respond, to my initial message, but you can never truly know...
Girl with female friend - and how to make friend like you
Then I see a couple of girls on the opposite street, they start walking behind me, and as they pass me by, the girl I liked the most was looking at me. I introduce myself, saying I find her cute, and we start talking about what they were doing then and there.
*This time I decided also to talk to her friend, not alienating her as I've done before.
*I started the conversation about what they were up to and their friendship, inviting her friend to help out. Thanks to this she gave us some leeway as I transitioned to what my girl does for a living.
*I deep dived her and we talked about her work and her future plans.
"Okay, Ada. I have to walk this way now. But I find you cute and want to meet you. How about we get together sometime and grab a drink?"
She responds she would love to, but also says she is dating someone else. I say that's okay and we exchange numbers.
Other than that, I spot a cute petite girl and do my thing. I find out she has a boyfriend so I leave it at that.
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As a side note. As I passed a guy by, he became triggered by me and started yelling in my face. I stayed my ground, neither fighting or flighting and just continued walking as he did not exist. Then he shoved me a little from behind, but I did not care.
Inside I was nervous, but I stayed very calm in an extremely tense situation.
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I think being better at reading girls signals and smiling at them before pre-opening has given me a little extra edge.
And it seems like I learn something new every time. Cant wait to do this again!
Crazy girl and logic vs emotions
As I left the gym, energized and ready, I see a girl just standing by the bus stop. I pre-open her and introduce myself, she even remembered me since this was a girl I cold approached a couple of years ago when I was new in the game and did not have a clue.
I say I am going the same way as she since she was looking for a sim card. As we start talking, I realize she is crazy. She began telling me about domestic abuse and that she lives in a center for abused women. I ask her how she is and she tells me she is not "in a good place" psychological-wise - but I manage to flirt with her and make our encounter an instant date (by asking her if she wants a coffee).
As we sit there, I cant make her invest emotionally anymore (we where flirting before entering the coffee shop) and I realize it might have something to do with her being logical as she was trying to figure out how to install the sim card. I try applying some social pressure on her. I try helping her and I try deep diving a little as she sat there (and at the same time not appearing chasey), only for her to ignore me. After 30 minutes I follow her outside, hug her goodbye and leave on good terms. It was clear to see that she wasn't in a good place mentally to be seduced.
Then I went for walk - on my way to Miss T.
Another blast from the past
I spot another girl I daygamed earlier (and this one 8 months ago or so).
She recognizes me instantly and we start talking. Because logistics were bad (on my way to Miss T), I did not put too much emphasis on making this an instant date, but instead spent my time deep diving, asking her questions about her day and transitioning from there.
*As she says she is walking to look for a place where she can write, I start asking her about this, her writing goals and comparing it to my journey.
*I also found out what she does for a living (teacher) and spoke about kids and how much you learn from them.
*For each time I ask her something, I also "reward her" by touching even more, and increasing my sexual tension - by looking more intensely in her eyes.
*Then I invite her out, she says okay and we agree to meet up this Wednesday
I continue walking and see another girl looking at me. I smile, just like I did in the description in my last post and pre-open her. It turns out we went to junior high together and I manage to number closer her. I still feel she won't respond, to my initial message, but you can never truly know...
Girl with female friend - and how to make friend like you
Then I see a couple of girls on the opposite street, they start walking behind me, and as they pass me by, the girl I liked the most was looking at me. I introduce myself, saying I find her cute, and we start talking about what they were doing then and there.
*This time I decided also to talk to her friend, not alienating her as I've done before.
*I started the conversation about what they were up to and their friendship, inviting her friend to help out. Thanks to this she gave us some leeway as I transitioned to what my girl does for a living.
*I deep dived her and we talked about her work and her future plans.
"Okay, Ada. I have to walk this way now. But I find you cute and want to meet you. How about we get together sometime and grab a drink?"
She responds she would love to, but also says she is dating someone else. I say that's okay and we exchange numbers.
Other than that, I spot a cute petite girl and do my thing. I find out she has a boyfriend so I leave it at that.
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As a side note. As I passed a guy by, he became triggered by me and started yelling in my face. I stayed my ground, neither fighting or flighting and just continued walking as he did not exist. Then he shoved me a little from behind, but I did not care.
Inside I was nervous, but I stayed very calm in an extremely tense situation.
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I think being better at reading girls signals and smiling at them before pre-opening has given me a little extra edge.
And it seems like I learn something new every time. Cant wait to do this again!
