What Attracts Guys to the Boards; Why Are You Here?

[Rage]

I was asking myself this and wondering about this question; wasn’t immediately sure of an answer.

It’s sort of a correlation vs. causation type of question…

There are many guys really a slew of guys that read Girlschase the main site; but I believe Chase has mentioned before that a small sample of them then go and make it on to the boards and participate and contribute here.

What sets us guys on here apart from all those other guys?

I think that in a lifetime, most guys will run into pua literature at some point or another, whether they read books or not, or are looking to get better with women or not. They will have heard of the term pickup artist, or other related terms and themes somewhere before.

I’m not even asking what makes guys do pickup I think; but really what brings the certain type of guy on to the boards that comes on here?

I don’t know if Chase expected for this or intended this when he created the boards (perhaps so because there have been forums before this one), but the boards ended up kind of becoming a place for guys with certain inclination/certain personality to come.

Like Chase said somewhere before: every guy on the boards wants to be king of the world; and personality wise, choices wise, personal story and background wise, motivation wise, preferences and tastes in what like to read and learn and believe about the world … there are a variety of common variables that probably compose a guy who comes on the boards and stays on the boards.

I’m not sure if a lot else can even be said here, and don’t have a ton of theories as to why we’re on here; I think I’m on here just because I like being productive, being with like-minded folk and gaining value from them and being able to give some back and the boards is a place that allows me to do that.

What would your guys’ motivations and theories be?

Why are you here, what makes you stay, what attracted you to this place and has you remain when so many others maybe come in and filter out? And what do you think motivates others to be here?

Hard to tell with others… sometimes all you can do is know or guess at your own motivations perhaps…

-Rage

 

[Ree]

I want to participate in this as it is so interseting....
why im i here?

1.to learn
Although mostly it is the field that teaches me
2.to socialise
This might seem weird.....but the seducers path is very lonely.....
During nightgame all my freinds wud rather drink and talk abt women than talk to women....letsnot even talk about daygame
Convincing people to daygame is smething that i have tried and failed at miserably....
Most men dont know anything about women.....the worst part is ....uinlike something like computer programing where if u dont know....u know u dont know...when it comes to women...most men think they know.....its so frustrating trying to explain ...that women love sex......or that cold approach works....or that u can approach approaching women as a skill......men are ignorant and arrogant people with no sovial inelligence........women is a topic i avoid because it usually leads to arguments.....so coming to this board....this is a place where ppl get it....it really is a secret society..when i am here i feel like how a gun nut feels surrounded by people that he can talk about rifles with..(other people wud not neccesacarily find the gun nut boring,but they simply do not have enough information for them to have a discussion with.....or worse...they have so much misinformation from movies that they wud just frustrate him if they tried to chip in)........i think any enthusiast feels good surrounded by people privy to atleast some fundamental knowledge they share..

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

This is an easy answer for me. I was reading other PUA website and then I found Girls Chase. The understanding of women and the realization that all the stuff I had learned was so wrong. Of course at first i was skeptical but then I made some of the fundamental changes myself. The effect on women has been amazing. I read the forums and found them so informative. The process is much more complex than most PUA site lead on. The forums give me an opportunity to learn for those with much more experience and also allow me to add in my own experience. It truely have been life changing for me. It is not easy for me in my situation but I am growing as a person because of this site.

I believe the crap that society teaches us about the man/woman relationship is so off that we have a responsibility to try to change this. This forum is one avenue to do so. I believe that many of the world's problems are due to the how men are taught about women. It is so stifling and causes self esteem issues with men that we end up with much aggression in many forms. How many child molesters, terrorist, rapist, murders and so on would be changed if they had been raised to be confident with women?

SGent

 

[Thedoctor]

Rage,

There's actually a thread already on this with some pretty cool responses:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=96

It's under the "Stickied" tab.

-John

 

[Skid]

When I do something I can't just dabble I go all in. Always been like that after reading the site the board seemed like the next logical step to getting better

I wanted to contribute to the community - lots of people diss pua because of the cliches and that. There are girls that think it's a despicable bunch of tricks to get in their pants and break their hearts- when really it's just teaching what people do naturally fully understanding what actually attracts a woman to a man and how the process works. Girls get boob jobs to attract men they want they use makeup and no one criticises that as a bunch of tricks to manipulate men's instincts to get attention. Both sides are just trying to get the best partners they can.

And at its core it's about helping guys who feel like they have no hope ;in the depths of victim mentality who just can't get a girl and they don't know why. I was that guy for most of my life - couple months ago I read the game and that book really sends that message Neil's story how he went through high school and college and was working as a writer he got 6 girls if I remember correctly. That guy easily could have been me actually probably would have been worse. But I'll never forget the one guy on the boot camp Neil goes on and he was a 26 year old dude that was a virgin never kissed a girl never even held a girls hand. Most of the guys that go on the pua bootcamps are similar cases. Imo no guy deserves to live his life without any romantic female companionship unwillingly. I owe this community everything. Just looking at how differently people react to me now and how they reacted me to before is ridiculous.

Also without sounding too much of a nationalist "all for the girls chase website" this place covers everything the sources I used before told me "tease girl , act super confident talk to her in a way no other guy has then get girl". It took me a while but I found that didn't work I followed their model to the letter and girls would still flake in fact 90% of numbers would flake. It didn't even touch on things like fundamentals or investment or attainability for that matter none of it had the depth of this site one of the greatest pieces of advice that I got from here was : have a normal conversation - it doesn't have to be crazy emotional spikes all the time - if she likes you she likes you just don't do anything overly stupid.

I want a girlfriend - but I want the girl I want not what life drops on my lap and I have to accept it.

Skid