Upping your numbers of QUALITY women

[Estate]

Hey guys,
So I won't start a debate on what "quality" means since it's different to everyone. But I think we can all agree what anyone would regard as top of the tree doesn't come along every day. Sure, if we leave the house at all, we'll encounter many women. Many will be cute, many are girls we'd certainly be interested in to some degree but once in a while there's just those "WOW" girls.

Now I know they don't all congregate in some secret club somewhere but for me these girls seem to have some things in common. Quite often their beauty or preservation of it comes from their lifestyle. They are often very fit, work hard, maintain a good healthy lifestyle, don't party too much.

But it also leads them to be harder to find. Of the women I know like this, most work long hours at their job, go to the gym, come home, cook, read a book, catch up on some TV, work some more. maybe they go out once a week but it's usually more low key like dinner with friends. You won't find them holding up a bar at 1am.

So how do you encounter them more?

The more I progress the more I find this bugging me. There are girls I can meet now who I just don't feel that desire to really get them anymore. I can hit up a bar or whatever and meet girls everywhere but very few of them give me that "Wow" factor now that they are no longer some sort of rare commodity. There's nothing wrong with these women as such. They can be great in their own way, just not what I'm looking to persue.

Does anyone else find this?

 

[Marty]

most work long hours at their job, go to the gym, come home, cook

Grocery store. 7 PM. Weekdays.

I'd never do food shopping at that time by choice; it's far too crowded. But for meeting sexy, well-cared-for, professional women, it's golden.

 

[thejourneyman]

Definitely. i have kinda ran in to the same thing - night-life girls do tend fall into 2 types: either the club queens and/or super career-minded women. Of course even high quality women do go out every now and then so you might be lucky and run into them.

Grocery stores really work? How would you start a conversation when they are busy purchasing stuff and escalate?

 

[trashKENNUT]

Estate,

I don't know if this will help.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=1730&p=8756&hilit=via#p8756 (Meeting Quality Women via Friends or ?)

Zac

 

[Marty]

Grocery stores really work? How would you start a conversation when they are busy purchasing stuff and escalate?

Here's how the professionals do it:
FR: Showoff!—an amazing interaction that Zphix had in Walmart.

Here's how I've personally done it:
FR: FitChick—much less smooth than Zphix, and I lost the girl eventually, but after a separate coffee date where she well and truly kissed me, so I don't think it was my grocery store approach at fault, perhaps something I did after. I certainly don't seek to compare myself with Zphix (above)!

Hope this is interesting for you, JourneyMan!

 

[Estate]

Thanks Marty,
That FR is kinda funny. Reads like something from the old Mystery Method boards... all the "Well I beg regular guys are intimidated but not I...!" I haven't used a line like that in a long time, truth is theres plenty of guys who are not intimidated by her and he's giving a lot of supplication by actually calling out how cute she is ALL THE TIME yet keeps protesting it does no phase him despite her not broaching the topic at all.

I realy doubt how well that would work on a 9/10. Usually on a 6/7 it might since she doesn't get the compliment often.

To be honest, I am talking more of the "downtown" environment. Business world. Things are a lot different in terms of who you'll meet compared to girls you meet trawling bargain bins at a Walmart but as with anywhere, the truely top teir can be few and far between.

 

[Just_Dave]

Depends on your side of town

Hey Estate,

I've thought about this for some time as well and I've been experimenting with times and places to go to meet quality women. I've been heading to bookstores lately and have been having great results.

Young part of town:
You have to discover where the young women and your town hang out and figure out the times of day they come around. I normally head downtown on the weekends to a area that has classy bars, coffee shops, grocery store, farmers market, etc . . . I've found that this place is an oasis for women . . . at the right time.

"Healthy places":
Girls who care about healthy food you're more likely to find in Whole Foods, Fresh Market and Trader Joes. These are usually girls who have something going on for them and have some type of depth to their personality. Same goes for the gym, you want to find a gym that has a good number of attractive girls who go there, you want a place big enough where you'll run into different people each time you go.

Not a guessing game:
These women head out early and end their day earlier than most other women. They may even wake up at 6 AM and go jogging, they may get coffee at 7AM and work a 9 to 5. A weekend day such as Saturday or Sunday would be a good chance to catch them, 9 or 10 AM most days would be a good time. My friends who work at the mall have told me that most women do there shopping from noon to 4, I've confirmed this. It also depends on how big your city actually is, the bigger the better chance of finding quality women. I spend a lot of my time scouting and observing the best times to meet women and I'm constantly looking for trends.

Over and out,

Just Dave

 

[Marty]

Estate:

Things are a lot different in terms of who you'll meet compared to girls you meet trawling bargain bins at a Walmart but as with anywhere, the truly top tier can be few and far between.

Well I don't want to comment on the quality of Zphix's girl, only he can know that for sure (and I'm not sure why you think professional, successful women are not also bargain-hunters... all girls love shopping and discounts to my way of thinking)—and I agree his style is different from what I'd be comfortable with... yet he gets real results, and fast. Personally, I wouldn't see fit to criticize when I know I am very far behind him in terms of outcome.

But as concerns "my" girl, the one from the second FR that I posted myself, I can assure you that she was not compromised in any way quality-wise: owner of a business, law-school grad, could hold a conversation on almost any subject and her looks... let's just say made my heart jump into my mouth. So as Dave says, downtown, business district, or wherever you find it, I wouldn't write off the grocery store just yet! (And yes, "my" grocery store was in a fancy part of town, not some drive-in in the suburbs.)

Oh... and if you're talking downtown and business district, stopping girls in the street on their lunch-hour remains my #1 preferred method of meeting new women.

-Marty

 

[Marty]

Also Estate... Have you tried city parks on the weekend?

If a girl is alone in a park on the weekend, she's pretty much guaranteed to be single. And the nature-loving types correlate well with the classy, high-status female you're looking for.

The real kicker is when you get apartment communities facing onto the park. Any of those in Boston? They tend to be affluent, full of singles, and a steady supply of simple enough approach targets, given a little imagination. Girls pop out to get a breath of fresh air or exercise, and you pounce!