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Very good interaction but awkward at the "bye" end

stocktrader2

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Hi guys,
I approached street stop girl the other day. She is asian and im asian, we are bothuniversity students. She looked at me first and i looked and she put her head down. I walked back, made a u turn and delivered a direct opener. Deep dived, and she hooked. Asked her if she. Wants o go for coffee and happily said yes and offered me her number. But after i number closed, as we were about to say bye i got awkward kind of we both didnt know what to do and slight panic when we said bye.
I have alrdy sent her an icebreaker text saying glad to have met you. But she didnt reply. Any tips on what should i do next? Or should i just proceed with asking her out next day or 2 days later?
Thanks lots in advance guys

Regards

Stocktrader2
 
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BrandonCodi

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Nice job man. Hopefully she replies

Don't get frustrated if she doesn't though. For every 10 numbers you get, you might hang out with 1 or 2 of them if you're lucky. At least in my experience. I'm a pretty average fella.

I think your first mistake was not immediately saying something to her. When you see a girl you want to talk to, you automatically know. You did know from the beginning you wanted to talk to her but you didn't act on it. Mistake. Next time act immediately and don't wait.

I think your second mistake was the fact that you felt awkward. This can be harder to overcome but you should try the best you can to eliminate the feeling of awkwardness. If you're uncomfortable, how can she be comfortable? Approaching someone on the street is already uncommon so you have to do your absolute best to put an end to the strangeness ASAP. Focus on that next time. The way you do this will be unique to you. Some girls you won't be able to fix the awkwardness because they just won't be interested.

Keep trying man. You're making the right steps. Let us know how it goes.

Cheers, brother
 
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