FU very many date ones...very few date twos

[Ree]

Dates

Been going on lots of dates lately,
......sometimes up to three dates a day
Wow...Lucky guy...u think..well ,.....
u know who the lucky guy is in thi story is ?the luckyguy is the owner of the cafe that im taking my dates to...
    Now this would be good if i wanted to learn seduction so as tohelp out owners of small restauants foot their bills....but as noble and worthwhile a cause as that might be,the reason i actually ientered into seduction is to to get laid..getting laid from dates..an occurence
that has simply  not been happening 

....i met a girl lets call her jane,(we might as well,as this is her actual name)

This is an actual date,but the things that happen on these dtaes are so similarthat this date might as well be any of the myriad of date sthat are now making a certain coffes shop owners profit margins rise.

Text
 
Ree:hey jane,we met at the chicken place remember?hope u good
Jane:hey,yeah...i remmber im good
Ree:hey im intown,thinking this is the perfect weather for ice cream
Jane:yeah,im like eld up to 2
Ree:cool..il call u at 2
Jane:cool,i will let u know if im gonnabe free

So we meet,
I hug her,compliment her on earings or whatever...
Get consensus then lead

Ree:hey,whatchu feeling coffe or icecream
Jane:any will do
Ree:great,i know a place

We start chatting,mostly fluff...see
most of the gals that i approach are from college,
I think i have a relatbility issue with them
They have no goals hope or dreams...they have the ambition of a dead bird and the inteeligence of an angry mob 


Sometime back i realised that attempts at  deep diving tend to failwith these gals...questions along the lines of
What do u do?what do u want tobecome,how long haveu been doing it?what are your hobbies.,why did u do this..if u werent doing this what wud u been doing............for this type of gals such questions ..are a sure way to lead them to autoreject...i still try i..but after she starts to auto ...i jump to what the bulk of my converrstions usualy consist of nowadays

Fluff talk
...
The cube routine...three animals routine...rihanna vs beyonce,what do u like most about ur face?

I talk abt Stuff like age

Ree:how old are you?
Gal:how old do u think i am
U look like ur 19
Gal:really...19...tihihi...no
Ree:dont act suprised and then u r actually 20
Gal:tihihi,im 23
Ree:woe...r u a vampire
Gal:..tihihi.....lol...omg...
Ree:guess how old i am

Stuff like birth order

Ree: let me guessmu r a last born,
Gal:no,do i look like a last born?

Or her features

Ree:You have a twinkle in your eye,that make me know u are naughty and mischeivious,i hope u dont become a bad influence on me
Gal:me?You are the naught one....lol..you are the one whol be a bad influence on me


My point is
they are usually giggling..and smiling and chuckling and generallyhappy
But thats as far as it goes,we never deep dive...she never shares a deep story....time never flies as we gaze into each other s eyes as we connect with each other ,and disconnect from the world....

i dont know if this is a lack of comunication skills on my part or these gals just do not have anything going on for them
bcoz while it is true that....ive never gotten a heartwarming story about how depite seemingly insurmountable odds a gal learnt how to play the piano or play the banjo or play the violin....it isnt so much because i didnt ask,its usually because the only thing shes ever played is truant...and the only dreams she has...are wet dreamz....and .the only thing these gals know how to cook is,cook up an excuse to get themselves out of a date 2.......do  i ever enter into a buble..and have a gal talk abt herself....yes..but...very rarely....mostly with the rare  high class classy socially calibered ambitious confident gals....i used to think it was attainabilty but now i think kts relatability



I asked her to play a blinking game...because..i wanted her to look me in the eyes,but she was so shy,she couldnt exceed a sec,she kept looking away....man...sometimes daygame drags in creatures so shy and bashful they make bambi look like mayweather bragging before the pacquio fight

Is fluff talk a good enuff substitute for a deep dive?
Is the problem relatability,or something else
The gal seemed happy,and she even started digging around asking if i have a girlfreind
 Ree:woah ,this is the first date and you are already sizing me up for a boyfreind
Jane. : no,i was just asking


I then threw a boyfreind disqualifier....cud this be the problem?Does anyone have a better disqualifier,are disqualifiers even neccesary during a date or shud i save them for lmr?

Ree:i dont even do relationships anymore
Jane:why
Ree:u r young,and one day u will realise,relationships just have four phases
Boy meets gal,they fuck,they get jeolus and emotional,they break up ending the relationship and the freinship
...i just do freinships

She then talked abt how some guy asked her to enter into a freinds with benefits rekatinship,and she refused,
I talked abt how all women love sex,society is unfair to judge..she agreed

I..i was kinoing heavily...jane never brought it up...but some girls do..which lead zme to ask..how heavy is too heavy
Dates almost always tell me im too touchy....some gals like jane,il even touch their thighs they wont talk...some gals even touching their shoulders will elicit a response....

With jane..i did something very lame,i asked for a kiss,
I pulled,and she said she had to go to class,though she was cool with just continiung hanging outin the same venue..or going to any venue closby...i had said i nneded to email some stuff from home,so after the pull failed,i felt i had to go....amidst heavy kino...(.thighs)

Ree(suudenly lame and probably temporarily insane):Ok,because i have to leave,give me a kiss
Jane:no
Ree(even lamer)k just a peck
Jane:no
Ree(lame enough to qualify for the special olympics):cmon,just one
Jane:no
Ree(suddenly realising he is embarassing the pua community):hahah,i know why u dont want to kiss me
Jane:..(intrigued)..really..why?...
Ree:u know,i only wanted one,but u wont be satisfied with just one

I then brought up some random topic so we wudnt leave with a rejected kiss as the parting scene....we hugged

Ree:i enjoyed your company,and i will see u around

That evening( the date ended at 3pm)

I sent a Text

Ree:Enjoyed your company,ur cool to talk to,plus u have a pretty nose..smiley face
Gal:no reply

Now apart from the rejected kiss ...jane could just as easily be any of the other coffe drinkers and ice cream lickers that are recently making owning a restaurant a lucrative busines in my city
 My dates are so similar
I could just copy paste this report and change names

Some girls will actually reply to the,it was nice meeting u text,only to ignore the ask out that i send three days later


Im i the only person who either gets layed at date 1 or has the gal never respond?....

What is the biggest hindrance to my getting date 2z ...
is it ?

Attainability?
Relatibility?
disqualifier?
The kino?
A jilted jeolus ex alwyas stealthily stalking me running over my dates on their way home?

 

[lao che]

from what you write, although highly entertaining, you seem kind of mechanical and somewhat judgemental. and it seems you view girls as not much more than i portable vagina. which, ok, we all feel like that sometimes but she should never feel that that's how you feel.

where is this heavy kino taking place? in public?
bad move, if so.

i've been writing for three hours so can't do more now ..

i'll get back to you

 

[Ree]

from what you write, although highly entertaining, you seem kind of mechanical and somewhat judgemental. and it seems you view girls as not much more than i portable vagina. which, ok, we all feel like that sometimes but she should never feel that that's how you feel.

where is this heavy kino taking place? in public?
bad move, if so.

i've been writing for three hours so can't do more now ..

i'll get back to you

ok ..tone down on kino....what is ur take on boyfreind disqualifiers...how early do u use them if at all u use them

 

[lao che]

Heavy public kino is not a good idea. I mean, it's happened. It can be done, but usually you don't wanna be touching her thigh in the coffee shop.
Affection though. Why not? Walking side by side pull her into you if she says something cute or open or funny. I touch girls hair a lot. Maybe that's just my style.

Bf disqualifiers. When it comes up in conversation. Don't dwell on it.
I would probably say something similar to you about being sized up. But sth like that is best when you're bantering.
It almost seems you disqualified too much with taking the conversation further into that territory by telling her you don't date anymore, whilst on a date. And you tell her she's too young to understand. Which is saying how different you two are, not relatable.
Then you tell her you just look for friendship... Which is also not true. So by the end of the date the girl is like Wtf he said he was looking for a friend while trying to put His hands up my skirt?

Young girls are tricky anyway. You're not giving them the adventure and romance they crave. Do you read krauser?

19 yrs old she's either dtf or not. If she's not then you gotta put in the 'work' if you want her to open up to you