Very Upset After Valentines Day Flake

[Troy]

Seriously dude, if $25 is enough to cause you this much misery, it's time to reassess your priorities. That's half an hour of work you could have done instead.

If you didn't have that to spare, why would you send it to a girl to get her to come over?

Fact is, you're not angry about the money, you're angry because she made you do stuff you knew was dumb and desperate, and then bailed on you. And going after women for pocket money won't help you fix those problems and put yourself in a good mindset going forward.

I did it simply to hold women accountable. Women flake on men too easily. Women in 2022 dont care about mens feelings. I continued the conversation with her a few mins ago and she does not see where she messed up.

Nah I disagree with what you said. I got $25 to spare. But I aint gonna let no woman trick on me like that. The disrespect falls where she was on Whatsapp. Which meant she had internet access. And she refused to let me know whats up.

Contrary to what you or anyone may think of me now, I am a very understanding guy. If she had said

"I cant find no transport"
"sorry i have a family emergency"
"sorry I am feeling sick"

I would have totally fucking understood. And we wouldnt be here now. Its the level of disrespect I am combatting. And clearly some of you guys on here dont see that. Thats sad. Thats a big L in mindset.

 

[DarkKnight]

Guys we should cut out the "tough love" . I am really on board with @Train reaction. Guys seem to have bad periods from time to time. Yes OP is being emotional and he is definitely venting, but I believe this too is a process between improving yourself and unfortunately this means having serious lows from time to time. If we are going to put on the spot everyone who is in a bad momentum, we will not have a lot of members left.

@Troy I do not have a lot more to add as multiple members have given quite good answers already. Try to keep calm and strong, know this is not the end of the world, know that this is not a true reflection of who you are. You choose who you are. Not that chick, not us board members.
Also for the sake of your sanity.. always prevent being over invested. Perhaps due to the lockdowns you got overinvested at one point? I do not know. But when you engage multiple women, you kinda auto-resist being invested to a single one.. Always put your eggs in multiple baskets.

Also cool it on the suggestions that he needs to go to a shrink or anything like that. He is in a bad momentum, doesnt mean there is something wrong with him. Life is not always a cakewalk for a lot of people.

 

[Troy]

moderators?

Seems most of the guys on here reacting are against what I did to this girl. I am seriously considering leaving the boards for good. Please explain the process on how I can export all my posts into Microsoft Word format.

Also this girl is treatening to tell all the women about this now. And I know she will. So this is where it may go downhill. Even if females never bring it up to me, they gonna talk.

Pretty much, Im fucked. Funny how this world works. People expect men to just suck up to anything and deal with it in silence. And if guys think its embarassing on here, I should probably leave.

Doubt my presence not being here will even make a fucking difference anyways.

Also thanks to the guys who had kinds words to share. Moderators, please share the process I can export my data. All my life I have been struggling and now this. I guess there is no hope and men like myself dont deserve to even be alive at this point.

Moderators, please share the process for me to export my data and then I will set the fucking countdown timer.

Sorry for the negativity. I promise this will be my last post on that matter.

Troy

P.s. For anyone who thinks that I SHOULD not be worried about $25. If it is not that big of a deal, may I suggest you make a contribution to me? This is when people get antsy and start saying no.

 

[DarkKnight]

Sorry for the negativity. I promise this will be my last post on that matter.

Troy

Calm down. And don't flush this board away right now. You are in auto-rejection due to being in a bad place mentally. I would say that especially now you need this place more than ever. But calm down . Even if it seems like the end of the world with those females, it is not. Hell even Simon Leviev is dating a model after doing time in prison and being exposed. Come on

 

[Will_V]

moderators?

Seems most of the guys on here reacting are against what I did to this girl. I am seriously considering leaving the boards for good. Please explain the process on how I can export all my posts into Microsoft Word format.

Also this girl is treatening to tell all the women about this now. And I know she will. So this is where it may go downhill. Even if females never bring it up to me, they gonna talk.

Pretty much, Im fucked. Funny how this world works. People expect men to just suck up to anything and deal with it in silence. And if guys think its embarassing on here, I should probably leave.

Doubt my presence not being here will even make a fucking difference anyways.

Also thanks to the guys who had kinds words to share. Moderators, please share the process I can export my data. All my life I have been struggling and now this. I guess there is no hope and men like myself dont deserve to even be alive at this point.

Moderators, please share the process for me to export my data and then I will set the fucking countdown timer.

Sorry for the negativity. I promise this will be my last post on that matter.

Troy

We are all saying what we say because we want to see you become capable and successful, especially with women through learning game. There are good lessons and bad lessons to learn from any situation.

I'm not going to say anything else about this situation, I wish you all the best and hope you overcome all your troubles.

 

[Tim Iron]

Mr. Troy, take solace and motivation in this fact - whatever you are going through, there are people who have encountered way more than it and eventually conquered and turned around their lives. Don't give up, put your head up!

 

[Tim Iron]

I did it simply to hold women accountable. Women flake on men too easily. Women in 2022 dont care about mens feelings. I continued the conversation with her a few mins ago and she does not see where she messed up.

Nah I disagree with what you said. I got $25 to spare. But I aint gonna let no woman trick on me like that. The disrespect falls where she was on Whatsapp. Which meant she had internet access. And she refused to let me know whats up.

Contrary to what you or anyone may think of me now, I am a very understanding guy. If she had said

"I cant find no transport"
"sorry i have a family emergency"
"sorry I am feeling sick"

I would have totally fucking understood. And we wouldnt be here now. Its the level of disrespect I am combatting. And clearly some of you guys on here dont see that. Thats sad. Thats a big L in mindset.

We understand, everyone makes mistakes. Mr. Chase has written several articles where he stated how he blundered with women. Go out and approach women this evening, just say "hello, good evening, I like your body shape" and then walk away... After a few days of doing it, you will forget about that silly girl.

 

[Tim Iron]

And guys, please remember that this guy is not in the United States. The value of $25 is a lot more in 3rd world countries.

 

[Chase]

@Troy I'm not aware of an built-in way to export posts. The forum software is Xenforo if you want to look it up.

I'm locking this thread now.

 

[Teevster]

@Troy,

I understand you are upset. Flakes suck. It makes me a bit upset, even after years of experience.

But here is a fact that I want you to remember: the best punishmen is ignoring her - radio silence. This is the worst punishment.

Let's face reality for a second here:
- Going to the police is a punishment but less so than ignoring her, because truth is, this whole thing is probably stimulating her and she is probably secretly enjoying discussing this with her friends. You just gave her so much attention.
- Going to the police may lead to potential social consequences for you. I am not saying it is ok to steal 25 USD, but social conventions would see it as over the top going to the police because of 25 usd. Hence, this may in the long run do more damage to you than her.

And regarding your depression - are you taking to your GP about it?

Best,
Teevster