What Articles Would You Guys Like To See On The Site?

[Richard]

Hey everybody,

Title pretty much says it all: What articles would you guys like to see on the site?

Feel free to post anything you personally want to see, and write it out because you want to.

Already have a few ideas brewing for the younger guys (high school and such), so please try to refrain from asking for articles on high school pick up.

Thanks guys,

-Richarddddddd

 

[TomGray]

Perhaps an article on how to explain why we practice pick-up to others? Especially to women. I've sometimes tried to tell people about learning pick-up and I get branded as a player or disrespectful and just out for sex. Or course, it might be based on HOW I am explaining.

 

[Mr.Rob]

A video lay report from handling resistence to orgasm ... ha got you excited (not you Rich) didn't I. NO! Porn makes you stupid!

But for real I think my idea for a video field report would be righteous! Any supporters here guys? Just think about how much we learn from Richards field reports about conversation and vibe from them being written. Now imagine how much you would be able to take away if you could actually see and hear it.

Then again for all I know none of the writers may wish to get miked up and secretly film girls for our learning purposes but hey I think it would be tight.

 

[Eternity]

Something not so much an article but a story about men u personally know that know the game very well and influenced you in a profound, personal way. Also, his experiences, feelings, thoughts or mannerisms you found insightful or crucial for seduction. In essence, someone who has seen it all in the arena of seduction or more than you thought u could ever achieve. I do not have the honor of ever meeting someone who could have influenced me this way. Just reading and trying my luck by myself. Thus, it be kind of cool to go into story mode and learn from someone else's personal experience about men like these.

Just some thoughts, and no you cannot talk about Chase

 

[Supah]

Advice about picking up in college will always be appreciated, also more focussed on college night life, party's.
My problem is that i get so many signals from all over the place that i dont know where to start, to which girl i have to go and talk, etc..

 

[Ryan]

Fashion - how to dress to be attractive to women, formally and informally.

How to progress from opening to a conversation. I never know what to say so there's always an awkward silence after i approached her.

 

[Estate]

I would prefer to hear of your real world experiences. Not long ago you were a student yourself.

 

[Richard]

Right, I was a student for a few months.

After breaking my approach anxiety I was a natural... and learned something new from everyone (both on the site, and in pick up), and I learned fastttt....

Every FR, and LR, and story in the articles is my real world buddy.

Aside from that, Chase wouldn't even let me write if I didn't know what I was doing or what I was talking about...

 

[PinotNoir]

Maybe an article on approaching while doing some type of activity.

An example may be at this place where you paint while drinking wine, which has gotten really popular with women, or at a charity. I still don't know how to approach here without looking like "hey, I just come here to hit on women"... which, well, would be mostly true. Also, my city will sometimes have a big display of art once a year on the street (shuts down the street from cars). Basically, I find it easy to talk with women while just walking the street, but it gets a little more fragile when it's at an activity that is not for approaching women necessarily. It was at least easy talking about the art with women, but sometimes difficult expressing my interest with so many people around.

I also do 5k races. I tried talking to this one girl after, but basically, this guy ended up coming over and cockblocking me haha. I don't know if it was her boyfriend or a white knight.

Also, it'd be great to have a couple more articles on first-date sex. This still seems quite difficult for me. For a girl that I just meet on the street (not drunk at a bar/club), how can I have sex within the first 3 dates? I know there are articles on this, but I still have problems with it.

Thanks

 

[Estate]

Right, I was a student for a few months.

After breaking my approach anxiety I was a natural... and learned something new from everyone (both on the site, and in pick up), and I learned fastttt....

Every FR, and LR, and story in the articles is my real world buddy.

Aside from that, Chase wouldn't even let me write if I didn't know what I was doing or what I was talking about...

Fair enough... well that would be a good article. You mentioned not long back you lived at home and quite far from the city where you'd get to meet a lot of girls and get to practice much.
A lot of the younger guys ask questions like that about getting girls without their own apartments, cars, etc... or even when I was younger I lived in a smaller town where most likely everyone know everyone else in some way... they are challenges for new guys and beginners.

I feel that might be a valuable topic for some guys given you managed to over-come those challenges to learn so fast.

 

[Richard]

Fair enough... well that would be a good article. You mentioned not long back you lived at home and quite far from the city where you'd get to meet a lot of girls and get to practice much.
A lot of the younger guys ask questions like that about getting girls without their own apartments, cars, etc... or even when I was younger I lived in a smaller town where most likely everyone know everyone else in some way... they are challenges for new guys and beginners.

I feel that might be a valuable topic for some guys given you managed to over-come those challenges to learn so fast.

Estate, I've been toying with this for some time now. Younger guys have been asking for advice on high school pick-up, and like you said, managing their logistics, and I've got a few rough drafts on the computer about it. But my situation was vastly different (as I found out) because my dad was okay with it... and like you guys told me, most parents are not. So, it's proving a little difficult for me right now, but I do have a few things brewing for the younger guys.

Maybe an article on approaching while doing some type of activity.

An example may be at this place where you paint while drinking wine, which has gotten really popular with women, or at a charity. I still don't know how to approach here without looking like "hey, I just come here to hit on women"... which, well, would be mostly true. Also, my city will sometimes have a big display of art once a year on the street (shuts down the street from cars). Basically, I find it easy to talk with women while just walking the street, but it gets a little more fragile when it's at an activity that is not for approaching women necessarily. It was at least easy talking about the art with women, but sometimes difficult expressing my interest with so many people around.

I also do 5k races. I tried talking to this one girl after, but basically, this guy ended up coming over and cockblocking me haha. I don't know if it was her boyfriend or a white knight.

Also, it'd be great to have a couple more articles on first-date sex. This still seems quite difficult for me. For a girl that I just meet on the street (not drunk at a bar/club), how can I have sex within the first 3 dates? I know there are articles on this, but I still have problems with it.

Thanks

Pinot,

So basically you're asking about how to act in situations where there are distractions and other reasons for being someplace. Clubs, bars, etc are places where women expect to be hit on and such, but you're asking about genuine social gatherings and still approaching, I like this idea, and I'll see what I can cook up.

Keep the suggestions rolling guys,

-Richard

 

[Ryan]

This might be a bit difficult, but i'm sure Chase could do a very good article on this since he's in China. But if you have experience in this it'll be great if you could do this article too.

Basically, how do you know if the woman who's interested in you/dating you is just dating you for your money/nationality/status and not because of you? And how do you prevent this or turn it around on her?

When i was in a foreign country, i was genuinely puzzled whether girls liked me because i'm a 'rich westerner' and they'll get a lot of shoes and shopping out of me, or whether it was genuine feelings for me.

 

[PinotNoir]

This might be a bit difficult, but i'm sure Chase could do a very good article on this since he's in China. But if you have experience in this it'll be great if you could do this article too.

Basically, how do you know if the woman who's interested in you/dating you is just dating you for your money/nationality/status and not because of you? And how do you prevent this or turn it around on her?

When i was in a foreign country, i was genuinely puzzled whether girls liked me because i'm a 'rich westerner' and they'll get a lot of shoes and shopping out of me, or whether it was genuine feelings for me.

That does sound like a pretty good article.

I think the "not paying for the date" article that chase wrote pretty much prevents this. If you want to pay, just take a girl on a very simple date (coffee, park, home-cooked meal, etc.), and then you'll know if she likes you for you and not because the date is extravagant or because you're rich, etc.

Also, another simple rule is that you shouldn't buy anything for a woman unless you're having sex (shoes, jewelry, etc.). And if you do, it shouldn't be when she asks, just when you want to as a gift.

As far as nationality/status, it would be obvious if she's trying to "show you off." If she's having sex with you because of your status, I really don't see any problem with that haha. But, if it's the first date and she wants you to meet her friends, then turn it down. Turn down any "group dates." Besides being bad in general, this would be a warning flag. If she won't go on a date one-on-one and won't give you sex after several dates (but wants to take pictures of you 2 and show her friends, etc.), then I'd think it's for status.

When you don't do extravagant first dates, pay for things a woman wants (when you're not having sex and not in a relationship), and won't go on group dates, this usually weeds out all of the women only wanting to use you.

 

[DavidEdge]

An article about motivation for beginners. "How to feel motivated when you failed to achieve a goal" ,"How to keep going when you feel like quitting", "How to not feel discourage" I think it would be helpful for a lot of guys including myself. Also, maybe a beginner's guide to become intermediate.

 

[Estate]

This might be a bit difficult, but i'm sure Chase could do a very good article on this since he's in China. But if you have experience in this it'll be great if you could do this article too.

Basically, how do you know if the woman who's interested in you/dating you is just dating you for your money/nationality/status and not because of you? And how do you prevent this or turn it around on her?

When i was in a foreign country, i was genuinely puzzled whether girls liked me because i'm a 'rich westerner' and they'll get a lot of shoes and shopping out of me, or whether it was genuine feelings for me.

To be honest, I would second this.
I live in the States but I've had to learn to filter women showing geuine interest vs. "Oh, I've never been with a guys from <whereever> before".
I guess it depends on what you're looking for, if you're looking for more relationship type material it can be a drag to constantly come up against this.