Met this girl at a latin dance event a couple of days ago, had a few dances and lots of fun. She asked for my name after the first dance. We don't talk much but in the brief exchanges on the floor I learn that she's local but moved overseas a couple of years ago and is just back for a month for family and friends. As the event ends it turns out she was an acquaintence of a friend and she catches a ride back from this friend. I considered asking for her contact but held back out of respect for the friend (didn't want to jump the gun without first figuring out the situation with the friend).
Bump into her a couple of days later at another event and of course had more fun again. She left early this time but before she left she asked to exchange contacts with the excuse of "me and friend wanted to check out an event at another place some other time and it's more fun to go together". Anyway she suggested IG (I presume for stalking purposes) but only gave me a "burner" dance account and not the private personal one (trying not to read too much into it as it could just be a form of contact).
Anyway that night I message her with some suggestions on where to go and she said she'd be up for one of the suggestions a couple of days later. We chat a bit before saying goodnight. I fight the urge not to message her again until the event. She messages on the day itself and says that she's going to be there. She does indeed show up and she smells super good. I move her to another event and she obliges. After that ends we get food where I finally got my chance to isolate her.
Over food I learn a lot about her background, her motivation for moving overseas and her thoughts on life in general. She mentioned she has a partner back overseas and he's a lot older than her and started off as her dance instructor (of course). I considered making a move but she seems to have strong feelings about her partner. Anyway the night ends and we part ways. She tries to flag a cab but none shows for awhile (not sure if she was trying to create an opportunity for me to send her home). I ask for her address with the intention of dropping her home. She gives it but seems to be on the fence on whether she wants a ride home (trying not to read too much into this as she's staying with parents while visiting so probably nothing would come out of it) so I don't push for it. She ends up getting an uber and we hug goodbye.
Maybe she was a little disappointed with how the night ended because she hasn't messaged since. Just putting this out there wondering if I have read too much into this situation? Obviously nothing long term would come out of this but wouldn't mind a couple of weeks of fun.
Bump into her a couple of days later at another event and of course had more fun again. She left early this time but before she left she asked to exchange contacts with the excuse of "me and friend wanted to check out an event at another place some other time and it's more fun to go together". Anyway she suggested IG (I presume for stalking purposes) but only gave me a "burner" dance account and not the private personal one (trying not to read too much into it as it could just be a form of contact).
Anyway that night I message her with some suggestions on where to go and she said she'd be up for one of the suggestions a couple of days later. We chat a bit before saying goodnight. I fight the urge not to message her again until the event. She messages on the day itself and says that she's going to be there. She does indeed show up and she smells super good. I move her to another event and she obliges. After that ends we get food where I finally got my chance to isolate her.
Over food I learn a lot about her background, her motivation for moving overseas and her thoughts on life in general. She mentioned she has a partner back overseas and he's a lot older than her and started off as her dance instructor (of course). I considered making a move but she seems to have strong feelings about her partner. Anyway the night ends and we part ways. She tries to flag a cab but none shows for awhile (not sure if she was trying to create an opportunity for me to send her home). I ask for her address with the intention of dropping her home. She gives it but seems to be on the fence on whether she wants a ride home (trying not to read too much into this as she's staying with parents while visiting so probably nothing would come out of it) so I don't push for it. She ends up getting an uber and we hug goodbye.
Maybe she was a little disappointed with how the night ended because she hasn't messaged since. Just putting this out there wondering if I have read too much into this situation? Obviously nothing long term would come out of this but wouldn't mind a couple of weeks of fun.
