Urgent Advice on Kissing needed

[Reave Krieger]

Hello,

I need advice on kissing. I got a girl's phone number and I have a date with her on friday. We will meet at her place.
When first meeting her at the club, I already got to know her quite a bit and touched her as well... Then left with her number.

When I get there (in her apartment): Should I still go for a kiss within 5-10 minutes or not?
As alternatives I can imagine doing some more rapport or going for a walk or to a café and then heading back to her place and start kissing.

What would you advise?


PS: I already fucked up once with a girl I met directly at her place and we watched TV. At some point it was too awkward kissing her and this feeling always grew stronger the longer I stayed there... She then fell asleep and I went home.

 

[Suave]

If you're meeting at her place, it's probably already on.. Now, get in there and go with instincts, keep it simple and keep your goal as to keep escalating.

DON'T EVER PUY ON SOMETHING INTERESTING ON THE TV! It kills the vibe easily. I'd recommend dancing a bit, but yeah start with rapport building, quickly start touching and if she shows positive signs (not minding it), then keep escalating quickly, maintain a lot of eye contact, throughout!

You'll feel when the tension is right, go for it.

We all make mistakes and that's how we learn, relax and let it happen.

And don't forget safety.

Best of luck.

 

[Reave Krieger]

Thanks!

Thanks for your reply, Suave

Hope I can go as fast as possible. I will give my best...