Values A Man Can Provide?

[[GC]Jay]

1. Provider Value
- You have enough money for everything, with it you can travel to different places with her (this include lifestyle value), you never both get starve, you can basically provide anything that a money can cover, a house, a car, paying the bills, buying what she wants (basically not trying to spoil her), finally if you have children - you can proved your children with better education, etc.
2. Lover Value
- Your love never ending and I mean like you make her fell in love with you like the first time ever over and over again same thing to you by being romantic, discovering something new, you understand her ups, and downs, her shortcomings, her weaknesses, you given her the pleasure, fulfilled her fantasies, satisfied her in bed.

This two values that I basically I'm trying develop and implement to myself...this be very difficult though so I break down to make them easy for me.

As for the provider value:

*. I've made a few successful internet marketing, earning from $7,000 - $12,000 a month - is more than enough and its really big conversion here in my country. I will never need to go distant places say working abroad, right now I'm taking up a course of Marine Transportation - Merchant Marine in short and a ship Captain earnings ranges from the same amount above (that is for international shipping lines) but needing to take more effort, risk and getting far away from your family.

* Start out a business - I'm thinking of dormitory near college/universities with about a 100 rooms ( in my country, there are only a few dormitory - so I think this type of business is not yet saturated in my country with low competition), to earn stable.

As for the lover value:

* It's why I'm here learning from the best, to make my woman happy.
- Learning from basics, to mid, to advanced, to pro, to legendary. Basically from opening-conversation-escalation-intimacy-sex-healthy relationship

*No lies, no secrets (except the things you've learned from reading books, advice taken from experts and community, you can keep them to yourself or else she finds you using this on her and imagine the disaster)

*Learning new things just to retain the lover value, you know...to make her still excited about you even you've been married and having sex for 60 years. lol

- very difficult part though, but there must be a cure for this somewhere...any ideas how to keep her excited about you even you've been seeing each other for a year now? being romantic I guess? Old-new school romantic? I mean techniques guys techniques, a stunts you probably pulled not only taking her to romantic places - so you guys have one? please share but I don't know what that is though.

I cannot stress them out enough but this are the two values that keeps getting into my head last night - maybe the values a woman really wants in a man, so you be this man a woman sweat about, think about, dream about, and mostly fantasize about - basically getting addicted to you while keeping the fire burning.

What do you think? Can you add some more insights? Please add your knowledge about values.

I wrote this thread because I'm making myself believe that love is never ending. I want for the both of us to fall in love over and over again. Maybe I'm just afraid of losing my interest on her someday, the same for her also. It's a good thing though, it's pushing me to develop myself, it pushing me to to be the man of her dreams.

I want to girlschase me, especially my girl.

P.S
a bit dramatic non? I'm not high or something.

 

[Drck]

The biggest value you can provide to girl/women is being "A man" value. That one includes all of the other values, and it beats them all...

I believe that most guys here and out there want good and honest girl with great looks. They want her as a GF and possibly wife. And there are MANY girls like that, say at the age of 22-30.

Those girls CRAVE real men. Many of them have good education and good jobs (accountants, teachers, nurses,...), they don't necessarily sleep around with many guys. They want to date, have sex, and they want to go out... They date guys within their age groups but many times they are disappointed when they see what is around...

Many of those guys have decent clothes on, they could have some/decent education, they can have fun and can provide quite excitement, they can talk big... She can view them as great guys with good personality, as good friends - but she doesn't really want to marry them. They are not real MEN. They are still those silly/immature boys, they don't have any goal in their life, they are just drifting into the future without any particular plan...

See, you have to look at the particular girl's desire and need. At this age she wants to settle down, the older she gets the bigger urge she has. She wants to have a great family. Obviously, she goes for the best available guy she can get out there - but many, many times she gets quite disappointed. I've seen it so many times, the girl goes out with them, she has great fun with them - but in reality she is really bored with them. Then she meets more mature guy, which usually translates to more older guy - and she dumps those boys on the spot, without any regrets...

That is actually the reason why is it so easy for her to dump guys like that - not answer the phones and texts, flake on dates, give false numbers, confuse them... She simply doesn't care about boys, they have low value in her eyes, and some clever texts or openers, pretended confidence and sexiness simply won't change it... You can be absolutely sure though, that she would not try any of that with a real man...

But what is it to be a 'real man'? That is a tough answer. I've read many descriptions, I tried to come up with some descriptions, it's been described thousands of times by others, but there is always something missing, just can't pin-point it for some reason. Perhaps there are no words...

He does masculine things. He is mature, he has a plan, passion and clear objection in his life. He works on his life. There is some seriousness and respect that he generates with his attitude. He has a spine, he doesn't bend to her emotions. He stands his grounds, he doesn't project weakness and silliness, he has a strong frame. As stated many times here, he never chases girls, he never places them on a pedestal. You can recognize those traits of Alpha and Asshole in him, but those are not really necessary. You can of course recognize the dominance and leading abilities, but again, those are just broad terms. He loves his life, and he doesn't even think about being anyone else. She is never his number 1 priority, she is always number 2 or 3, but at the same time he makes her feel really great about herself. Perhaps she is a Queen in his World - but he always remains the #1 King...

It's like knowing exactly what you want in your life, and you are always doing your best to get it. There is absolutely nothing that can ever stop you, there is nothing that will change your mind. You are determined to get it no matter what. You don't do it to impress others - you do it because you want it and you could care less what others (including her) thinks about it. You will leave everything behind in order to achieve your goal, and she may join you in achieving your goal for as long as you want. If it sounds selfish, great - because it should be fucking selfish! And she will join without hesitation because she loves to be around such a great mindset...

OK, maybe I don't know how to describe it the right way, but there is one thing I am 100% sure: Girls and women crave men like that, and men like that are very rare. You can't fake it, to become one requires real and hard work...

From this point of view, you can never be sorry by knowing seduction stuff, by knowing what it is to be a lover and provider, by spending time on learning about women.... At the same time, working on becoming "the man" is 10x more valuable for you, because once you can provide "man value" the girls will always be seeking you. They will always be seducing you, and they will always try to keep you - and never the other way...