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Mr Mistah

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Look at this tweet


What did he do wrong and How would you handle?



My Submission:

- This is a bratty girl that likes to test
- He shouldn't have asked "You dont wanna talk to a handsome dude?" after she broke rapport the first time
- Instead I would have responded with

"Lol We really need to work on your flirting skills."

or

"Lol Charming"
 
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Skills

Tribal Elder
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I banged and dated a girl like her

Never again but she can be seduce treat it like a shit test if you ever want to deal with women like that or move on...

If your goal is to move on " last time I check you don't fuck hairlines but big dicks, thankfully I have both and I see your mouthy you could benefit of inserting something in there"

If your goal is to seduce:

" Well I used to have really long hair and I was not confident as soon as I got the hairline my confidence increase and my attention from women, I never understood why? But then I realized the hair was hiding my booty, sorry I dont send butt pics, but you can see for yourself when we meet"

P.s. Dom was in my private group he gets laid plenty
 

funkyjam

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"Lol We really need to work on your flirting skills."

or

"Lol Charming"
I like this reply in place of what he said. But if you back up to the previous exchange:

Her: "Better now you're here ;)"
Him: "Are you ready for an evening better evening ahead ;)"

Seems like this is where the first issue was because her reply is:
Her: "yeah, when I'm asleep and not talking to you"

Hindsight is 20/20, and it seemed like she was flirting with him from the start, so I hesitate to call his "Are you ready for an evening better evening ahead ;)" line a mistake, but evidently he should have said something less forward. What would have been a better thing to say here instead?
 

rockstar

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Last text is awful - he just gives up on the frame. Two seconds of thought should make it obvious that nothing good can come from sending that.

But it looks like something went wrong before that. I don't really see anything awful about the other two. I mean, the second text is implying a same-night meet right off the bat which is a very low-probability move even with her showing so much interest. So it's not a good text, but I wouldn't expect that response from her. Maybe she thought it was way too assumptive and that annoyed her?

Seems like an abnormal situation to me
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Adventurer

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I agree with rockstar, he jumped the gun with the second text. Explicit sexual invite in the second message is way too forward for an app (bumble from the look of the UI ?) Low value, thirsty guys do this all the time, instant turn off. Not to mention, it was reactive because she called him handsome just before.
 

rockstar

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I agree with rockstar, he jumped the gun with the second text. Explicit sexual invite in the second message is way too forward for an app (bumble from the look of the UI ?) Low value, thirsty guys do this all the time, instant turn off. Not to mention, it was reactive because she called him handsome just before.

I just realized that the clock time was after 11pm, so it's exactly this. Before I was thinking "that's not necessarily a plain hookup invite", but at 11:30 it's going to be read that way.
 

Mr Mistah

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Nothing wrong with that 3rd text imo

Its not outright sexual

And even if it was I believe that if he owned the frame completely he would have sailed through

The guy from PWF has opened with wayyy more forward texts

His niche is also bratty girls

He says that these mean, disagreeable girls are actually just super feminine deep down inside

If you're too nice they eat you
If you ask silly qualifying questions like "You dont like handsome dudes" they tool you
If youre too gamey and break LOLE you lose them

He is my go to resource when studying text game

Watch this video on bratty chicks and notice all the bratty girls agreeing in the comment section

 

foggy

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Taking a look at this text sequence...I see several ways to build & maintain attraction in more productive ways

One is calibrating to the dynamic, like Mr. Mistah is saying.

Another is downplaying her interest.

As in, not assuming her better now that you're here ;) text is an "it's on!" moment. Rather, taking it for what it really is - an encouraging sign of interest - and responding by understating her interest/showing less interest than her. In favor of allowing her some space to express attraction and build compatibility. Which is what she needed
 
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