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So the last week or so has been a bit up and down. I'm usually a night game guy but won't be going out for a while. So I decided it's a good time to really practice and get into day game.
I've set 4 dates this week, and went 1 for 4 on sealing the deal, which has been frustrating but not too bad for my first week and a half of trying to fuck random girls on the street rather than club/bar scene. I think there are some differences and I have some questions.
GIRL 1
At the library, cute Asian 7 sits by me. She puts her head on the table after a while so I say, "you're such a slacker!" we flirt for about 30 minutes while working and I invite her back to my apartment to smoke. We do, I make a move after a few minutes and we fuck. Went perfect but she's only a 7.
GIRL 2
next day I met a tall, skinny blonde with toned body. 5'11. shes a solid 8. with my dog outside at my apt and she pulls up. my dog runs off by her so I said something like, "Ugh he never listens." Flirted for a minute, got her number and set a date for the next day to go to my apartment's dog park, she said she gets off at 430. She was very warm, texts very warm too.
I texted her at 230 next day that I can only see my coach from 5-6, so after that is best. She texted me back at 620 that she was just leaving gym. Texted her back at 7 that I just had to shower. She didn't text me back. 2 days later, I texted her a selfie/dog pick at the dog park with, "looking for a French bull dog to play with." she texted me back immediately and we set the date for the next day.
Texted back and forth the next day to finalize. She comes over, and we walk. ~30 date went excellent, I played it perfect. deep dive, some light touching, but no charged eye contact silences, so not perfect I guess. We're walking back and she says she has to get ready, she's meeting friends for drinks. Get back to my apartment and she says she has to go again, but I just keep walking and her dog follows and we all go inside.
start hooking up almost immediately, but she says she has to go again. We go to the couch and make up for a couple minutes and she was ready to fuck. I didn't go for the pussy fast enough and she said she really has to go and shuts it down, but she was still very turned on, apologetic that she had to leave, and promised to come back in a couple hours.
Of course she didn't, and didn't respond to my subsequent text. I had MAYBE five minutes to escalate and missed the window. Very frustrating. Brings up my first question, which I'll come back to later.
GIRL 3
Met her at my boxing gym the next monday. Athletic latin girl, 8. At drinking fountain I said, "You're pretty legit!" because she was good, but doing a class and I was sparring. Flirted a couple times while we were both there, then chatted her up at break in her class. "What's your deal? How long you been doing this?" we flirt for a minute and I offer to teach her some stuff tomorrow and get her number.
I tried to get us to go together but she said she was coming from work and would meet me at 630. I tell her 6 is better and she promises to leave work early. I finish my workout with my coach and she shows up at 6 on the dot. For some reason, I just wasn't really on my game and the date went good not great. There were a couple momentary down moments, not awkward silences, but I just wasn't totally charismatic. I coach her for about 30 minutes and invite her to get some food. I pick a place close to my APT and its healthy. She follows me there and we eat. Getting the food had a few brief down moments, but once we started eating it was better. We talked about her ambitions, her family, what motivates her in her personal and professional life, etc.
There was one intense, sexually charged eye contact that lasted for maybe 7 seconds. I should have left with her then. But I didn't. We talked for maybe 10 more minutes, I moved next to her to watch a video of her dancing. I say we should go but she should stop by my place it's right down the road. Didn't have a smooth reason, I usually go with weed but she doesn't smoke. She turns me down but says she wants to meet again.
I text her today (the day after) that I enjoyed it and she texted me back so did she. I could use some advice going forward with this one. From what I've read I should wait a couple days and try to set up another date, but I'm leaving town for the weekend. Should I text her Friday and set date for next week? I don't want to go to the boxing gym with her again, because that will probably lock me into, "boxing trainer guy" and not "lover" guy. Its also far from my apartment. I want to try to tell her to come to my apartment gym instead, but not sure how to go about it?
GIRL 4
This girl is a different case. She's a hard 9. We hung out/hooked up but never fucked a long time ago, over a year. I see her on Monday and she asks me to text her next time I go to my boxing gym, because that's what we did together but shes never been to a real gym. I was extremely surprised she asked to meet me again, we've seen each other a few times since our first run and she was cold. Looking for advice.
Story:
We had something special, or really could have, but I didn't handle it properly. We met at my apartment gym, she asked me to teach her how to box. I gave her a quick lesson and didn't even try to leave together but did get her number. She approached me and asked for my number. Leave for winter break, see her when I get back and give her another lesson. This guy I cant stand tried to steal her and I played it off. We leave together and go back to my apartment. I tried to escalate but she wasn't having it. I probably could have if I did it now tho, it's been a long time not sure. We end up hanging out every day, she texts me all the time, sends me selfies, etc.
Within a couple days Im at her apartment and this was my chance. I get her back to her room to show me the jewelry she makes, and we start hooking up. Very passionate. But this goes back to my first question with Girl 2: I only had maybe 5-10 minutes to escalate, and I just didn't move fast enough. I really dunno why I've had this problem twice now, because it never has been before. I didn't reach for her pussy when she wanted me too, night game girls seem to give you a LOT longer to escalate. Is escalation from a day game interaction inherently faster paced than night game?
Of course after this theres pressure on it, we take a week off, but she texts me and we start working out/walking and talking every day again. The whole time this other guy keeps trying to steal her and embarrassing himself, literally sitting there while we work out and talking when I go to get a drink. She put him in his place a lot and insulted him while choosing me always, but would leave with him to study every once in a while. Think she was fucking with my head? Either way it worked. A couple weeks after I told her I don't just want to be her friend and I needed space. She was very upset, but she was still interested but it was just a mess by this point.
We see each other maybe once a month just randomly (same apartment), I sent her a text a while ago and she didn't answer. But when we run into each other, she sends off an energy that she regretted how it turned out, wants to talk to me when I'm busy, I dunno mixed signals left and right. I saw her with that other guy a few weeks back. So on Monday I see her, we casually flirt like there was no history at all, and she asks to go to my boxing gym with me again, and I was really surprised.
I texted her today at 230 that I was going to my gym at 5. She texted me at 330 that she had to work at 430 (which was one of her shifts when I first knew her). I texted her, "Better luck with tips! Lemme know when you wanna make time coming up."
Any advice on this one? I really want to fuck this girl and think there is some chance, but it is going to require me to knock every aspect out of the park.
I've set 4 dates this week, and went 1 for 4 on sealing the deal, which has been frustrating but not too bad for my first week and a half of trying to fuck random girls on the street rather than club/bar scene. I think there are some differences and I have some questions.
GIRL 1
At the library, cute Asian 7 sits by me. She puts her head on the table after a while so I say, "you're such a slacker!" we flirt for about 30 minutes while working and I invite her back to my apartment to smoke. We do, I make a move after a few minutes and we fuck. Went perfect but she's only a 7.
GIRL 2
next day I met a tall, skinny blonde with toned body. 5'11. shes a solid 8. with my dog outside at my apt and she pulls up. my dog runs off by her so I said something like, "Ugh he never listens." Flirted for a minute, got her number and set a date for the next day to go to my apartment's dog park, she said she gets off at 430. She was very warm, texts very warm too.
I texted her at 230 next day that I can only see my coach from 5-6, so after that is best. She texted me back at 620 that she was just leaving gym. Texted her back at 7 that I just had to shower. She didn't text me back. 2 days later, I texted her a selfie/dog pick at the dog park with, "looking for a French bull dog to play with." she texted me back immediately and we set the date for the next day.
Texted back and forth the next day to finalize. She comes over, and we walk. ~30 date went excellent, I played it perfect. deep dive, some light touching, but no charged eye contact silences, so not perfect I guess. We're walking back and she says she has to get ready, she's meeting friends for drinks. Get back to my apartment and she says she has to go again, but I just keep walking and her dog follows and we all go inside.
start hooking up almost immediately, but she says she has to go again. We go to the couch and make up for a couple minutes and she was ready to fuck. I didn't go for the pussy fast enough and she said she really has to go and shuts it down, but she was still very turned on, apologetic that she had to leave, and promised to come back in a couple hours.
Of course she didn't, and didn't respond to my subsequent text. I had MAYBE five minutes to escalate and missed the window. Very frustrating. Brings up my first question, which I'll come back to later.
GIRL 3
Met her at my boxing gym the next monday. Athletic latin girl, 8. At drinking fountain I said, "You're pretty legit!" because she was good, but doing a class and I was sparring. Flirted a couple times while we were both there, then chatted her up at break in her class. "What's your deal? How long you been doing this?" we flirt for a minute and I offer to teach her some stuff tomorrow and get her number.
I tried to get us to go together but she said she was coming from work and would meet me at 630. I tell her 6 is better and she promises to leave work early. I finish my workout with my coach and she shows up at 6 on the dot. For some reason, I just wasn't really on my game and the date went good not great. There were a couple momentary down moments, not awkward silences, but I just wasn't totally charismatic. I coach her for about 30 minutes and invite her to get some food. I pick a place close to my APT and its healthy. She follows me there and we eat. Getting the food had a few brief down moments, but once we started eating it was better. We talked about her ambitions, her family, what motivates her in her personal and professional life, etc.
There was one intense, sexually charged eye contact that lasted for maybe 7 seconds. I should have left with her then. But I didn't. We talked for maybe 10 more minutes, I moved next to her to watch a video of her dancing. I say we should go but she should stop by my place it's right down the road. Didn't have a smooth reason, I usually go with weed but she doesn't smoke. She turns me down but says she wants to meet again.
I text her today (the day after) that I enjoyed it and she texted me back so did she. I could use some advice going forward with this one. From what I've read I should wait a couple days and try to set up another date, but I'm leaving town for the weekend. Should I text her Friday and set date for next week? I don't want to go to the boxing gym with her again, because that will probably lock me into, "boxing trainer guy" and not "lover" guy. Its also far from my apartment. I want to try to tell her to come to my apartment gym instead, but not sure how to go about it?
GIRL 4
This girl is a different case. She's a hard 9. We hung out/hooked up but never fucked a long time ago, over a year. I see her on Monday and she asks me to text her next time I go to my boxing gym, because that's what we did together but shes never been to a real gym. I was extremely surprised she asked to meet me again, we've seen each other a few times since our first run and she was cold. Looking for advice.
Story:
We had something special, or really could have, but I didn't handle it properly. We met at my apartment gym, she asked me to teach her how to box. I gave her a quick lesson and didn't even try to leave together but did get her number. She approached me and asked for my number. Leave for winter break, see her when I get back and give her another lesson. This guy I cant stand tried to steal her and I played it off. We leave together and go back to my apartment. I tried to escalate but she wasn't having it. I probably could have if I did it now tho, it's been a long time not sure. We end up hanging out every day, she texts me all the time, sends me selfies, etc.
Within a couple days Im at her apartment and this was my chance. I get her back to her room to show me the jewelry she makes, and we start hooking up. Very passionate. But this goes back to my first question with Girl 2: I only had maybe 5-10 minutes to escalate, and I just didn't move fast enough. I really dunno why I've had this problem twice now, because it never has been before. I didn't reach for her pussy when she wanted me too, night game girls seem to give you a LOT longer to escalate. Is escalation from a day game interaction inherently faster paced than night game?
Of course after this theres pressure on it, we take a week off, but she texts me and we start working out/walking and talking every day again. The whole time this other guy keeps trying to steal her and embarrassing himself, literally sitting there while we work out and talking when I go to get a drink. She put him in his place a lot and insulted him while choosing me always, but would leave with him to study every once in a while. Think she was fucking with my head? Either way it worked. A couple weeks after I told her I don't just want to be her friend and I needed space. She was very upset, but she was still interested but it was just a mess by this point.
We see each other maybe once a month just randomly (same apartment), I sent her a text a while ago and she didn't answer. But when we run into each other, she sends off an energy that she regretted how it turned out, wants to talk to me when I'm busy, I dunno mixed signals left and right. I saw her with that other guy a few weeks back. So on Monday I see her, we casually flirt like there was no history at all, and she asks to go to my boxing gym with me again, and I was really surprised.
I texted her today at 230 that I was going to my gym at 5. She texted me at 330 that she had to work at 430 (which was one of her shifts when I first knew her). I texted her, "Better luck with tips! Lemme know when you wanna make time coming up."
Any advice on this one? I really want to fuck this girl and think there is some chance, but it is going to require me to knock every aspect out of the park.
