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Kvothe

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Anyone have tips for a Friday night date plan? I'm meeting a girl at 10PM on Friday night, and so we're meeting at a bar.

I'm just wondering since it's a weekend technically, does it matter how early I try to pull her, or how much I have to deal with cock blocks.

Given I get to pick the location, at least that's in my control, and I can pick a location with fewer of those.

Still, I don't think I've seen as many articles/posts on weekend date night plans (besides https://www.girlschase.com/content/tactics-tuesdays-fridaysaturday-night-date)
 
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Dreamer

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There's no significant differences b/w date plans in general on weekends v/s weekdays IME, just some minor ones to keep in mind so I'm not sure I'm following you here. Usually, on weekdays they can't be up too late due to work / school commitments, so you have to act a bit faster. On weeknights they usually have the next day off so can be up a bit later than usual. Also, there's something about Fri night / Sat nights that screams fun / party / adventure / chill / sex a bit more than the working weekdays b/c well it's a weekend.

In either case, I just use the "drinks @ multiple venues" model that I've been using for over a decade now ie cocktail / lounge bar no 1 (I prefer lounge bars / cocktail bars to straight up bars and I avoid those dive bars / shot bars like the plague for day 2's) -> first round of drinks -> lounge bar no 2 -> second round of drinks -> (optional: venue no 3 IF you feel like you need it) -> pull back to your place. I'm sure you're familiar with Skills's 3 bounce routine no? If not, perhaps familiarize yourself with it. On weekend, I notice some girls like to ""feel the weekend night" while on a date, so in that case you may need a 3rd venue, or more to give her the full experience before you pull, but again it really depends on the girl and where she's at.

There also used to be that ""don't do dates on Fri / Sat b/c it'll make you look like you have nothing better to do thing" and in general, I avoid day 2's on Fri / Sat nights b/c those are my sarge nights, but I can get away with making exceptions on occasion without a frame loss these days. With that being said, I noticed IF it was a Fri night / Sat night date it almost always leads to sex. Why? Well, I don't know your girls demographic is but if she's on the younger side, I figure she could've been meeting up / partying with her friends but chose to go out with you and if she's older she could've stayed @ home, relaxed, wine night with her friends etc... yet decided to doll herself up, prep for a date so it's generally a good sign.

does it matter how early I try to pull her, or how much I have to deal with cock blocks.

Pull as early as you think you're comfortably able to. Sometimes she'll be ready to pull early, other times you'll need more time. It depends on the girl really. Also, why are you worried about dealing with cock blocks while on a date with a girl? I don't follow, isn't this supposed to be a 1 on 1 thing? I know on one of the recent FR's someone had the issue you're talking about, but that wasn't a date per se and more an ""invite out to a social gathering" thing.

Either way, I'd make sure you research the logistics of the places you'll take her to BEFORE going there. Have a plan, have a plausible deniability excuse to pull back to your place, have a bottle of wine (or whatever alcohol back @ home), make sure the logistics line up smoothly, make sure you're progressively microescalating as the date progresses (ie kino), these are far more important than the perfect weekend date structure.

Good luck!


-Dreamer
 
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