This is an abstract concept so bare with me here.
I've found that the absolute best technique with not only face-to-face interactions but also with texting/online game is to be "natural" and I'll explain what that means (to me) in a minute. This approach to dating is so effective that I've quit mass approaching women yet I get laid just as much, if not - MORE. Absolutely incredible.
Alright, so before we get into the meat of the subject I have to say this. This will only apply to guys who have had substantial experience with women, thus why I labeled it 'advanced' but newbies should still read it and try to internalize it. Also, this will only work if you know how to be PRESENT, feeling your body and the energies inside you as well as the energy she emits.
We're getting into some holistic shit. This isn't something you can learn LOGICALLY, but rather experience on an emotional/energetic level.
Anyhoe, let's jump right into it.
Think back to every girl you've had an amazing interaction with. Begin to visualize the feelings you had, the energy of the interaction. There was probably some excitement, lots of chemistry and "sparks". You locked eyes with her and it just all felt NATURAL. Getting her number, inviting her out and bedding her was seamless, smooth and effortless. There no tactics, tricks, techniques, lines, routines, pre-written shit, you just let nature run her course. Now think about every girl you've never had sex with. There was probably nothing there. No chemistry, no vibe, no energy, no naturalness...and she probably flaked. It's not you, it's not her, it just wasn't meant to be.
The basis of this 'natural game' is to be completely natural. DUH. What that means, is to simply allow seduction to happen. TRYING creates resistance and friction. TRYING to make a girl attracted/have sex with you is like TRYING to go to sleep. You don't TRY, you just let it happen. Otherwise you end up tossing and turning for hours and eventually - frustrated. Sex is as natural to us as shitting, eating, and sleeping. Yet we complicate it.
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With that said, with any said interaction you have, you shouldn't be sizing a girl up or forcing attraction on her. Rather - you should get into your body. Be present. Let nature tell you whether attraction is there or not. You'll notice that when you're both attracted to each other, a tingling sensation will arise in your body. That's your body telling you that she's a match. She's going to be feeling the same thing. Your job is to VIBE and build upon that initial attraction.
Vibing is simply putting out energy. Emitting energy from your body. Ever notice when girls are really attracted to you, they're very feminine and girly? They say nonsense things, twirl their hairs, give you HUGE eyes and laugh at anything you say? That's her putting forth FEMININE energy towards you. That's her way of VIBING and attracting you.
In return, you should put forth MASCULINE energy. That is, get into your body and begin to feel 200,000 years of evolution work their magic. The magic that has produced 108 billion human beings and overpopulated this god damn planet. What do you feel when you talk to women? When you have sex with women? For me, I feel very tender-aggressive. I really don't know how to explain it. You need lots of experience to understand this. I don't try to logically understand it, I just let my body do the work for me. If I feel like hugging her, I do. If I feel like spinning her, I do. If I feel like kissing her, I do. I just VIBE and put forth masculine energy.
For instance, when 2 males vibe, what do they do? They wrestle, horseplay, they joke and basically put forth MASCULINE energy. Look at athletes. The way they interact and vibe. They're always teasing each other and rough-housing each other. Take that same approach to women and seduction. Just let your masculine energy flow freely.
Now when you text, take that same approach. Instead of trying to invite her out, just focus on and feel the interaction. I always start my texts with "hey, what's going on" or "hey, what's up". Then I let her invest and let the interaction build up. If she's very dry and not really responding, I just stop and try at a later time. If she's warm and really going along with the vibe and having a good time, I ask her out. I ALWAYS get a yes. Because she's enjoying the interaction, she's going to want to spend time with you, because you're fun.
The key here is, girls' emotional states fluctuate throughout the day. So just because she's not responding now, it might not be that she's not into you, but rather she's not feeling it at the moment. I've had girls where I'd never catch her at the right times yet MONTHS later, I'd text her at the right moment then we would meet-up, have an amazing time and consequentially have sex afterwards.
The main takeaway point here is that you learn to be in your body, practice your masculinity and let nature run her course. Attraction is a very natural thing, it's fucking beautiful. Hope this post was of some value to you guys, take it easy.
I've found that the absolute best technique with not only face-to-face interactions but also with texting/online game is to be "natural" and I'll explain what that means (to me) in a minute. This approach to dating is so effective that I've quit mass approaching women yet I get laid just as much, if not - MORE. Absolutely incredible.
Alright, so before we get into the meat of the subject I have to say this. This will only apply to guys who have had substantial experience with women, thus why I labeled it 'advanced' but newbies should still read it and try to internalize it. Also, this will only work if you know how to be PRESENT, feeling your body and the energies inside you as well as the energy she emits.
We're getting into some holistic shit. This isn't something you can learn LOGICALLY, but rather experience on an emotional/energetic level.
Anyhoe, let's jump right into it.
Think back to every girl you've had an amazing interaction with. Begin to visualize the feelings you had, the energy of the interaction. There was probably some excitement, lots of chemistry and "sparks". You locked eyes with her and it just all felt NATURAL. Getting her number, inviting her out and bedding her was seamless, smooth and effortless. There no tactics, tricks, techniques, lines, routines, pre-written shit, you just let nature run her course. Now think about every girl you've never had sex with. There was probably nothing there. No chemistry, no vibe, no energy, no naturalness...and she probably flaked. It's not you, it's not her, it just wasn't meant to be.
The basis of this 'natural game' is to be completely natural. DUH. What that means, is to simply allow seduction to happen. TRYING creates resistance and friction. TRYING to make a girl attracted/have sex with you is like TRYING to go to sleep. You don't TRY, you just let it happen. Otherwise you end up tossing and turning for hours and eventually - frustrated. Sex is as natural to us as shitting, eating, and sleeping. Yet we complicate it.
[Here's where the real post starts]
With that said, with any said interaction you have, you shouldn't be sizing a girl up or forcing attraction on her. Rather - you should get into your body. Be present. Let nature tell you whether attraction is there or not. You'll notice that when you're both attracted to each other, a tingling sensation will arise in your body. That's your body telling you that she's a match. She's going to be feeling the same thing. Your job is to VIBE and build upon that initial attraction.
Vibing is simply putting out energy. Emitting energy from your body. Ever notice when girls are really attracted to you, they're very feminine and girly? They say nonsense things, twirl their hairs, give you HUGE eyes and laugh at anything you say? That's her putting forth FEMININE energy towards you. That's her way of VIBING and attracting you.
In return, you should put forth MASCULINE energy. That is, get into your body and begin to feel 200,000 years of evolution work their magic. The magic that has produced 108 billion human beings and overpopulated this god damn planet. What do you feel when you talk to women? When you have sex with women? For me, I feel very tender-aggressive. I really don't know how to explain it. You need lots of experience to understand this. I don't try to logically understand it, I just let my body do the work for me. If I feel like hugging her, I do. If I feel like spinning her, I do. If I feel like kissing her, I do. I just VIBE and put forth masculine energy.
For instance, when 2 males vibe, what do they do? They wrestle, horseplay, they joke and basically put forth MASCULINE energy. Look at athletes. The way they interact and vibe. They're always teasing each other and rough-housing each other. Take that same approach to women and seduction. Just let your masculine energy flow freely.
Now when you text, take that same approach. Instead of trying to invite her out, just focus on and feel the interaction. I always start my texts with "hey, what's going on" or "hey, what's up". Then I let her invest and let the interaction build up. If she's very dry and not really responding, I just stop and try at a later time. If she's warm and really going along with the vibe and having a good time, I ask her out. I ALWAYS get a yes. Because she's enjoying the interaction, she's going to want to spend time with you, because you're fun.
The key here is, girls' emotional states fluctuate throughout the day. So just because she's not responding now, it might not be that she's not into you, but rather she's not feeling it at the moment. I've had girls where I'd never catch her at the right times yet MONTHS later, I'd text her at the right moment then we would meet-up, have an amazing time and consequentially have sex afterwards.
The main takeaway point here is that you learn to be in your body, practice your masculinity and let nature run her course. Attraction is a very natural thing, it's fucking beautiful. Hope this post was of some value to you guys, take it easy.
