FR Was she ready to have sex?

[StrayDog]

This is crazy though. Just a few years back I scared women because I was too weird, and now I’m being rejected because I’m not moving fast enough? Like make up your mind women, am I good enough or not??

Every women is going to move at her own pace. Some will be more open to you sooner, and others not.

You have no idea if this girl rejected you because you "didn't move fast enough". That is an assumption. All you know is that you didn't lay her.

Maybe you tried to escalate too soon. took all the tension out. that's a possibility too.

You don't know because she didn't tell you. So you can only theorize.

Only time you can really legitimately say you left the lay on the table is if she is somewhere around asking you to straight up fuck her and you turn her down.

Otherwise it's not over till it's over.

And you're out her acting with you're the pick up Nostradamus. Watching the end credits when you're barely into the end of the first act.

Well that’s why I didn’t lay her, I wanted to game her more and didn’t expect it to be this easy. I learnt a ton of material to use it, not to figure out I don’t need it after all.

you say this like you know you had the lay in the bag. Which you don't know. You know how I know you don't know. Because you didn't lay her. That's how I know. And that's the only way you can know if you had the lay in the bag. You laid her. Which you didn't.

I don't think this whole "I could have but I couldn't" attitude is helping you much here.

Out here smoking copium like you have stock in the copium factory.

 

[Lilly]

As a woman, just reading that whole account of the situation was horrible. What a mess.

 

[OldGuy]

This is crazy though. Just a few years back I scared women because I was too weird, and now I’m being rejected because I’m not moving fast enough? Like make up your mind women, am I good enough or not??

Yu changed the reason they rejected you from weird to move too slow, just need more change.

 

[TrailBlazer]

And you're out her acting with you're the pick up Nostradamus. Watching the end credits when you're barely into the end of the first act.

It’s better for me to believe that I could have easily had her - the frustration is much higher this way and leads to me learning more from the mess up.

As a woman, just reading that whole account of the situation was horrible. What a mess.

These are some of my better recent dates though. It’s really not that horrible. I felt much worse about this one - luckily you can’t reply to that post anymore, but there the woman even told me she needs to sleep with someone. And I still couldn’t do anything.

The worst thing? The guys in that thread were telling me I missed a major window, and yet I still can’t believe that to be true. That a woman would give me such a big window. I’m not even good at sex and women must be able to tell.

 

[StrayDog]

It’s better for me to believe that I could have easily had her - the frustration is much higher this way and leads to me learning more from the mess up.

I honestly have now idea how you came to this conclusion, but whatever works for you man. best of luck with all that