what age difference is innapropriate or do you (mods + chase + other)

[moom]

I love younger women.

Women over 24 are able to keep me more intellectually stimulated, have better social skills generally, and have some wisdom to them compared to their younger counter parts. All things that make an excellent female friend.

I’ll date a young woman though, bouncy energy, zest for life, tight little bodies, a certain naivete for life.

Obviously not black and white, plenty of old soul younger women and zesty older women.

Current girlfriend is 21 and I’m 29.

 

[Vision]

I'm 40 and I'm dating a 23 year old right now who wants to have kids with me.

I know people who do bigger age differences. In my women's community, many of the women there are dating younger and marrying younger... some of them are married to men 20+ years younger than them.

As far as I can tell, most of the age stuff is cultural... some seems biological... but I've seen some of that biology flipped so I don't even know about that anymore.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Are you saying your game is so good people are jealous and you "see the matrix" so people sometimes think you're evil or shit when you're getting laid more and don't care what they think?

I prefer not to say my game is good.
It's more "awakened".

Now, It can be game. It can be fundamentals. It can be the way you dress. It can be all of it.

I have guys pulling their girls close to them, guy in the bus Infront of me starts thinking that I'm eye-ing his girl thru the mirror reflection. Pretty much many similar experiences without me really doing anything.

I have had girls staring clearly at me while holding their partners hand. I have had "quality" guys feel disappointed because their girl is flirting heavily, and I'm in my head like "what's this girl doing", "what she's trying to do"

In that sense, I am "see the matrix".

I have had girls aggressively be infront of me because the girl is super hot but she is very soft spoken. Girls intervening my interactions more times than I can count.

Now,
There's perception and then there's reality. A guy can be great at picking up girls at a club, will look terrible in daygame.

So it's definitely not jealousy. Jealousy is just a quick and compartmentalize term I use for this post. I believe that it is cognitive dissonance that happens even to high level guys. It can happen to anyone. You believe beautiful women are so hard that when some guy gets her easily, your worldview is destroyed

z@c+

 

[Skills]

too much of an age gap is not ideal for ltr or mains, is too much of an age gap anything over 10 years, recipy for disaster...anything over 10 year age gap good for fun, or fb not to take serious....

 

[Chase]

@Rain,

In this thread I'm talking overall patterns I have seen, anywhere.

Celebrities are the easiest to see it (e.g., Mick Jagger... his most recent baby mama gave birth when he was 72 and she was 29) with but you can find other stories of age gaps that large. I've had a few very young folks over the years tell me about having very old fathers.

In the comment I'm talking about men I have personally known. I have PERSONALLY known men in their 60s who were sleeping with 20-something year-old women.

I wish I could say I have personally known men in their 70s doing that. The only examples I know come via media, however.

Couple questions
1. Where are you hanging out that you're hearing high school girls talk about how sexy sean connery is? Don't take that as judgemental/snarky comment, I wanted to know how you come accross this information that they say sean connery is sexy.

I don't even remember. Have I seen it on TV shows? In person? There are memories there of high school-age girls giggling and talking about Sean Connery's sexiness, but it's so long ago I can't place it anymore. Like 15 years ago or something.

if teenager looking and big fear what if you approach, and find out they are legally too young then what? From the outside it looks really bad. But if you eject, its not really much different from a normal approach, its only if some worse case scenario happens right?

"Oh, haha, didn't realize. You look very mature. Stay in school!"


@Fuck This,

it's not about AGE...it's about relating to life experience.

There are certain breaking points where someone who hasn't experienced that just can't relate to me anymore...

Such as:

High school graduation
College graduation
having a career not just a job
having kids
having Teenage kids

For example...I couldn't be aroused by a woman the same age as my daughters (even if she was of legal age of consent)

If this chart explains it I must be trapped in the Early Adult Transition, because I am way more attracted to women in that age group that women in mine!

I don't think "life experiences" is it though. Too much that fails to explain... like 72-year-old rockstars who've traveled the world, made hundreds of millions of dollars, and fathered children with numerous women entering long-term relationships with women their granddaughters' age and fathering more children with them.

Instead, it seems to be more goals + socialization.

Are your goals camaraderie with someone likeminded to you + you've been socialized to older women?

You will probably date women in your age range.

Are your goals to score with nubile nymphs and/or spread your seed to youthful, fertile wombs, and you don't especially care about likeminded camaraderie and haven't been socialized much to older women?

You will probably date younger women.

Chase