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We are "best friends" but I like* her way too much..

zalmanswheel

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I'll try to write this issue as short as possible.

I'm 18 years old, beginner in girls chase. I believe that I physically look okay (178cm tall, 70kg) and am living healthy life (lots of running, not smoker but I can drink). However, year ago I met this great person aand story goes ..

Friends and I were out in a bar drinking (saturday, everyone is drunk) when I saw a year younger girl entering the bar with few of her mates. As night was passing by I was looking at her almost all the time and she returned looks with smiles. So when we decided to left (yes I was sad) I told her and her female friends that they can have the table because we were leaving. I thought I left good impression. After an hour ago we came back and then stood on bar desk (or how do you call it) near their table and she kept looking at me. I was way too much idiot to go there and talk to her so .. I friended her on facebook and started the chat the next day with "I hope I didn't do something wrong last night.." so thats how we started chatting about all sort of stuff. I asked her out after some time and then she turned me down because she had somebody. I got over it but still had a crush on her. So halloween party we meet in a pub and she was all like I'm her best friend and I was like what?. Anywasy we had so much fun that night, I met her brother and sister-in-law but I didn't do move because I was totally wasted (and so was she). So on saturday two days later we went out again (we actually met in the same place) and had couple of drinks but she had to go early so the next day I started chatting with her again (I can guarantee that she had feelings for me because she was introducing me to everyone and she kept giving me friendly kisses and stuff) but eventually she turned me down because she had another boyfriend?!. And then I was very sad but got over it. And then came the new years eve.

I didn't mention it before but I am member of local band (singing and stuff) and we were hired by a bar to play that night. When it was about to become 0:00 everyone went out to see fireworks including us. I was kinda sad that night because I had nobody with me except my friends lol (forever alone, right?). Then when the fireworks started and my friend told me to turn around and then I saw her. She was "drunk" and the first person she was congratulating was me. I don't know why, after she turned me down 2 times she came all happy and she kissed my lips and I was like what the heck. Anyways I noticed she is acting drunk because I saw earlier how she acts when she is really drunk. This made me think. Anyways she came from the other bar where she was celebrating to our bar and when we started playing she left. So after an hour and a half of songs I went to bathroom and when I came out I saw her standing with drink in her hands, again acting to be drunk and she was "looking for her best friend". I'm like wtf, completely confused but still glad she was there because shes kinda my dreamgirl. Anyways I went with her to find her bf. On the way there wierd things started happening: First I was asked to fix her bra which I did (who wouldn't :D) and later on she started showing me messages on fb because she dumped her boyfriend? Da fuq. Anyways, her best friend was in other bar, waiting for her all the time and then I was told that she likes me and she has feelings for me. I was so happy then but in the meantime I had to go back. We exchanged numbers so we could meet after I'm done so we did. I was so much trying to kiss her but couldn't get a chance because I had to drive my brother home. I asked her that night to go out for a coffee and she said yes (she wasn't drunk, not at all) and then also told me to contact her on facebook so we could get the details. So I did but she told me she had to go out with her best friend to talk with her about some stuff. I replied (Y) and then she said "sorry" and I wasn't replying back.

Now I can't stop thinking of her, am still trying to figure what the heck does she wants and whether should I get drunk or not. Gah these girls... Sorry for the long one, tried to make it short :)
 
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Ryan

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I'm bumping this, because i'm in a similar situation to you. My best female friend for almost a year is a gorgeous, single, 24 year old woman. But since she's such a great friend, i wouldn't want to throw it away over a night of (really good) sex once i become good at this.
Or would i? What a dilemma..

Sorry i didn't actually help, but i just wanted to answer so this gets more attention.
 

zalmanswheel

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I'm trying to escalate things between us into a relationship or at least friends with benefits. This way you can have more sex with her and it probably won't end friendship that early. Am I right here?

However small update: Last night I was out and I ignored - she was looking at me all the time and this morning she started liking all my pictures. I think this girl has some brain issues, although she seems completely okay.
 
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