Used a very sneaky method to find girl cheating how to confront her about it?

[beginner112]

So I recently found out a girl I've been dating for a while now was cheating. It literally involved creating a fake dating account and catching her on a dating site. If I want to confront her about it, I obviously can't say I created fake accounts and what not. My method is to tell her, "I recently got an anonymous email with evidence of you cheating, we're through". This way she thinks her friends might have been the one to snitch out on her. Does anyone have any thought as to how this might work or if this is even recommended?

I read the other forum about the other guy with the same issue and the recommendation from Hector was to just not respond back, but I read somewhere that Chase said to break things off formally, was Chase referring to a different situation?

 

[primogennn]

Re: Used a very sneaky method to find girl cheating how to confront her about it

Your situation is similar to the situation of the person in the thread below.
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=15469

Jake D. gives one of the best answers. He says "dating and being in a relationship are two different things". You are way too invested than her and that is never good. What is the best course of action to take? I'm by no means not an expert but I wouldn't recommend confronting her because I don't think it's gonna make things any better.
What to do next is really up to you. How much do you like her? How much do you want to be with her? Answer these questions and plan your actions. I'd recommend reading the articles here and maybe pick up some books about seduction and attraction. The art of seduction and attract women through honesty are good books. There is another one called the rules of the game by Neil Strauss but I didn't like it a lot.