Weird text response...HELP!

[killerman]

Ok so I went out for a coffee with a girl on thursday, went really well, could tell girl was into me, she avoided eye contact, very shy. she said "I have a boyfriend but I really like you so want to give it a try". Was thinking about pulling her home but she said she only had an hour so I decided not to. Sent her a text next day saying i had a great time, got no response, sent her another one today asking when she was free next and got the reply "i dont know. keep in touch xx"

What do i do? Im not sure whether she's busy, whether she wants me chase, whether she's politely rejecting me, so what do i send back? if i even should? what do i do next?

 

[RDawg]

- killerman

"I have a boyfriend but I really like you so want to give it a try"

This just show's she's on the fence about her current boyfriend and you were a 'potentially' better candidate at that moment. However, you missed your window and didn't make a move by inviting her home or slaying her. Based on the text she sent you....

"i dont know. keep in touch xx"

The girl does really like you, but you missed you're golden opportunity while you were on the date with her. You're now in a position, were you're value is a bit lower and you've been placed into a more 'orbiter' role (e.g., second option to the boyfriend as opposed to being that sexy new lover that's better than her current boyfriend).

As how to proceed form here, I'd discontinue contact with her for the time being. The only real way I see this playing out is if she get's into a fight with her boyfriend, he's on vacation, or she breaks up with him, etc. For instance, one random night you may get a text from her saying "what are you doing tonight?" or something along the lines of that and that'll be your cue to get in quickly. With that being said, she may never get into contact with you again either, but based on her saying "I really like you" and "keep in touch xx", I highly think one day she will hit you up again. Just let things play out right now and don't get into contact with her again unless she initiates the texting.

Note: For future reference, if a girl ever has a boyfriend and goes on a date with you, be aggressive, dominant and quick. She's there for a reason and she clearly doesn't care much about her current boyfriend

Cheers,
Rdawg