Recently, there are places to pick up dames that have not crossed the "mainstream" pattern as a niche for pick up. One of those places is: burials/memorials - the other is weddings.
Today's report details the stages within a high end wedding with excess booze and chops at the after party. Roll down your goggles as we go in for a dive.
The hall was dapper and clogged with security detail to the teeth. I was with a lady. We got there pretty early and it let me sit where we could see the other guests come in. Though our seats were designated, a plus is having to come when the whole place is still getting packed up.
instant warm up
My lady had been to the bachelorette so she had the warm up of nights and days of hilarity and some pole dancers. When I got there, i was already asking where the bathroom was. A coy move in case we had moments alone with people there.
I found out though that there were totally opposite each other and the direction to get there was right behind the stage for the dancefloor and MC stand. I bit my teeth and went to my seat after a little washing.
A few minutes in, i got introduced to a dark-skinned lady who was looking at me keenly and I made sure to look back into her eyes. SHe sat beside my lady and they bantered a bit about the patterns that we have in weddings but we didn't know what to expect in a place like this. Soon the room got choked up, the couple danced, the hall got more energetic and the after party vibes were calling.
I walked outside to take some fresh air and deliberately, I saw some slender girl who wore a red dress with an open back. The dress was very little and her thighs showed themselves through the length of her legs. I was allured but when I walked close to her, her guy friend came around. He was at the table where we sat before. WIth them both on the move, I found it hard to interject. Being an invitee had a psychological effect on my approaches - i wasn't anxious, only more cautious. The pattern followed till I got standing near the DJ booth.
after party vibe
Always easy to look cool near the DJ so I stayed there for a while longer. SOme of my old friends were coming by and saying hi to me as we had not seen ourselves in forever till the ceremony. I began to look around for easy targets and fishes to translate to my next funnel for dates. WHen I saw this old friend of mine, she being the sister of the groom, was warm to me and left her circle of friends to say hi. I shook her calmly and extended my own greetings to her little group - one after the other. Then i made eye-contact with her and left calmly. We had hugged and I made the hug very basic - grabbing her two upper arms like it would be a cheek to cheek kiss, then looking at her and smiling. I left soon after. Nothing as weird as being the drag in a crowded situation so keep it moving.
From reading the body language of half the people there, they seemed to all know each other so well and the day was lke a mini reunion. I was not prepared for it at all but it was a release for me at some moments and then at otehr times when I didn't know who else to talk to. The guys were okay to talk to thten at a point all of us sort of merely stood around. ALways a good idea to socialise with people - regardless of their gender.
number close
As we left, I had a bow to my head but then the night turned around. That sister of teh groom who was so warm to me earlier had to wait for their uber to pick them. I was in a vehicle so great link up as I stretched my hands and gaem her the hand hold: palm up-palm down. And then we drove to her hotel and parked for them to step out. On the way, the energy tested because her friend hit his leg on the tyre of the car while getting inside. I feigned worry to look aware of teh situation but when he was still writhing in pain, I basically had to apologize and let it simmer a bit in silence.
As they dropped off, the sister of the groom asked my lady to give her phone number to me. Saying: "we should keep in touch."
Lessons___
I would say, the best places are yet to be hatched in pick up. A wedding has the tendency to yield to the atmosphere a upbeat and self promoting the next person. It also has a wave of social circle gaming to it that makes for self conscious ladies and testy friends But bringing the right energy can do more wonders than what the DJ struggles to do.
i would definitely try out more weddings and maybe pick up at a burial again soon.
TIll next time.
Let me now below what you all think and where I may have been a bit better. Also, if you need me to explain any scene of this report' that's fine by me.
Today's report details the stages within a high end wedding with excess booze and chops at the after party. Roll down your goggles as we go in for a dive.
The hall was dapper and clogged with security detail to the teeth. I was with a lady. We got there pretty early and it let me sit where we could see the other guests come in. Though our seats were designated, a plus is having to come when the whole place is still getting packed up.
instant warm up
My lady had been to the bachelorette so she had the warm up of nights and days of hilarity and some pole dancers. When I got there, i was already asking where the bathroom was. A coy move in case we had moments alone with people there.
I found out though that there were totally opposite each other and the direction to get there was right behind the stage for the dancefloor and MC stand. I bit my teeth and went to my seat after a little washing.A few minutes in, i got introduced to a dark-skinned lady who was looking at me keenly and I made sure to look back into her eyes. SHe sat beside my lady and they bantered a bit about the patterns that we have in weddings but we didn't know what to expect in a place like this. Soon the room got choked up, the couple danced, the hall got more energetic and the after party vibes were calling.
I walked outside to take some fresh air and deliberately, I saw some slender girl who wore a red dress with an open back. The dress was very little and her thighs showed themselves through the length of her legs. I was allured but when I walked close to her, her guy friend came around. He was at the table where we sat before. WIth them both on the move, I found it hard to interject. Being an invitee had a psychological effect on my approaches - i wasn't anxious, only more cautious. The pattern followed till I got standing near the DJ booth.
after party vibe
Always easy to look cool near the DJ so I stayed there for a while longer. SOme of my old friends were coming by and saying hi to me as we had not seen ourselves in forever till the ceremony. I began to look around for easy targets and fishes to translate to my next funnel for dates. WHen I saw this old friend of mine, she being the sister of the groom, was warm to me and left her circle of friends to say hi. I shook her calmly and extended my own greetings to her little group - one after the other. Then i made eye-contact with her and left calmly. We had hugged and I made the hug very basic - grabbing her two upper arms like it would be a cheek to cheek kiss, then looking at her and smiling. I left soon after. Nothing as weird as being the drag in a crowded situation so keep it moving.
From reading the body language of half the people there, they seemed to all know each other so well and the day was lke a mini reunion. I was not prepared for it at all but it was a release for me at some moments and then at otehr times when I didn't know who else to talk to. The guys were okay to talk to thten at a point all of us sort of merely stood around. ALways a good idea to socialise with people - regardless of their gender.
number close
As we left, I had a bow to my head but then the night turned around. That sister of teh groom who was so warm to me earlier had to wait for their uber to pick them. I was in a vehicle so great link up as I stretched my hands and gaem her the hand hold: palm up-palm down. And then we drove to her hotel and parked for them to step out. On the way, the energy tested because her friend hit his leg on the tyre of the car while getting inside. I feigned worry to look aware of teh situation but when he was still writhing in pain, I basically had to apologize and let it simmer a bit in silence.
As they dropped off, the sister of the groom asked my lady to give her phone number to me. Saying: "we should keep in touch."
Lessons___
I would say, the best places are yet to be hatched in pick up. A wedding has the tendency to yield to the atmosphere a upbeat and self promoting the next person. It also has a wave of social circle gaming to it that makes for self conscious ladies and testy friends But bringing the right energy can do more wonders than what the DJ struggles to do.
i would definitely try out more weddings and maybe pick up at a burial again soon.
TIll next time.
Let me now below what you all think and where I may have been a bit better. Also, if you need me to explain any scene of this report' that's fine by me.
