Using jealousy to get ex back?

[ChrisCassi]

So I'm wanting to get back with my ex girlfriend. She said she wants to take it slow and get and work on us and stuff like that.

Anyways, mainly I can tell its because she isn't sure. We have a date in a couple days, but she told me point blank at the same time that she was gonna on dates with other guys while working on us. I said cool, go for it. All I need to do her is take her out once and bed her and she'll want me back. (I've been in this position before).

Now she didn't ask me if I was gonna go out with anyone, probably cuz she assumes I'm not gonna go out on dates, which I am going to. So I was curious if "letting" her know I'm going on dates too will get her into wanting me back.

Again, I know once we go out and we have sex she'll be invested and want me back. I was just curious if making her jealous will make it a tad bit easier? I know she wouldn't like it if I went out on dates, just not sure if that'll work for me or against if I make it know that I am.

 

[ray_zorse]

Dude I think you might have the wrong end of the stick here, I have been in something like your situation and I can tell you that this only works a limited number of times, it sounds to me like [bthis time[/b] ]she's already moved on and wants you in an orbiter slot... I definitely wouldn't make a big deal about your going on dates, it sounds tryhard. Let her assume you are probably on dates, if she cares about it she'll already be thinking about it and if she doesn't there's nothing you can do.

Honestly, go meet some more women, this is a dead duck... you broke up for a reason, leave it at that. Sure, go meet her for a coffee if you want, but you sound quite invested, if I were you I'd engage in a little push/pull, tell her you don't want her back... and mean it... and if she doesn't chase hard then simply forget it.

-Ray

 

[African Boyo]

You know how you get your ex back? By not giving a fuck. You know how you come to not give a fuck? You get intimate with more girls? You approach as many girls as you can and improve your fundamentals. Leave your ex alone she will come looking for you and if she doesnt you will have built up your seduction skills by getting other women and it'll be easy to re-seduce her. Whatever path you choose you have to get better with other women. The worst that could happen is that you find a hotter,smarter and all around better than your ex. Seems like a win win